LIB--don't expect a call back. Some will, many won't.
Those that do are probably take-charge types and don't care what it signifies. Others have high IL or can't restrain themselves (psychos or high IL.)
Those that don't---with or without high IL---do so because it sends too many signals...
3X dare? How do I respond? (I am an old dog you saucy tart! ;) ..)
Probs? Ok--don't see it as problems anymore, just as interesting issues to work through. And those aren't really DJ related. As for DJ stuff---the main thing I've noticed is that DJ'ing for me isn't about picking up or...
I'm not sure if there is a slight misread here or not. It's too close for me to call, so I'll respond with what I think your post addresses (kudos HIPNOTQ, I really appreciate the reasoned, thougt-out approach and the absense of flaming...)
The post you quoted didn't specifically address...
I think she done right. I mean, don't we have enough guys here bytching about women being unable to simply be straight up with a guy and tell him she's not interested--???
Way too many posts like that.
Now one does it and she gets jumped on. Get real--too bad she said it to the guy with...
From my experience, if you just met and asked for a phone number and she replies "give me your number and I'll call.." is bad.
The reason for that doesnt' matter--if she had high IL (which you should be looking for) she would take the risk and give the home phone number (or the number she...
Knew what you felt-- being ignored / treated badly etc. Basically, "this doesn't feel good" or "I'm not enjoying myself" and variations thereon. Your body or gut or intuition or whatever you want to call it is like a sounding board or resonance board (I play guitar, so I look at it this way)...
You waited years, let connections go cold and renewed things out of the blue. It's all new at this point.
Don't sweat it. She won't. And she certainly won't if you don't sweat it.
She may test you with it. Just look at her like she's being silly...
Well, first, do you want to get laid tonight?
Otherwise--call, but not at the specified time. Instead, what would you be doing if she wasn't there? Out having fun? Go do that. Call later in the middle of it.
Reason: what were you expected to do--?? Put your life on hold and wait to...
On balance, you did well.
You're 21. The girls are deep into learning how to play, and as consequence, you're deep into getting played.
Or--unlike most 21 yr olds--maybe you're getting deep into learning how not to get played.
You picked up on the fact immediately that you were feeling...
jeezus...we make a suggestion and he follows up on it....
WTF???
We are not used to that type of behavior here.
Ummm, perhaps as a stand-alone subject, it may not appear. It is a significant subject and usually appears in threads about breaking up and tests and the like. It is...
Don't be naive.
They may or may not toss him out as quickly as they can. It depends on the HR department. Many are spineless @ss-kissers---they like shuffling papers and being chirpy and friendly without doing much work--go to conferences occasionally...
Others take it seriously...
You fvcked the dvck, dude.
Chemistry--whatever. Nice to have it, but it doesn't gurantee anything.
She played you. She knows she can OWN you (and she has...) If she wants to own you again, she might--might--have to almost break a sweat to do it if you put up some resistance.
Next...
You see that flip (no no no suddenly yes..) when the guy they were working on didn't work out. So they return to you. I have no clue if that is the situation here, but that's one possible explanation.
3 posts, guy--have you read the bible and got some of the basics down? You assessed why...
I think the idle on your engine is set too high----meaning, your thoughts are going too fast and spinning without traction. It leads to second guessing, and second guessing those guesses, and indecisiveness and reading into things (and starting the second guessing cycle..) running endless...
The nice guy behind the curtain just asked for a show of hands for a couple of new mods....sheesh!
Wait till he asks for an opinion!
(tesuque runs for cover before the tomatos start flying...)
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