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She probably also likes being restrained and pounded.

But I'm not a girl, so you don't have to listen to what I say. I think you're right, because hearing what one of the women have to say if they received something like that could be more brutal--you'd pay attention to it.

I know exactly what you mean. Women notice things this way, too (ah, the non-stupid ones do, that is...) I think it isn't really a women's thing or a men's thing--it's the pre-qualifying (--that's redundant, isn't it???)--it's a qualifying thing we all do. I see those ultra-long and curved...

She's testing you to see if you're willing to eat shyt.

He could use the system on his wife--it's entirely legit for him to inquire. Doc even addresses Qs from a lot of guys in LTR and married. Anyway--you can get the quick-n-dirty version of doc's stuff from his archived articles here, or at askmen.com, or at his own website. And much of the...

I don't think her point was compromising her standards--more that she was a "girl" who had a basic type---probably the same as all her girlfriends had---and now she's more of a woman and finding that what she responds to is something much different and deeper (and mysterious) than before...

Most times that this comes up, you can tell the guy doesn't have a chance and is nowhere near being ready. You sound like you have a chance. This is rare. What stands out is that it sounds like you have enough interest and enough detachment. You also have a plan and judgment enough to...

I was unclear--??? :confused:

Re: Re: Re: Re: So there's this "playa" at work... Nah, that term is still current in certain parts of the south--I've heard it as "sugar in your britches" as a southern way of saying "gay", which matches up perfectly with the subtext of her teasing MVP--

Long time, Wyld... Sounds like you're on the right track---just a few steps more. You're smart and self-possessed and can give as good as you take. You may be more independent and self-sufficient than what he usually gets. That alone may set you part from every other woman he's dated...

Sounds like she's trying to feel out what you think--and she hopes you confirm it's not a brother-sister thing. In other words, make a move already.

You're really working through this stuff, Jb---nice quotes in there as evidence. I was surprised that I couldn't address the original post for first few times I tried--the Q must've gotten me thinking. The main thing that should be highlighted is that you will go back to almost square one...

Put more "play" in foreplay.

I hear ya... But he's been standing up and showing that he can't be taken advantage of as easily as he was in the past. But he's in a very bad place where his military tags and one-and-only picture of his grandmother are with her. That's a fact--whether his fault or not. I'm usually the...

Like a lot of posts lately, I almost deleted it a couple of times. I tried 2-3 attempts to answer Jbbrain's post and couldn't do it until the last one. And even then... Anyway, DEKKA--it's good to see you hit this shyt head-on. I really like that about your approach--fearless. I've been...

Go over un-announced when you know she will be there and alone. Say that you want to talk, get closure, whatever. At some point, while in the midst of saying that it's good you two can be friends and clearing all this up, ask for the tags and the picture while handing over her stuff that you...

Ok dude, cough up the story: what happened?...

You can handle them pretty directly. The good ones will know that it's none of their business and will blow her off and probably not ever mention it to you. If they do, they'll let you know she's acting out of line and they froze her out. As for the AFCs, just look at them and ask "how is...

How hard can it be? :rolleyes: Look her in the eyes. Motion with your head "follow me" and lead her to a place where you two can talk. You lead, she follows. Ask her name. Give her yours. Ask her number. Go back to your mates. Call her later.