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Just some reactions follow. BTW--you need to hear what NewMan says---he doesn't explain it, but that's the attitude you need to adopt. You're over-analyzing and pvssing out at the moment.

We need to answer his basic question, I don't see it being addressed here. Most of the guys have been here awhile and know all this already because they're discussing it a few steps ahead. So, Jon-boy, lissen up: a) BF goes to military and will be GONE and OUT OF SIGHT a LONG time. b)...

Actually, I think a lot of women marry nice guys. AFCs too--we have enough divorced rAFCs here who can attest to that. What I think the women have done in many of these situations is to settle for what they could get, what they could manage, which is much less than what they wanted. They...

Hey guy Sounds like you're coming to the end of a phase--a focus on technique. So theory and technique meets real experience and there's a conflict---way cool. I think your post is summed up in the phrase "when does the game-playing stop?" ______________ Let's just use the term...

What are the excuses? I see where she couldn't go out for a really good reason---either it was or it wasn't. If it was, then the reason isn't an excuse. If it wasn't, then you have an excuse (which is low IL, which means don't waste time, get back out there!) Is it really a question of...

Start a new thread. This is way the fvck too long.

I dunno Jet, I think your emphasis is misplaced here. It's not so much a man v man thing here as you state it. Sure, partly it is, but the thing I'm picking up from you is something Doc Love would probably point out. It's been 4-5 months and you're still qualifying her! You're seeing if...

This: Here is the bottom line - women have more things of value to say than most guys here realize, or care to admit in the haze created by their gigantic ego. Let's face it - Iqqi's post was pretty solid. It's not something to be tossed aside like a used condom, unless you're a complete...

Good come-back the first time, otr4, I liked that. You shouldn't've caved the 2nd time, though. She asks a 2nd time like that and you are on official notice that this is an ISSUE for her. Challenge her on it. "This is the 2nd time you've brought this up. What does it mean to you?"...

Attaway, Jake... I got tired trying to same the same thing awhile ago and largely gave up the effort...good to see someone else having said it..

I agree with the start small---practice on simply talking with counter-persons, etc. Get comfortable. Then escalate to talking with a stranger--any and every stranger! (ask directions, comment on something goofy nearby, whatever...). Then do this with younger and prettier women. If you've...

Ah, the Clinton definition of sex, huh? She's already having sex. Just for laughs, tell her that. See how she dances out of that (you probably won't ever get laid by her, though..) And she's already had penetration (finger banging). The only thing missing is the age-old missionary...

I wouldn't have gotten upset, I would've laughed. What kind of college-aged group of people get together for a "work" group and then start setting out cliquish club rules like you did in junior high--or not even--in grade school--??? If they have a work group, the group does work, or...

She decided to bring friends--??? She's guaranteeing this is a LJBF date. This may be an issue of semantics, but it's her job to flirt with you, not yours. I'd suggest you be fun and lively, provide stimulation, lead, use kino, etc., and end the date earlier than you want and do it on a...

They do want intelligence, it's one of the qualifiers they use when judging you for LTR potential. We do the same, of course. I can't think of a dumb chick for anything other than a ONS or a short fling. Yet intelligence alone doesn't do it for me--if I don't find them attractive or sexy...

Squirrels had it, they are not mutually exclusive by any means. It isn't one or the other. More like it's blending both and using both at the same time--no two times ever repeat, use it to be unpredictable and spontaneous and fun. Think of sex beginning long before you hit the bedroom (or...

You have before you a perfect, text-book case on how you get to LJBF--complete with sleeping sexless in the same bed! Seriously, though, you are so non-threatening sexually that she can sleep next to you and feel safe and not vulnerable with you. And she probably is deriving some kick from...

I was talking about sex with a friend (female) the other day who let on that it absolutely creeps her out whenever a guy "asked" for a BJ. She wanted him to act and sound like a man and "tell" her to go down, or have her positioned down there. I thought about that and tried to imagine asking...

If you had humongous b@lls, you would pass her off to your friend (kinda like passing down clothes to a little brother.) It doesn't sound like you're there yet or that you necessarily want to be. And if you're not there, helping him get her would be highly compromising and --?? -- chumpy, I...