I keep catching myself checking out his butt...it's quite nice. I'm very attracted to him and he gives the impression that it's mutual. He works hard, is funny and has a good personality. However, he's a bit of a slutpuppy. So I'm weighing in on whether or not I should act on the attraction. Obviously, it's usually not a good idea to get involved with people you work with. This isn't much of a problem where I work because it's so busy that no one has time to act all pissy with people if they're mad at them for whatever reason. Because this guy has already dated a couple of other co-workers I have observed that he doesn't act irrational and mad towards the women he's dated, even though one of them ditched him because he's a player. I also know that I wouldn't hold any grudges towards him if we were to date and things didn't work out. I'm not jealous, either, so that wouldn't be an issue. The next downside is the fact that he's a player. I've successfully contended with this type before and have never been successfully played in the past. Okay there's the background. Now for the request for some input...
If I decide to pursue something with this guy, the fact that he's a player means that I can't come across as eager. I will have to be the one who isn't chasing him but who most intrigues him. Basically, I'll need to get him wondering without making it too obvious that I'm interested. The delicate balance is in not being so much of a challenge that he gives up. So, my goal would be to get him thinking that with a little effort on his part, he could get me interested in him without coming right out and telling him so. He's confident and very good looking, a great body, and is definitely the type of guy who will rise to this kind of challenge. Ironically, he's already trying to play this same "game" with me, but I'm really quick to notice such things, so right now I'm not responding in the way he's expecting/hoping and then later doing or saying something that doesn't fit with what I did or said earlier. Frequently I catch him staring at me with a bit of a perplexed half-grin on his face.
So...any ideas on little ways to pique his interested while not being overtly obvious that I'd kinda like to sneak up behind him and bite his arse?
If I decide to pursue something with this guy, the fact that he's a player means that I can't come across as eager. I will have to be the one who isn't chasing him but who most intrigues him. Basically, I'll need to get him wondering without making it too obvious that I'm interested. The delicate balance is in not being so much of a challenge that he gives up. So, my goal would be to get him thinking that with a little effort on his part, he could get me interested in him without coming right out and telling him so. He's confident and very good looking, a great body, and is definitely the type of guy who will rise to this kind of challenge. Ironically, he's already trying to play this same "game" with me, but I'm really quick to notice such things, so right now I'm not responding in the way he's expecting/hoping and then later doing or saying something that doesn't fit with what I did or said earlier. Frequently I catch him staring at me with a bit of a perplexed half-grin on his face.
So...any ideas on little ways to pique his interested while not being overtly obvious that I'd kinda like to sneak up behind him and bite his arse?
