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    How to [Correctly] Pursue Girls- (video)

    Yes, I will shamelessly bump my own thread.
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    Bringing A Guy Friend With? /Sigh

    The mere fact that she came to the show, talked you afterwards, and agreed to go out again means that she's still into you. Relax. The fact that you were so busy onstage probably added to your appeal, and it seems like she was completely cool with it. Also, it was cool of her to give you a...
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    New Deicide Approach and Lifestyle Journal

    Sounds like you are on the right path. You are sounding much more assertive. I have a feeling that your subcommunications aren't quite down yet, and that is probably your main sticking point. Any way you can record audio of yourself in these interactions? a less than optimal tonality is...
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    How to [Correctly] Pursue Girls- (video)

    There's a popular web video series called, "Simple Pickup" that I encourage EVERYONE to watch. The videos are made to be entertaining and the creators aren't hawking a product, but they successfully manage to strip away the non-essential elements of pickup in a way that no PUA guru has...
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    Phone number then flake?

    Why are you leaving messages? Always text first- not to ask them out, but just to flirt and build some rapport. You are getting flaked on because you are a stranger, and being a stranger is a BAD thing. You need to be joking around with her, teasing her, etc. before asking her out, and you...
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    Where are all the quality ladies?

    Funny video, but completely fake- it's from a viral marketing campaign.
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    Kiss, kino but then I hear "no sparkle"

    This is a bit odd, because usually a girl that isn't interested won't return texts. Your problem could be that you're playing it TOO safe-- escalating fast is rarely a bad thing; if anything, it shows that you are a sexual guy. You need to establish the man/ woman dynamic early on with...
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    Bar Scene Step-By-Step Guide to a ONS

    Agreed- you need to give the girl plausible deniability. If you verbalize something like that, she will be forced to say no so that she won't feel like a slut-- ESPECIALLY since you haven't built any comfort whatsoever. A better idea would be to have her meet you at a bar walking distance from...
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    Bar Scene Step-By-Step Guide to a ONS

    Agreed- you need to give the girl plausible deniability. If you verbalize something like that, she will be forced to say no so that she won't feel like a slut-- ESPECIALLY since you haven't built any comfort whatsoever. A better idea would be to have her meet you at a bar walking distance from...
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    Running out of things to talk?

    This is an easy one: "Ok- your turn to be interesting."
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    I ask her out to a bar, she says "YES!" and invites her friend?

    It could be that you didn't make your intentions clear, or it could be that she's inexperienced and felt "safer" with a friend. I would try it again- this time making it clear with a "I want you to come with me..." statement. Or, if you feel she wasn't all that interested, try to get the...
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    Where are all the quality ladies?

    I think this is true to a point, but I don't think it has to do with the inherent nature of women as much as it does with having too many options. Most guys simply have nowhere NEAR as many options for potential partners as a cute girl; if they did, they probably wouldn't be settling down...
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    Status, medical procedures and being sized up by chicks.

    Exactly. Why shouldn't a woman do what's in her best interest when looking for a mate? Also, you should examine the possibility that she was just making conversation. Remember- it's her job to make patients feel comfortable, and lots of nurses will give compliments like these in order to do so.
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    Where are all the quality ladies?

    This is one of those endless sosuave debates that ultimately goes nowhere, because no one can agree on the definition of "quality." Regardless, I can't resist. Of course girls comes with a wide variety of moral compasses, just the same as guys. It depends largely on their upbringing, on...
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    How to become more sexual

    More than appearance, the best way to come off sexual is to HIT ON GIRLS- in a calibrated fashion, of course. If you're a cool, fun guy that doesn't get rattled by s#it tests, you can get away with saying some downright creepy things. You should ALWAYS make it clear that you aren't talking...
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    Girl says she's either "Down To F" or Not Interested - puts me in the middle

    You need to escalate in a way that doesn't make her feel like a slut. That means that things have to "just happen." If she tells you to come over, say you can only stay a little while so that she doesn't feel pressured to make up her mind about you. The more you bring up sex, the more she's...
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    Girl goes on holiday and says she'll text me when she gets back....

    If it's been a couple of weeks, her interest probably isn't high enough for her to text you back. In this case, I'd send her a text about something random and just try to re-open the lines of communication. DON'T ask about her trip; that would be playing into her frame ("OMG I told this guy...
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    I need a hot date, fast

    Get the idea that you need a hot woman to "impress" people out of your head. Seriously; that kind of try-hard thinking is counterproductive. Bring a girl that can socialize well and that you enjoy being around. If you bring a hot chick that's a stranger, it's going to be pretty obvious...
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    Silly Girl games - cant let her win!

    This girl is an AW, but I hope you learned your lesson from this text exchange. NEVER write something like this to a girl, unless you unequivocally want to place yourself in friendzone. When you VERBALIZE your concern that you might have "offended her" by making a move on her after SHE GAVE...
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    Bottlenecks on the Road to Solid Game- Approach Anxiety

    Exactly. And, keep in mind that a covert signal of interest from a girl (e.g. she looks at you and smiles) is essentially her way of saying, "would you like to come talk to me?" The majority of girls simply DON'T approach guys; they will, however, give nonverbal cues that they want to get to...
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