I need a hot date, fast

[thirdtimescharm]

I've got an extra ticket to a very expensive and exclusive party next week. It's a once in a lifetime thing. I don't want to take any of my current plates, since this will breed all kinds of expectations. Rather, I'd like to find some hot, sexy, stranger who just wants to have fun. But I only have a couple of days. Any thoughts on how to land the fun girl who will make this a night to remember?

 

[Jitterbug]

This is what high-end escorts are for.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

Yes, I could pay, but I've never paid and I don't want to start now. A friend told me she heard of some site that apparently provides this type of escort; if the event is special enough, you don't have to pay a fee. Anyone ever hear of this?

 

[Jitterbug]

You don't have to pay if the event is that special and exclusive.

Down here it's legal so it's pretty straightforward. Don't know about your area though.

Failing that, if you're on some social networking site, just spam a few hot girls. You'll easily get a few yes.

 

[Desdinova]

This is why you should keep a nice selection of women in your life. If you keep enough, you'll always have someone to fill in little spots like this.

 

[Satin]

I don't usually advise this, but a stripper who looks like she won't embarrass you (I know, easier said than done) might be good for a fun night.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

This is why you should keep a nice selection of women in your life. If you keep enough, you'll always have someone to fill in little spots like this.

I have a selection of women. This is such an exclusive event that I think any of the women I know (except ones that are just -friends-) will look at this as a sign of something more. And I don't want to ramp up those expectations.

 

[Lexington]

If this is going to raise expectations for your plates, wouldn't it also raise expectations for any hot stranger you take? If it's purely about having fun at an exclusive party, you should just take one of your best buds. Bros before hoes.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

If this is going to raise expectations for your plates, wouldn't it also raise expectations for any hot stranger you take? If it's purely about having fun at an exclusive party, you should just take one of your best buds. Bros before hoes.

Tempting, but it's a "work" related party and I just started the job last week. So I have no intention of trying to collect any phone numbers, and the bros that I might take are either a) involved or b) not appropriate for reasons I won't go in to. I need to keep my presence professional, but fun. As far as the potential stranger goes, hopefully things go well and expectations are exceeded.

I've gone the social networking route and went on a dating site...have a bunch of possibilities now, and still have one female -friend- that I know I would have a good time with, regardless.

 

[Mr.Positive]

Tempting, but it's a "work" related party and I just started the job last week. So I have no intention of trying to collect any phone numbers, and the bros that I might take are either a) involved or b) not appropriate for reasons I won't go in to. I need to keep my presence professional, but fun. As far as the potential stranger goes, hopefully things go well and expectations are exceeded.

I've gone the social networking route and went on a dating site...have a bunch of possibilities now, and still have one female -friend- that I know I would have a good time with, regardless.

Third, if I were you, I'd take your female friend that you know you would have a good time with.

Remember, this is a "work" related party. The last thing you need is some strange woman getting drunk and embarrassing you in front of your coworkers. Taking a stranger could easily backfire on you, and leave you the talk of the workplace.

I would take the friend, since you most likely know there won't be any expectations from her, just to have fun.

 

[scrouds]

Why do you need a hot date? Prove status at the new job?

 

[Satin]

Agree. I didn't realize it was a work function. Bring a cool girl that you already know who won't embarrass you and that you'll have a good time with.

 

[Jeffst1980]

Get the idea that you need a hot woman to "impress" people out of your head. Seriously; that kind of try-hard thinking is counterproductive.

Bring a girl that can socialize well and that you enjoy being around. If you bring a hot chick that's a stranger, it's going to be pretty obvious to everyone that you were just trying to show off- to them AND to her.

A guy that tries to impress people NEVER comes off as "cool." Bragging and qualifying yourself only works if you're a gangsta rapper, and the guys that are into the idea of "arm candy" are usually just wealthy AFCs. Have sex with hot woman because you WANT to- not because you want to look cool in front of your male colleagues!!

 

[scrouds]

Get the idea that you need a hot woman to "impress" people out of your head. Seriously; that kind of try-hard thinking is counterproductive.

Bring a girl that can socialize well and that you enjoy being around. If you bring a hot chick that's a stranger, it's going to be pretty obvious to everyone that you were just trying to show off- to them AND to her.

A guy that tries to impress people NEVER comes off as "cool." Bragging and qualifying yourself only works if you're a gangsta rapper, and the guys that are into the idea of "arm candy" are usually just wealthy AFCs. Have sex with hot woman because you WANT to- not because you want to look cool in front of your male colleagues!!

Makes good sense, but you can hurt yourself if you bring a girl that's lower then you. Best advice would be to take the hottest plate he has that's good at socializing. If none are acceptable, bring a friend or if appropiate, go stag.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

Why do you need a hot date? Prove status at the new job?

No, status was not the point. I just wanted to be with a woman who I found extremely attractive. Not in the convention sense, but in my personal sense, of dating "my type." And as it turns out, the girl who I found was exactly that. We had a great time at the party, then went out for dinner and drinks after. Yes, it was all kind of conventional, and I truly wanted nothing more than to take her home and rip the sexy outfit she had on off her body. But I held back, even though she gave me some very subtle hints that it might have been possible. She's going away for two weeks on Friday, so the next attempt will have to wait.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

Get the idea that you need a hot woman to "impress" people out of your head. Seriously; that kind of try-hard thinking is counterproductive.

Bring a girl that can socialize well and that you enjoy being around. If you bring a hot chick that's a stranger, it's going to be pretty obvious to everyone that you were just trying to show off- to them AND to her.

A guy that tries to impress people NEVER comes off as "cool." Bragging and qualifying yourself only works if you're a gangsta rapper, and the guys that are into the idea of "arm candy" are usually just wealthy AFCs. Have sex with hot woman because you WANT to- not because you want to look cool in front of your male colleagues!!

The function was actually a concert/party with over 2000 people in attendance. I didn't even see anyone from work who knew me well enough to care, which was totally fine.

I wasn't worried about impressing anyone; I just wanted to push myself by being with a woman who impressed me. And in the final analysis, I got exactly what I wanted.

 

[scrouds]

Sounds like prostitution without the happy ending.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

Sounds like prostitution without the happy ending.

There are times when I'm willing to sacrifice short term rewards for longer term goals.

 

[scrouds]

Well now you got me curious. This chick, she fresh off the street? Been on a few dates? trying to make her a regular thing? I'm curious what the plan is here.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

Pretty fresh. We met Sunday evening and played a set of tennis. She was a college player, and that's a huge bonus for me since tennis is my biggest athletic passion. I beat her 6-3. Very competitive.

So yes, I definitely want to keep things going. In th meantime, I got a message via facebook from someone I met at a party last week who wants to play tennis this weekend, and I'm meeting another woman tonight via another avenue of approach.

I'm gonna freely admit that the one from last night has the potential to make me act all AFC and I'm glad she's going to be away for two weeks so I can get some perspective. The other potential plates won't hurt ;-)