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I find that progress in cold approach pickup doesn't really occur on a linear model. Instead, it seems to come in leaps and bounds, punctuated by periods of no progress whatsoever. Often, major progress comes as a result of addressing major underlying issues. As pickup has already gotten...

I will agree that all women (and men), religious or not, are influenced by feminism, as it has been the prevailing force of social change over the last fifty year. However, it's a pretty big jump to say that the impetus behind a religious boycott of a Playboy-themed tv show is feminism...

Sure, bringing up "marriage" in a discussion like this is hyperbole, but it's still instructive to do so. A relationship IS a waste of time if one of the parties believes they can do better/ deserve better. Plain and simple. It's not hard to meet new women, and it's MUCH easier to cut...

A long distance relationship isn't really a "relationship" at all. How long have you been together? Is there any end in sight to this distance thing? I think you should tell her that you want to take a break from exclusivity until the distance issue is resolved. Be honest and tell her you...

Women will forgive a guy for being overly aggressive if they're having fun; it's as simple as that. You should've tried again later in the night- often, women will deny the first kiss to see how you react. It sounds like you played it cool, so it's possible she would've relented the second...

When guys in happy relationships post here, they usually do so to brag. Do you think you could actually marry this girl, knowing that you secretly made a post describing her flaws on a website like this? Do you think ten years down the line you could show her this post and have her be ok...

This discussion is pretty silly. The boycott comes from religious groups, not feminists. Feminists are at odds with most religious groups because of their socially conservative beliefs. What feminist would support a group that believes that men are meant to be authority figures, as defined by...

The first step is for you to realize that she isn't a 9.9, and isn't "out of your league."

Definitely an accurate portrayal of female hypergamy. Of course, we want to avoid applying the general case to ALL cases, because there are tons of women with exceptionally strong morals, that greatly value the sanctity of marriage. Of course, as men, we often ignore them and chase after the...

Make it Tuesday. When in doubt, always wait a little longer to call/ return calls. Also, don't put any special emphasis on the "date." The harder you try, the more she will be repelled. Pick something to do that you would normally be doing- if she likes you, she'll want to spend time with...

had read a few of your other threads and disagreed with your take on things, but your advice in this thread is spot on as far as I'm concerned.

This is a surefire way NOT to get the girl. The only way she'll give a guy like this a "chance" is if he hangs around long after her sexual marketability drops. Then, she'll lament how "wrong" she was to sleep with all those alphas that actually knew how to turn her on.

No. Asking her to come by to see your boxing gym is completely lame and un-alpha. She knows what's up. I have a feeling she will approach you with some reason that she couldn't answer her phone; just smile and say, "that's cool." Then, backturn. Removing your attention for the time being...

If you want to pull from a club, you need to start going to venues near your place, and always have an "afterparty" ready. It can even be lame- just your roommates and a 12 pack- but you need a REASON to bring girls back. Once you do that, escalation is a piece of cake. Don't overthink...

Jophil was truly a poster that embodied the kind of man we all want to emulate: an inspirational leader, a direct yet respectful communicator, and a wise teacher. Truly sad news- he will be greatly missed.

You are likely already in friendzone, and the fact that you are trying to subtly "game" her is making her uncomfortable. When you spend THAT much time with a girl without making a move, you make it nearly impossible for her to view you in a sexual light. My advice: study the material on...

Don't talk too much, keep things light, and UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES TRY TO DO ANYTHING "ROMANTIC"!! She wants a NSA experience, so the minute you start telling her how "special" she is to you, you will ruin the mood. It's a different game with women that much older than you.

lol @ the arbitrary ranking of women to two significant digits. What the hell is an 8.6??? Sorry, but I disagree completely with this post. If you hide your desires as man and approach a woman as a "friend," then friendship is all you are going to get. Why on earth would you want such an...

You should probably back out of this, because you don't build attraction by having HER take the lead. First date should be something chill, at a venue where YOU are comfortable. I agree about the importance of bringing her into your world. As for how to behave on a date- whatever you do...

Just saw this....don't worry, you're doing fine. The goal is to create options, not necessarily to improve your hit rate. The fact that you are getting lots of numbers is a good thing; now, you just have to push the interaction as far as it will go EVERY TIME. Start going out near your house...