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Well, keep in mind that you don't run into these types of problems with girls that are a bit older and really want to settle down. So, it's your decision whether or not you want to deal with the kind of girls I'm talking about- which are the most attractive younger ones with short attention...

Certainly, your job as a man is to initiate- not just the first, but every date. However, once you've made your pitch, there is little reason to "follow up." If you've asked her out and she cancels, don't say anything--she KNOWS that it's up to her to counter with another date if she wants to...

Not much you can do at this point...your big mistake was rewarding her lack of response to a text by calling her a couple hours later. This gets interpreted as neediness. Add this to the fact that she's 22, and this one is probably not going to go anywhere. However, since you have a history...

One common problem with cold approach pickup (and dating in general) is that you are automatically penalized for being a stranger. You can go out and have a great date with a girl, only to have all the attraction evaporate in a few days as you exchange text messages, trying to plan another...

Telling her you were busy Tues and Wed was the RIGHT move. Her reaction was either an attempt to mask her interest level or just her way of saying she wasn't interested. Being too busy to see a girl will NOT lower her interest like that. The correct response? Say nothing and wait for her...

Hmm, I'm a little concerned about the reactions you've received from women. A daytime cold approach shouldn't result in a "**** off" or a woman telling you to leave right away like that. How is your body language when you are approaching? Are you acting overly aggressive or "thug"-ish...

"Wow, you girls are both pretty cute..I'm not sure who I like better. Are you both single?"

Great thread. When in doubt, "no contact" should be your default response. A word of caution: Don't expect to get serious with a girl that needs all that reverse psychology to raise her interest level; it's only a matter of time before those validation games fail. Keep in mind that a...

Don't ever do this again. Nothing good EVER comes from sending a whiny text like this. Girls flake for LOTS of reasons- you need to accept this. She doesn't owe you anything. That said, on the whole you're making a ton of improvement. Just don't get TOO wrapped up in the theory of it...

That's how it's done. Excellent work.

Exactly.

If nothing else, going direct establishes the fact that you are a confident man that isn't afraid of sex. That's never a bad thing in pickup.

Why does everyone expect this girl to have high IL after one date? Do you guys seriously delete numbers of girls that don't call back right away? Here's the reality factor: Yes, she is dating other guys. Yes, she's not all that invested in you...but that's because you are a STRANGER, and...

Hardly. This girl either has low self-esteem, or just isn't that attractive. Hot, well-adjusted girls will NOT actively hit on strange men, because they don't have to. Furthermore, their looks serve as a filtering mechanism to weed out the guys that aren't alpha enough to approach them...

How are you dressing? Also, how old are the women you are approaching? Keep in mind that women tend to prefer guys that appear to be a few years older than them...if you're dressing like a kid, you're going to be "typed out" right away.

You're doing a great job. Remember, there's always an initial period where progress is very slow. Also, keep in mind that even when you DO get good at pickup, there's still a very significant subset of girls that won't be interested/ will have a boyfriend/ will flake when you try to contact...

I disagree with the OP on this one. Why would you want to trigger negative emotions every time you scroll past their name? Why would you want to remain in touch with a girl doesn't like you? The fact is- getting dumped hurts, no matter how much of a player you are. There's no sense...

That approach was good in that he was goal-oriented and didn't do anything super creepy. However, I thought there was A LOT wrong with it, and he succeeded largely because she was into him right from the beginning. -Saying, "I wanted to come up with something unique to say to you, because...

Cringe city. NEVER have a conversation like this with a girl in the early stages of a relationship- especially over text. What you are doing is playing the woman's role by essentially asking, "where is this going?" I know you didn't say those words, but the underlying meaning was that you...

Look up Sinn's stuff. I highly recommend the majority of what he teaches- the basic gist of it being to show INTENT without acting weird. If you're a good looking guy, girls that are "available" will usually be very receptive of you at the onset. All you need to do from there is not screw...