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    Anyone find Spinning Plates more exhausting than you think?

    I agree. Also, if you're sleeping with a women, the relationship ceases to be "casual" in her eyes, no matter what you tell her. There will eventually be a push for commitment, angry conversations, etc. It can be an extremely frustration situation. You have to decide early on if you see...
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    THE TRUTH: Female Friends

    Agreed-- socializing should NOT be a mental chess game. It's fun to think about these things in theory, but in practice you are NOT going to be the great manipulator of social order that such plans would suggest. The best bet for meeting lots of new women through your social circle? Host...
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    Worried about attachment.

    heh, I've dated girls that talk like you. Not making a dig- just pointing out that women ABSOLUTELY DO get attached...and usually to guys that aren't really all that sold on them..kind of the converse of your situation. We've all been there before, though--the first time you get dumped is...
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    Potential of Reeling in a 9.5..

    You need to make her qualify herself to you first and foremost. Don't act like she'd be doing you a "favor" by getting coffee with you; flip the script and make her tell you why she's special. Forget tea and stimulating conversation; you need to find a way to get physical with her after...
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    She was an 8 or so i thought....help with new girl!!!

    You are troubled because er behavior IS odd. A women should not exhibit such high interest so soon; that is the mark of desperation. A sane woman would let you pursue a bit, even if she REALLY liked you. As for the "looks" issue, I've find that it is REALLY difficult to feel good about...
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    Girl IOI's a lot but pulled away from kiss

    You played it right. The "try again" approach is actually pretty fruitful if used on a girl that is clearly attracted to you but still pushes you away. A girl dodging a kiss isn't really a rejection unless she gives clear signals that she isn't interested in you. Really, just sitting...
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    Bad Aging In Men

    Energy25- Why would you negative rep me and call me "dumbass?" Because I disagreed with your point of view? Bad form, my friend. The reason this is a FORUM is that so members can openly share ideas, engage in debate, and ultimately draw their own conclusions, informed by the input of...
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    Bad Aging In Men

    So, because another person is there, it's ok? Yet, it's unhealthy when you are by yourself?? How does your body know? What if you jerked off in a room sprayed with female pheremones- then what?? Do you see where these assertions that you make might be considered un-scientific?
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    Bad Aging In Men

    Say you don't jerk off but instead get a lot of BJ's...is there a difference? Enlighten us dubmasses.
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    Bad Aging In Men

    You look fine. Get rid of the soul patch and go to the gym. Your eyes are fine, and your features are normal. You should NOT be having so many problems. Your lack of confidence is to blame- i know... you don't want to hear that, because you want to believe it's something superficial...
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    Should men feel insecure about their physical looks?

    Of course...but, on a large scale, they're still outliers. The girls that are into very feminine guys seem to be girls that feel threatened by men in general, or too young to really have experience with men--just my observation. Besides, the SoSuave model has always been a "numbers" game...
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    Should men feel insecure about their physical looks?

    The fact that this comes up so often on here seems to be a reflection of the culture we live in today. Masculine behavior is punished in children, and men are encouraged to forego their true utility and become more nurturing and sensitive. It makes sense, then, that men will start worrying...
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