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    I messed up.. advice please?

    That's why you wait until a couple of weeks after she gets back to contact her--if she answer's, she'll listen to what you have to say. If she doesn't answer, or call back, don't bother.
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    DJ Boot Camp week 1 thursday

    Start slow but push yourself to do your best. Doing nothing is worse than rejection--Good luck.
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    I messed up.. advice please?

    I just realized that i had to tell you something. It seems like you are seeing what you want to see, as opposed to what you need to see. Go find someone else, but be her friend--if she is still up for that. Having female friends is social gold.
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    Whoever thinks that a guy should pursue the girl is wrong

    Besides that, when you make them be the ones that are more aggressive than you, if you do end up have a relationship with one of those, guess who is in charge of the relationship--yep, she is.
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    I messed up.. advice please?

    Bottom line dude is she doesn't see you as anything more than a friend--and maybe not even that now, judging from the end of your post. If you call her, which I wouldn't advise, let it be for about 2 weeks AFTER she gets back in town--that will make her wonder what you've been doing...
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    These boards are doing well.

    This is the major obstacle in most guys' lives--have confidence in yourself--and your life will improve.
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    What is going to happen here? Need advice, or just thoughts.

    A little something to add to this: Whether there are people around or not--when they begin talking, you can isolate her through conversation--that no one else will be listening to. Sometimes, that's tought to do, and sometimes it's really easy. BAsically, if an opportunity presents itself to...
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    Her Dating websites

    Well, the fact that she had a dating site in the first place is strike #1. The fact that she didn't tell you about it is strike #2. And the fact that she threw a b1tch fit is strike #3. She seems to be playing with you--if you take her back, which you shouldn't, it won't be for that long...
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    A hard to get, but still want to get..

    That is the best thing you can do right now.
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    meet the girl and just kiss her! (at the club)

    Keyword you use here is slut. Any girl who will kiss me without talking with me first is easy and not worth my time. And my time is precious, so I spend it wisely.
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    Approach Journal

    you're doing good When I first started doing approaches, I had a terrible time transitions the convo, too. The key is to try to ask questions where she will talk, maybe have to elaborate a bit (open-ended questions); It's kind of a step-by-step thing. As she is answering, insert little...
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    Hi guys

    I wanted to add something to my previous post: Here's something that has helped me out tremendously: At any shop/food joing/department store, they have female cashiers: Talk to them. I love starbucks, and I go in there quite a bit--I talk to them--don't even know their name, but it's a...
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    Hi guys

    Re: hm.. Until I experienced rejection the way I have recently, I was always deathly afraid of it, which cause me to think too much. How the hell am I supposed to know if most people feel the same way that I do. The only way you'll know how you feel about rejection is to get out in the...
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    body language...what do u think of this

    If he is interested in a date with you, he will call you. If he isn't, he won't. It's pretty much that simple. You may have messed up by being a little too aggrerssive with him, b/c now he knows that you will come running to him the day he calls you. (I'm not saying you'll do that, but in...
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    Is looking too young bad?

    It only matters if you don't like looking young--because it will play out in your personality. Just approach girls, use your game, and either get the # or the rejection--doing something is better than doing nothing.
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    Field Report--Number Success, many rejections

    bump any thoughts, guys? By the way, at some point in our convo, I found out that she used to be a stripper.
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    Is it true, that all guys suck bad the first time they have sex?

    All I read was the topic. I went for a couple hours the first time I had sex, and went three more times that night. So, no it isn't true that all men suck when they have sex the first time; however, it is true that some guys do.
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    Field Report--Number Success, many rejections

    Wel, I went out tonight, in a shirt I bought today--it wasn't exactly what I wanted, but it was the best I could do in a small town. Basically, I was wearing black jeans, a black belt, black shoes, and a white shirt with blue print (no text on it, just some kind of pictures)--a pattern--and my...
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