Porn does brainwash many many guys. With women, they are emotional creatures for the most part. For an enjoyable first time, you'll need to warm her up. I'd say start with a nice massage 3 mins or maybe 4 max. Move up, kiss her neck while stroking her hair (if she has hair....i'd hope so). You should do that for about a minute maybe even a minute and a half. Slowly begin to move down to her upper chest right before you get to the breasts. While you're there you should one of her hand and massage it while kissing that area....be sure to use a little bit of tongue...not too much tongue....just use the tip of your tongue and imitate how a snake thrusts its tongue. Do it with rhythm use the tip of your tongue. Be sure to do each side. I'd give it about 4 or 5 minutes on that. Move down and skip her breasts....it's an unpredictable tease if you do so....and move to her abdomen area and kiss....I'd recommend using you the tongue for this area...If you decide to use your tongue....do semi long strokes with the tip of your tongue......your tongue should barely be touching her body. She should experience a tickling sensation when you do this. Kiss for for 10 secs and then use your tongue for 5 seconds and then go back into kissing. Now, while you kiss, you should give a light massage to the ribcage area...and then use the tongue again...be sure to look into her eyes this time...and then continue back to kissing. I'd say you should give about 30 secs to a minute on the abdomen area. Move down to her pelvis area. right for you reach her c!it a kiss that area....definetly use your tongue and tease it. You can combine semi long tongue stokes and snake tongue thrusts to give much pleasure. For that area.....massage her upper thighs while you do this. I'd say that maybe 3 or 4 minutes would be good for this area...because it'll make her hot for ya.....If tries to get up, light push her back down.....and then go into the inner thigh area....right before you get to her pu$$y....You can do some major teasing around this area with kissing and doing a little something that I like to call the tongue slide...basically...the tongue slide is doing the horizontal version of the semi long stroke....all you need to use is the tip of your tongue and go from one side...and kiss....and then go to the other side and kiss....to make her even hotter....during the middle of one of your tongue slides....be very light circle her outer pu$$y lips...do it once counter clock wise...and then kiss....and then go back and do it clock wise and kiss....I would rub her leg while I did this......
At the very end....pretend like you're going in for the "kill" to eat her out......get you mouth close enough that she can barely feel it....and then....STOP....you can do this for about..that process should take about 4 or 5 minutes....and then whisper in her ear....."It's your turn".......and then if you did it right...she'll be ready to give you your pleasure.....there you have it...your sample of foreplay.....if you do things my way...you should be able to get about maybe 55 minutes maybe longer of good foreplay....because remember, she's going to want to do you well.....
After her turn....you may then give her the extra treats.....like nipple licking and eating her out.....but for nipple licking....use the tip your tongue and go in a circular motion....counter clock wise around her nipple...and then suck...for about 7 secs...and then go clockwise and suck....basically, you can be creative with this....whatever you think feels good....just make it flow.......
for eating her out.....I'm going to tell you that....the out area of the pu$$y is the most sensitive area (besides the cl!t).....just work the out area first and then if you want you can go inside of it....that's up to you....but if you don't want to...you make your way up to the cl!t...no biggie...and play with it...very similar to the nipple licking.....actually...you'll be doing just about the same stuff.
and then after that you can get her to do more stuff for you....for example....she just may want to suck ya...if you do everything right.....
between all of that...you've got probably about 1:45 minutes or more.....
Note: Be sure to do some massaging....but find a different area....don't go back to those areas mentioned...unles it's the inner thigh.....
After all that...you can figure out how to get her ready for the intercourse.
In which you will probably need to learn a couple of tips on how to hold in the ejaculation. It's not that difficult...just relax...
By the way...when you're inside of her...switch you thrust positions and angles....the higher the angle...the more intense.....learn how to tease her with intensity.
Good luck.