OP, I get this from all women, married or single.
I think looking down is their way of acting when you have a greater value than them. Not necessarily interested.
Lol man, I would kill to be in your shoes right now.
Depends on what are you looking for, but you can control where this is going, easily.
Regarding the cancelled date, tell her you want to take it slow for a while, enjoy her company, etc.
You dont ask for sex.
You ask for dates, create rapport, escalate physically and then sex will happen.
you get over the anxiety of approaching by purposely talking with other girls for whom you dont have any interest (uglies, cashiers, waitresses, etc).
OP, all the guys who replied have a good point, you should pay attention.
In my opinion, you do WAY too many ****ing activities together. You are rewarding her for ****ty treatment.
Ryan, if you want to deal with her in the future, answer her text with "No worries, when you are free to drop by my place with a bottle of wine?".
If you dont want to deal with her, dont answer at all.
Keep it simple.
I can't believe that we are discussing a normal situation. Rick went on date, had fun, got a kiss.
Call her and ask her again.
Tomorrow we will discuss about why the Sun is rising.
Jesus.
It is relatively well known that injuries and surgery make the body focus all resources on healing, including hormonal response. You will be back to former status when the physical injury fully heals.
Just to reinforce what me and ohrein said earlier:
Met this woman today by chance, who is flirty and interested since almost a year. I didnt make a move because she is a coworker, but I did reciprocate some of flirting.
In previous interactions I held my frame, acted aloof. Today I saw her...
Much truth in this, especially number 2 case.
I see men and women in relationships just for the sake of being in one.
Obviously men and women in this type of case +will+ actively look for better.
Dave, looking through your messages I see myself. Good looking, good dresser, enough money and successful in my career, wanting quality women.
I spent 20 years overthinking like you, and I am 40 now.
These thoughts will remain with you forever but you have to learn to supress them and just go...
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