Eye Contact, lil smile and look down while passing by

[oc16]

Does this always mean she is interested or is she just being friendly? and how do you manage to talk to the woman in this case.

Example: I was at an outdoor festival today with over 1,000 people. There was a tall attractive brunette with a baby in a stroller in my vicinity. She did not glance over at me even once.

Later on about an hour, I was browsing some of the vendors. I passed by this same brunette, we made eye contact, both smiled and then she looked down. It wasn't a long gaze or anything, just a brief exchange? Was she interested or just being friendly?

Also, I believe there is really nothing you can do in these situations, even if she was interested. I mean what are you supposed to do? Walk right up to her real quick right after she smiles and introduce yourself (wierd); do an about face and start following her? (again, wierd)

I guess the only thing that can happen is to find yourself in her proximity again and see if you get anymore eye contact.

This situation, is totally applicable to anywhere else. Supermarkets, Hardware stores.

At least in a bar when this happens, she will still be hanging around and you can explore the situation more without looking like you are following her.

Agree?

 

[Billtx49]

Read up on cold approach Day Game, and generally it’s a good sign if she looks down vs. sideways away from you…

 

[Reykhel]

Does this always mean she is interested or is she just being friendly? and how do you manage to talk to the woman in this case.

Example: I was at an outdoor festival today with over 1,000 people. There was a tall attractive brunette with a baby in a stroller in my vicinity. She did not glance over at me even once.

Later on about an hour, I was browsing some of the vendors. I passed by this same brunette, we made eye contact, both smiled and then she looked down. It wasn't a long gaze or anything, just a brief exchange? Was she interested or just being friendly?

Also, I believe there is really nothing you can do in these situations, even if she was interested. I mean what are you supposed to do? Walk right up to her real quick right after she smiles and introduce yourself (wierd); do an about face and start following her? (again, wierd)

I guess the only thing that can happen is to find yourself in her proximity again and see if you get anymore eye contact.

This situation, is totally applicable to anywhere else. Supermarkets, Hardware stores.

At least in a bar when this happens, she will still be hanging around and you can explore the situation more without looking like you are following her.

Agree?

You are too much in your head.

You are also seemingly waiting for permission to talk to people (you're trying to interpret her behavior to see if she's interested/wants you to approach)

There are posters on this website who have this mentality: The wait for a subtle sign from a woman before approaching (in daygame). My argumnet before was the following: What if you see a hot woman across the street and she doesn't even see you.....but you'd like to approach....what do you do? say "damn, seen as she hasn't given me permission, now I can't talk to her" I disagree with this mindset.

If you want to spark up a conversation with someone.....go for it. Give her the gift of conversing with you (not in a delusional sense, but work at being someone who brings fun and is interesting.....thus really you are giving her the gift of your present)

Once upon a time I went on an extensive travel....solo. Now, I had the choice....stay alone or go talk to people. There's no time for thinking "oh am I disturbing them etc" All that is introverting inside your own head and it's not healthy.

Don't think about, you've got nothing to lose

Who dares wins

 

[spred]

OP, I get this from all women, married or single.
I think looking down is their way of acting when you have a greater value than them. Not necessarily interested.

 

[IKO69]

It's tough to say - it can be 50/50. Sometimes it can be attraction and other time they can just by shy because you looked at them......BUT not necessarily "interested" if that makes sense. One thing I know for sure though is if they look upwards or something don't bother approaching. They are essentially rolling their eyes. I usually laugh and am like yeah whatever **** you. Always keep it moving.

I generally only consider women who meet my look and smile directly back. That is maybe once or twice a week. The looking down thing happens quite a bit every time I go out but once again I don't put much stock into it because of the uncertainty. Maybe i'm missing opportunities, who knows.

Btw, there is nothing wrong with directly approaching a woman after she gives you a favorable look/invitation. You have nothing to fear and can practically say anything.