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You are absolutely right. I've been thinking back at our interactions and message history over the past year. Conclusions: - all the interactions (messages, phone calls, dates) that I initiated were countered and made happen on her terms (timing, location, sequence). I have tested this...

I am feeling it a lot, it's just too good to be true based on my dating experiences. You are correct regarding being more intentional, I will act on your feedback. Thanks a lot.

She has all except age: good looking, not playing games so far, good financial, taste in clothes,furniture, very high interest, zero drama, zero flakes I know what you are saying, at 44 I should date max 44/2 plus 7, meaning 29 :)

Hello, long time member and reader. Can't post in Mature man so I ask here. Me: 44, not married, no kids, very good job, leadership positions in big companies (good social value) Her: 40, not married, no kids, good looking, workaholic, leadership positions in manufacturing. Met online 1,5...

You should pay a doctor to clear your questions regarding who gave who what. Your bigger problem is that you have unprotected sex with skanks and they have sex with other guys. Dying of aids or other sexually transmited disease is not a joke, stop the drugs and alcohol and screen your skanks.

Lol Ranger @ poem

At your age you don't get naturally depressed in the winter, it's the f0cking drugs and alcohol and seeking validation through sex. Get a break from all of it and you will return to normal. A vacation in Miami will start your recovery, don't rely solely on it. You actively have to stay away from...

Buyer's remorse if they're ugly or below your perceived standards

Fear of intimacy, maybe birth mark, burn, some kind of perceived physical defect.

Murk you are as good as married now. Run to the woods and come back on 10 years

I don't blame you, this was bound to happen. Raw dog, creampie?

OP, the best revenge is living well. Plenty of fish in the sea, majority without bpd.

What devilking said.

OP, I am the guy at work in your case. Obviously not that person, but figuratively. AJ is right about the context for the guy. What will help your sister is to show interest in two or more separate occasions, so the guy gets the point that she is interested more than friends. Btw men don't...

100% yes

OP is going through an experience and is telling us about it in detail. Let's not be hypocrites and blame the guy for thoughts and actions that all of us have.

Good idea, not confronting the issue right away will also get hamster spinning, assuming she thinks the other guy will make you jealous or get a reaction out of you..

"Next time you bring a guest, let me know through a message" In this way you assert your ownership of the house and not appear affected by her dude. Also if she supposes anything, it will be her assumption, not yours.

She is a woman, likely will take the Sophie announcement as a payback for her bringing the random dude, Also if you talk about responsibility, your house (which are true), she will also take that as butthurt because of the dude. My advice is not to talk in these terms, but rather let her know...