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A lot of thruths in this Pandora, I agree from my limited experience.

I agree with Dash. Be a f00cking man and tell in person. Dont be a coward, text and hide away.

Day 40+, urge to do it disappeared completely. Feels good!

I have a similar situation at the moment. My advice is for you to break down all past and future interactions in two cases: 1 when other people are around and 2 when only you and her interact. If in case 2 she gives all signs of interest and in case 1 little or none, she is concerned about work...

Day 30. First 20 days felt the urge to do it, not very strong, but still. Since a week - 10 days, all back to normal. Positives: a little bit more energy, easier to approach girls and thinking/speaking is more clear than before.

Somebody else said recently that you should approach in person if you know you will meet her again, or use FB like you say if you are sure you will not meet her in person again. Anyway, use FB only to get number and use phone to set up a meetup with her.

You can read the forum without being a member, true then and true in 2017. You are correct that women have changed, however if men would have adapted to it, we still would not have so many complaining threads.

SS in 2000's : guys who came here to share experiences and get better. SS now: lots of whiners and PUA fails who come just to complain and b1tch about girls/women

Try out new things and see the results. Definately changing your look will make you feel good and will improve your confidence a little. Dressing up more than others for any occasion will send a message. Women dig slimmer guys, use this for your advantage.

Tell us your age and what circles you hang out to get women. For me, since I was 30, I switched to white shirts, black pants or jeans and polo shirts. It worked very well because I am tall and big, but no muscles. 2 years ago I added blazers/coats to that and I am getting more attention from...

I am almost 40 and decent looking, started to dress more mature/ smart casual, lost some weight, and I am getting attention from 45-50 good looking women. Same age women and younger treat me the same since the changes, but 95 percent of older women either compliment or flirt.

I am in a very similar situation to you (age and opinion on women and society) I am trying to see things on a case by case basis and not fall in the general theory. No towel throwing yet, you never know when you meet somebody who is the exception to the rule.

I will meet her next week or the other after two weeks break, I will see where things stand. My gut tells me she has a huge crush and got lukewarm signals from me, and she is not sure how to act next. My SMV is way higher than hers. I will keep you updated.

I think breaking down girls in two categories (your acquaintances and hers) fits the "we are together but have options" mindset. Gaming her friends might bring drama and collision of "unverses".

Update: Met one on one by chance in passing, both held eye contact for 10 seconds, exchanged hellos,no smiles though And now she purposefully avoids being alone with me :)), but I keep catching her staring at me when I am not looking, she looks down when I am aware AW or shy?

Thanks for the response resilient. I've been ignoring coworkers for 10 years but this one stands out by her persistence, thats why I posted about it.

Hello, long time lurker (2005), read most of materials and the forum, not a dj but I am improving and recognize women behaviour, what to do, what not to do. So I have moved in another city, at a very big company (> 3000 staffers), getting a lot of attention from late 30's early 40's women at the...