Epicurus
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 20, 2017
- Messages
- 231
- Reaction score
- 254
SS in the early 2000s
SS in the current day
THE PERFECT DON JUAN
He asks for a girl's phone number when he FIRST meets or sees her. Not one month later.
He always asks for the HOME phone number. He walks away if he doesn't get it.
A Don Juan always waits four or more days before calling a girl. She must wait.
A Don Juan never arranges a date face-to-face with a girl. He always calls first. She must wait and wonder about him.
He sees a girl ONLY once a week for the first three weeks. He has to 'clear' his dates with other women. Or pretend he is busy with other women. He says he is busy if she wants more.
A Don Juan never gives flowers, cards, or gifts for the first two months. Her birthday is the only exception .
He never talks over an hour with a women on the phone. EVER. Twenty minutes is tops. He avoids contact with her. With e-mails and messages, etc. between dates. He calls once to arrange the next date.
During the first three months he tells her NOTHING about himself. She has to ask. When asked, he gives only tiny itty bitty pieces.
He waits for her to say 'I love you' first. Then he knows she really means it.
A Don Juan never says 'I love you' before two months. Ever.
A Don Juan NEVER proposes before six months. He prefers to wait one year. All minor flaws must be seen.
A Don Juan never lives with a women. He is a free man. He will marry the BEST when he meets her.
A Don Juan only FOCUSES on the romantic side of a women. He knows long talks lead to friendship not LOVE. He knows being a mystery fascinates her and makes her WONDER and WANT him.
And lastly, a true Don Juan
makes sure the relationship is 50-50. HALF of the time she is doing what HE wants to do. He feels this in his stomach. Not head.
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SS in the current day
About a month ago I met this stripper. Knowing that being a stripper she probably was crazy I was just planning on smashing and dashing so I wasn't planning on putting much effort into her unless she came to me. I don't recommend going for strippers they usually have BPD but if you go in mentally armed the sex can be worth it. You need to have a few BPD under your belt to do this so I don't recommend it in most cases but lets be real no guy is turning down a 10. I don't want to hear don't get involved with a BPD, obviously I was just trying to bang her..
We ended up working out together at the gym one time..I felt the attraction and we were flirting etc. We made plans for breakfast that weekend and she bails last minute. I delete her number. To my surprise, a Few days later she hits me up...
her "hey"
me "whatsup? so when am I seeing you"
her "next week after Christmas when I get some free time"
me "thats too long. I like to go for chicks when they are fresh in my head"
her "lol well we can get together soon"
We had plans to hang out today and she finally breaks down...
her "I have to tell you something "
me "what?"
her "I know you like me...but I can't keep doing this. I have a boyfriend. Im sorry but thats why Ive been giving you the run around. I can't workout with you or hang with you because I don't want to lead anyone on or be unfaithful to him. Things are serious between us"
me "You've had a boyfriend for two weeks? Why not be straight up"
her "I was talking to him way before I met you. We got together before you and I worked out together that time"
So it turns out this chick contacted me three days after she was "official" with this dude. So much for being loyal lol. I could tell she was fighting the attraction with me when we hung out too.
Based on the above how long do you think it will take before I can get this broad to cheat on him with me?