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you need to reread this post. its the most important aspect that you need to realize, especially with the loss of interest. with that said there is only one way to get her back. thats doing no contact. do not call her or email her or text her. the point behind this is it increases her...

in this situation it probably doesnt matter either way. i would just go to the bar and have fun and not worry about whether she is there or not. if you are leaning towards texting her then keep it short just saying something like boating got canceled ill be heading to the pub. then just...

i think you guys are reading too much into the laying naked and hot tub thing. this girl has mentioned she doesnt want to be like evrry girl and give it up to me first night, she wants it to be special first time yah dah yah dah. so third daate we go back to her place and we were both drunk so...

just out of curiosity, assuming things changed because of the lack of degree, do we still have a chance or is it done from what you guys have experienced?

its definatly a test. i would responde, " perfect cause actually i totally forgot but its my friends gf birthday and i needed to go there. ill call you in a couple days and lets reschedule." then wait till next thursday and set something up. if she flakes then obviuously she isnt interested...

i agree with others, too much talking and not enough seeing each other. i have a feeling she will end up flaking out when you do set a date to go out but im crossing my fingers for you... i also did not like the fact that she was stating how broke she is and how she needs money. It kind of gave...

i didnt read all the replies but i was in a similar situation with my ex couplee years ago. we did no contact then she texts me 6 months later saying she had a dream about me. i think all that matters is if you want to get back with her. if you are over it, then continue no contact and keep...

yeah i feel i should have fondled her in the hottub however everytime ive seen her before that ive done the kino thing so i figured i was going to wait until we got back to her apartment, plus there were other people in the hottub. jophill- you are right, i did see that she wanted a...

i was glad you responded jophil because you always seem to hit me with advice that is dead on, however with what you said here i have to give you a lil more detail. so after date 2,3 and 4 ive made my moves as far as sex goes. weve gone through the make out, lay with each other naked, and...

so since ive broken up with the ex been going out with tons of girls. nothing great bunch of 6s or 7s. met this one girl that is an 8. weve been on the same page and been bonding great. both of us on the same page. been getting great vibe from her. ive been out with her for about 4 dates...

jesus, i didnt bother reading the whole thread. but i read your post, then i read kailex. kailex is right on. you are way too needy. after she dissed you online the first time you should have waited one to two weeks then if you were desperate attempt again. but you are way too persistant and...

i realize this is an old thread but i wanted to bump this because spanky and mr. me's advice is the best ive ever read. in all honesty i have bookmarked this into my phone and anytime i ever get sad thinking about my ex or think down, i read this thread again, and to anyone that ever gets down...

i think there is really good advice on this thread for you but i just wanted to share a similar experience that i witnessed.. years ago i worked with two individuals that were both in their own relationships. the girl i worked with was 22 at the time and engaged to a 30 year old that she...

sometimes we know the obvious answers of what to do... we just need to hear the obviious advice over and over. i know how i sound when im typing on this forum and in all honesty i probably over dramatize my feelings but the fact of the matter is i do feel better when i read all of your...

thanks for all the replies guys, i really do appreciate it. some more info.. it is 2am right now. i just got back from my date with this girl. we went to the shooting range then went to a local bar for some drinks. things were going really well when ironically my ex shows up. she shows up...

thnks beyond charm thats some relly good advice. i was thinkn bout joining an mma class maybe now is the time.. on a sad note, i dont know what i am passionate about. theres nothing that i really can get excited about. im in paramedic progrm but evenb with that im not truley passionate asbout...

kailex, thnks for the input.. i did need to hear that. i agree with everything you and roman god are saying however id like to add one thing... ive been reading (forgot whos thread) "wife rejecting my new ways" and i believe it was my fault she was treating me bad towards the end.. i allowed us...

thanks for the reply roman, i guess im really afraid of her having sex with another guy if i do no contact with her.

so as you might have read on my previous threads my ex and i broke up. i was living at her house we were in 2 year relaionship etc..we ended on very good terms so the past month and half (since we ve been broken up) we have still seen each other and even had sex twice. I know, bad idea, when...

powerlifter, we are all here to help each other out. he should have started his own thread but anyway. with pulling back, i would not call her or see her for atleast 2 weeks. since she doesnt have your phone number it does make things tough. fter the 2 weeks maybe go visit your friend at a time...