REQ: Suggestions for gaming much younger hotties

[Nutz]

Just looking for some suggestions about dating much younger women. I'm 33 and one of the girl I'm talking to is 18 and a hs senior. She's megahot, but lives with her mom. Mom is decent as well, but late 30s or early 40s and doesn't really interest me.

I've been running strong online game on her here or there, but I need to get her out in person asap before it fizzles, if it's not too late.

She's been qualifying me to her and herself to me and we just got past the age issue as far as I can tell. Just need to qualify her a bit more I think and seed a meetup. And that's my biggest problem. I have no idea how to get an under-21 out to meet me. What would we do? Go to the mall? This is where you guys come in.

 

[PokerStar]

mmmm the young
so innocent
so tasty
no loyalties
no life experience.

 

[Don Israel]

I'm sure you can figure out where totake her. Just bear these two things in mind :

1. Young women are even more so receptive, to action-related dates/outings.
2. Younger women tend to be more direct and expect you to either agree to where they wanna go or they expect to take command and TELL HER where you guys are gonna go.

 

[Nutz]

Well, getting her out won't be a problem. I just need to figure out a simple activity to do. Here's the log of how things have progressed...

First email chain that got things started:

Me: February 19 at 10:02pm
One of these days you'll have to explain how a HS Sr pulled off driving a Hummer. So jealous. Next you'll be announcing you're going to France or Italy for the weekend!
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Her: February 20 at 6:08am
Well my mom wanted one. So she got them.
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Her: February 22 at 6:42am
I just took one for a drive yesterday. I'm pretty good at it actually


Second email chain where things take off. Notice she started this one before the other one was through:

Her: February 19 at 8:03pm
Are u in the service?
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Me: February 19 at 9:54pm
Air force reserves. Was active duty for 8 1/2 years though. You interested in the military or do you just have a thing for guys in uniform?
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Her: February 20 at 6:08am
I have a thing for guys in uniform omg
Sexiest thing in the world
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Me: February 22 at 11:56am
Yeah? I'll take that as a compliment. What do u like to do for fun, besides making all your friends jeolous by driving a kickass car! I bet you're the type of girl that loves fun activities instead of sitting around the house vegging on the couch all day. More importantly.... Red or white?
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Her: February 22 at 3:19pm
Well I love driving. I drive anywhere possible. I don't do much tho cause my mom is way overprotective.

I love men in uniform so I love goin out

I am focused on school right now. It's my last year. So i'm makin it my best I'm in training to take my CPA test
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Her: February 22 at 3:20pm
And red or white what?
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Me: February 22 at 7:57pm
I was trying to decide which type of wine to pick up on the way home, but then I realized you're not even 21. lol Although you do seem mature for your age which is nice for a change.

Her: February 22 at 8:00pm
Well I don't drink. I'm focused on my career. I have a fed internship w/ random testing since I'm 18 I would be terminated immediatly.
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Me: February 23 at 10:50am
See, all serious and stuff. Thats good though. Most girls I know your age are all about partying and making "bad decisions". I try not to judge tho since I go out on the weekends too.
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Her: February 24 at 6:28am
i just got kicked out of my house... i need help... this sucks... i went to the mall with some friends and my mom freaked

Me: February 24 at 11:10am
Wow, that's crazy! What's you dad's take on all this? Is your mom super religious or something or does she just hate your friends? And talk about bad timing-- I JUST rented out my spare bedroom.
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Her: February 24 at 2:55pm
my dad doesnt know im around
and its because a boy went with us
and she doesnt like me with boys
and thats pretty sweet but im broke =/ im at my best friends place

Me: February 24 at 4:02pm
That's too bad. If you need extra money my friends company is hiring for promo girls and go-go dancers for dc clubs. Not sure if you're in to that sorta thing, but if you're down I'll set something up.
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Her: February 24 at 5:20pm
to far =/ id do it i need cash serverlyy.... i want to start supporting myself

Me: February 25 at 11:11am
Don't discount the idea too quickly. Some bars/clubs in Baltimore need girls too. If u don't mind letting your freaky side out to play there is good money in adult stuff too. At your age you'd be raking it in. Takes a strong will and lots of comfort with your sexuality though
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Her: February 25 at 9:10pm
im confident and happy with the way i am.. but i also need to be taken seriously when im a ceo of a national corp

Me: February 25 at 9:42pm
Hmm, aren't we an ambitious little one. Nice to know some people still think about the long term though. +10 points

Her: February 26 at 8:12am
well yes. i might not be a ceo but i am studing to be a CPA so its still business and i still need a good rep. so its kind of a big thing. i wouldnt mind at all tho

Me: February 26 at 12:36pm
Oh I hear ya! Gotta keep the stuff quiet. If you only knew....

Big plans for the weekend? My friend wants me to go cougar hunting with him lol
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Her: March 14 at 7:43pm
nothin at all. life sucks so bad im confined to the house
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Me: March 15 at 4:09pm
That's too bad. U missed a hell of a fun weekend
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Her: March 15 at 5:09pm
what happened
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Me: March 15 at 11:02pm
Saw tons a friends including a couple buds from when we were on England 10 years ago. Also, lots of alcohol, kickass bands, and more women than we knew what to do with. Pretty standard party weekend with the added bonus of seeing some old friends. Slept most of Sunday as a result lol
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Her: March 16 at 7:05pm
nice how old r u btw
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Me: March 17 at 3:02pm
Wow girl. Isn't that like asking a woman how much she weighs?
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Her: March 17 at 7:05pm
no? i was just wonderin
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Me: March 17 at 9:00pm
Lol I don't know if I should say. You'll think you're too young and inexperienced to hang....
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Her: March 18 at 6:15am
haha funny! im way to confident and im deffinitly experienced. i was guessin 33 or 34
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Me: March 18 at 12:41pm
Wow that's amazing. You don't work at one of those carnival guessing games do you?
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Her: March 18 at 3:19pm
no thats weird but which one is it
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Me: March 18 at 5:02pm
33. Is someone afraid her mom is going to find out she's got an older guy friend? I can only imagine her reaction. Wait, I'll send u a YouTube vid later. Too funny!
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Her: March 18 at 5:04pm
ugh nope my mom found out about my secret love for older guys.. i think its hot. but u intrested?

 

[PokerStar]

im still kinda new to this game
but from what i see from this convo is the time and dates.

i think you talk way to much over facebook.
stop typing and take her out
you lose the mystery about yourself if you keep talking through the internet/texting.

fun and exciting?

That could be a long walk in the park or visiting animal kennels. Do something that you both can be visually and physically stimulated.

DO IT NOW!!!

then report back to us for some feed back

ok?

 

[wjh]

I don't know what to say, but I found her asking "red or white what?" absolutely hilarious because you obviously did not take under consideration that no 18 year old girl knows jack about wine!

 

[Romjuan]

i agree with others, too much talking and not enough seeing each other. i have a feeling she will end up flaking out when you do set a date to go out but im crossing my fingers for you... i also did not like the fact that she was stating how broke she is and how she needs money. It kind of gave me the vibe that she was hoping you were going to help her out since you are the older man- which leads me to believe she might be using you. NO MATTER WHAT do not give her any money.

 

[Nutz]

I don't know what to say, but I found her asking "red or white what?" absolutely hilarious because you obviously did not take under consideration that no 18 year old girl knows jack about wine!

That was intentional. I always try to end my texts on something quirky like that to give them an easy reason to respond. I chose that particular question because it gave me something to neg her on.

This whole interaction was carefully cultivated on my part, but looking back I can see now she was ready to be asked out a while ago. The important thing to take away from this I gamed her well to the point an 18 year old is asking me out.


I responded back letting her know I've already got plans for this weekend and next, but to let me know when shes' free during the week. When she does then I'll get her number and will give her a call.

 

[BeyondCharm]

That was intentional. I always try to end my texts on something quirky like that to give them an easy reason to respond. I chose that particular question because it gave me something to neg her on.

This whole interaction was carefully cultivated on my part, but looking back I can see now she was ready to be asked out a while ago. The important thing to take away from this I gamed her well to the point an 18 year old is asking me out.


I responded back letting her know I've already got plans for this weekend and next, but to let me know when shes' free during the week. When she does then I'll get her number and will give her a call.

I've had lots of success with Facebook and Myspace so i'll chime in here.

I usually get a girls number the very first conversation we ever have. It's usually done by simply saying "tell me your cell, we'll make plans sometime for something fun and adventurous". That's usually done towards the end of the convo pre-bailing out.

I'll wait a few days, text her, then at some point say "you free to talk?" on text and then buzz her when she acknowledges and set up a date from there.

I've also set up dates straight from myspace messages/im/facebook im/etc but always after i get the number. sometimes its just easier.

THis girl has high IL. Simply say "tell me your cell, i'll hit you up and we'll have ourselves an adventure. lol"

 

[Nutz]

THis girl has high IL. Simply say "tell me your cell, i'll hit you up and we'll have ourselves an adventure. lol"

That's pretty much what I did. Will give her a call Sunday or Monday afternoon.

The problem is that I'm totally drawing a blank for date ideas. On one hand I think I should keep it low investment/intensity and just do a coffee date at Starbucks or something. On the other hand I think we should do an activity, but I keep drawing a blank and don't know what we could do. Can't hit a bar or club because of her age, and I don't want to take her to a club so soon anyway. An amusement park would be great, but then it trips my alarm not to do anything too committed. That'd be a good chunk of change and time to put into a chick I'm not banging yet.

Come on guys, I need ideas!

 

[BeyondCharm]

Just something simple like bowling or pool is perfect. It's done a lot, but it works and is a cheap way to get to know each other with an activity involved. Then jet out and go watch a movie together at your place. End of story.

 

[BigJimbo]

If you want such a girl leave America. There are places we call discos that are filled with girls that age and men who are older than you. It is called "Not Being in America". Girls that age usually must impress you.

If you are in America date single mothers. Have fun and thank God that you live in a place where freedom rings...lol.

 

[Luthor Rex]

I've made it a habit in my personal life to run game on every woman I meet. Young, old, moms, elderly ladies, it doesn't matter. I'm not trying to pick them up, I'm just keeping my claws sharp.

That being said, there are some young ladies (early teens) who I'm "friends" with (I'm friends with their parents, actually). I treat them like adults as much as possible and when I talk to them I talk about interests we have in common. Of course, I don't talk about it on the same level as I would with an adult.

Which is why this dialogue kinda made me cringe:

Me: February 22 at 7:57pm
I was trying to decide which type of wine to pick up on the way home, but then I realized you're not even 21. lol Although you do seem mature for your age which is nice for a change.

Me: February 23 at 10:50am
See, all serious and stuff. Thats good though. Most girls I know your age are all about partying and making "bad decisions". I try not to judge tho since I go out on the weekends too.
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There is a saying for writers: "show, don't tell". When a writer is making his novel he should show the characters feel a certain way rather than just coming out and telling us. Here is a page that talks about show vs. tell.

For you specifically, don't tell her she's "mature" rather show her you think she is mature by treating her like she is. Offer her wine and then say "oh I forgot, I keep thinking you're older". Let your actions show you think she is mature or sophisticated or whatever rather than telling her she is.

It's too late now in the game for this one, but one I've used on younger girls is "what college do you go to?" even though I knew they were in HS. When she says "I go to HS" you can say "you act / seem older / more mature, etc.".

Date idea: what does she like? Take her there but realize it has to be appropriate for an 18 year old. Have a motorcycle? Take her out for a drive. Does she like stage plays? Take her to a theater. Not all live music is in seedy clubs, take her to a concert.

 

[Rescue Mission]

don't waste time with a "date", she has already proven that she won't be an easy lay - there is nothing good about "smart, mature" 18 year old girls. Just another headache of a chick to bang - just cuz she is young and hot, does not mean she is anything special!

Next time, go for the ditzy party girl 18 year old if you wanna get some good sex out of it - This 18 year old you have on your hands now is going to be nothing but sarcastic banter, boring convo's, and little action (she doesn't even drink, cmon!!!)

 

[Nutz]

Good points guys. Thanks for feedback.

 

[dark god]

man 18 year old pvssy..that can put pep back into a mans step again.

 

[PokerStar]

man 18 year old pvssy..that can put pep back into a mans step again.

it certianly does my friend

reaching out with a 20 year old this thursday for dinner

we've been seeing each other on and off over the past year and a half and I love the way this relationship is going.

we are both on the same page that she is free to see other people and the same with me.

One of the cool traits i like about this girl is that she's open to new suggestions, when i lead she follows with no rebutals and the best part is that she can dance! (i love women who can dance, which translates very well in bed)

 

[dark god]

"reaching out with a 20 year old this thursday for dinner

we've been seeing each other on and off over the past year and a half and I love the way this relationship is going.

we are both on the same page that she is free to see other people and the same with me."



Damn it I hate u....give her an inch for me

 

[Colossus]

JMO--really young girls (18-22) are both easier and more difficult to game.

Easier because--assuming the girl has high interest--they are really gullible and tend to kind of be enthralled with your older-man-coolness. They aren't wise to game like a 30-year old is.

Harder because these girls are from a different generation and have the attention span of a fruit fly. You have to keep things constantly rolling and entertaining; lest they get bored and that poisonous, irreversible thought enters their mind that you are 'too old' or a 'creep'.

Personally I would never have the notion to "date" a girl this young; they are good for gaming and their amazing young bodies. Keep them at arms length though and don't get attached.

 

[PokerStar]

"reaching out with a 20 year old this thursday for dinner

we've been seeing each other on and off over the past year and a half and I love the way this relationship is going.

we are both on the same page that she is free to see other people and the same with me."



Damn it I hate u....give her an inch for me

thanks man
and honestly, if it werent for this site, I wouldnt have the ballz to go out and get what i want out of life and women.

I owe it all to sosuave posters that have given the courage to step out of my comfort zone and seize the day.