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powerlifter, i dont think it matters if she came into the room or not. she knew you were there nd didnt come to even say hello... high interest level would have wanted to greet. pull back.

jafyk, i dont mess around with virgins..nor would i date them. maybe shes a virgin maybe she isnt. doesnt matter. either way shes doesnt want to have sex now. your attraction to her may be caused by wanting to conquer the unknown. once you sex her you may not look at her the same way.. i...

sounds like shes lost the attraction and doesnt want to engage in to anything. someone with high interest would hve been anxious to see you after the long delay. i take her walking in with her head down as trying to avoid you so there is conversation. i think the best advice at this point...

beyond charm, thats great news to hear your doing better. thats also great to hear that you cn have a good time without drinking. ive been going out so much i feel like i need to drink to enjoy my time.. i was curuios how youre doing king william? ive been hooking up with all kinds of girls...

hey king william, i dont know if you have read any of my post, but I am in the EXACT same situation as you. my gf of 2 years and i just broke up 3 weeks ago. my pain comes and goes. one day i feel like i never needed her and im on top of the world, the next day i miss her and feel like ill...

jophil, what ever happend with the fz on ma? did you ever get that bang? did she initiate wanting more?

I was reading couple of my old posts and it seems like i struggle in keeping relationships lasting. I feel i am spontaneous, funny, outgoing, social, but it seems like i am missing something that makes the girls lose interest. my last relationship was one year, followed by a 3 month break up...

Thanks for the reply wc2. its actually quite ironic that you made this reply tonite because i was doing fine up untill an hour ago. I logged on here to get my mind off missing her and i my post was bumped. Your reply made me feel better. its hard to work on moving forward because its like...

so my ex and i have been broken up for 3 weeks now. i was doing great everyday up until last night. we lived together and now im living with my parents to save money. ive been keeping myself busy working out, hnging out with friends, gone out with other girls, and im on match.com. any other...

thanks for the advice dl. im sure we will see each other from time to time at the local bars. im not trying to make her jealous and i would hope she doesnt either.. maybe we should talk about these things so we set some sort of stndards.

my post was the one with attitude and sex 2 times a week. so couple days later i initiated the break up but it really was mutual. we both loved each other but both have issues with each other that would not work in the long run. next step is moving out. i was payoing rent at the house she...

so things lookd like they were defintly workin. the whole last week i came home around 11pm every nite. i could tell it was working bcuz her demeanor was different. she would become more affectionate when she saw me. then saturday roled around and she asked me to stay in with her and hang out...

thought i would give u guys an update. past 3 days ive been coming home at 11pm. shes usually in bed by then so we havnt talked much. soon as i get in bed she cuddles a bit then falls asleep. im sure she knows im u to something becuz of the change on my habit. last nite i was out drinkn with...

jeez. she comes home today and once again little attitude and quiet. I try being quite too to see if she communicates but she doesnt. Everytime i think i know what my new frame should be, she throws me off with the attitude. any comments on how to be when we are around each other at home? do...

rollo, that was the best advice ive ever heard. everything u suggested is right on and i will start today with this new pesective. thnk u everyone for ur help.

i understand wht must be done. how do i introduce a jealousy plot though? flirt with other girls when shes around?

thnks guys.. some good advice here. its hard trying to reframe becuz the nites im hoping for sex nd she declines definatly takes me off my game. im going to start by not being so availble to her. maybe go to my friends house more often and spending less time with er. hoeoefully things fix...

is there anyway to change the routine or is it too late?

is there anything that can be said to rekindle anything? how shoul act towards her when we r together?(we live together)

I constantly seem to be having discussions with my ltr. we have been together for 2 years and things are always hot cold with her. Sometimes shes lovey dovey and affectionate,however, most of the time she has attitude. We live together which could be the reason why are number of times we have...