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I had fairly good luck with match.com. After 6 weeks I was setting up dates without too much effort. Maybe I got lucky but I clicked with one lady and we’ve been together for 3 months now. My online profile is not visible at the moment because I want to give things a chance with her. I think...

Women do not send mixed signals. The problem is men cannot read the signals that women send. If you think she is sending mixed signals, she is actually telling you she is not interested. A women that wants to be with you will make it very easy for you. She will climb mountains to get to you...

No that seems gross to me. If someone writes a book on it I might reconsider ... hahaha

Yes I’m fully vaccinated. In the US over 500,000 people have died from COVID. I’ve only heard of one dying from the vaccine. It’s simple risk analysis, which is less risky. Clearly the vaccine is less risky than getting COVID.

I used to not like it, basically because I was no good at it. Then I read the book “She Comes First” and did what it says. I really enjoy it now. I find it so much fun giving her that much pleasure with my tongue and fingers. It’s hard work but when you get her to the point that her abdomen, vag...

Well first off it sounds to me like you actually have a lot going on which is what women want. They want to be with guys that do stuff. Pretty much everything you listed (maybe not hunting and fishing) women will do with you. Hiking is an ideal first or second date. Also if you do all that you...

This morning in bed me and my lady were having some serious conversations about stuff. Yes, it’s the lady from the weight loss thread. Well during that conversation she asked if I would tidy up the pubic hair. I’ve never been asked that before. I said I was cool with it and did she want to do...

I wanted to update the thread for those interested. I spent the night with her last night and this morning in bed I carefully raised the issue. It was touchy and she initially got very upset. After she calmed down she said she used to be very thin (she’s not lying I’ve seen photos) and is very...

This is a good response. She does have a gym membership but she said she has not been going as much due to COVID. I hope that means she has an exercise mindset, and she has just put on some COVID pounds. I intend to join a gym once COVID ends (I’ve been lifting in my basement for the past year)...

So I met a lady online. Been dating for about 6 weeks. I smashed her on the third date and the s3x is regular now and good. I find her very attractive, fun to be with and she does not hold back in bed. Nice bj and I don’t have to ask for it. To quote Kevin Samuels she is friendly, feminine...

What amazes me is how quick some women get married again. It’s like they just can’t stand being single.

In my experience if I don’t pay on the first date there will not be a second date, simple as that. My first 2 or 3 dates are always something quite cheap, coffee, drinks, art gallery, walk in the park. I think some women see me as cheap and bail. That’s fine with me, if they see me as cheap...

I always look them up online to find out as much as I can about them. Ideally I do this before the first date but that’s not always possible because I quite often don’t have enough information about them. After the first date it is always possible to find them online. I do this to verify what...

In my original post I mentioned two ladies from OLD. Lady 1, I’ll call her T, agreed to a date this Thursday. That was my third text to her, minimum fuss, she responded to my request within 5 minutes. I do not intend to contact her again before the date. Lady 2, I’ll call her I, is responding...

What do you mean “tight”? This is exactly the kind of thing I want to understand. Can you elaborate?

Always remember that you cannot save a woman. Sounds like she has some work to do and only she can do it, you can’t do it for her. You say she is in therapy which is great. Proceed with caution but don’t get sucked in, you might get hurt if you do. Like @Mazer says, her actions speak louder than...

Try meditation, it has helped me a lot this year. Take a look at Sam Harris’s Waking Up app. The introductory course is free but then you have to subscribe, I think it is worth it. If you can’t afford the app you can send him an email, tell him that and he will hook you up with a free one year...

I quit drinking alcohol about one year ago for medical reasons, that was very easy to do, I just stopped. I quit coffee about three months ago and it was harder. Went cold turkey and sometimes I would get a headache. I would then drink a small cup of coffee which took the headache away. I only...

The more I think about this the more I think that really tall chicks probably have a scarcity mindset (like a good deal of men). Whereas your average chick lives in abundance.

Thanks everyone for your replies. A mixed bag of opinions, but still valuable. I’m quite a fan of Corey Wayne, so I tend to go with fewer texts and use them to setup dates. Quite a few guys here seem to agree with that. How about escalating in texts? Should they become flirty and suggestive? If...