Online Dating and females weeding out techniques

[oc16]

Funny, I am on Bumble, Facebook dating and match.com. Sometimes, I will get a like from a woman or a message from a woman and perhaps after one message from me or a few back and forth; Poof! She is gone.

This morning, I got matched with and had a message from a pretty hot looking 41 year old (blonde, blue eyes). She sent me a meme "Wassup" and I responded with "Good Morning".

Next thing I know she unmatched me. Why? I think attractive woman have so many options they will "weed men out" for the smallest thing.

Oh, "he wrote me a boring response" or "He responded too quickly, he must be desperate or have no life". This is what I think is going though their heads.

 

[SW15]

Meet women in real life.

 

[oc16]

Meet women in real life.

Oh believe me, I prefer too and it is way more realistic and accurate.

 

[SW15]

From what I've heard, Match is a weird audience now. It was always more relationship oriented, but the swipe apps stole a lot of Match's thunder. It is a haven of divorced women and alpha widows. Many provider hunter/single mom types from what I understand.

I've not heard much about Facebook Dating.

Bumble appeals to the SJW/Feminist/Careerist crowd.

 

[oc16]

From what I've heard, Match is a weird audience now. It was always more relationship oriented, but the swipe apps stole a lot of Match's thunder. It is a haven of divorced women and alpha widows. Many provider hunter/single mom types from what I understand.

I've not heard much about Facebook Dating.

Bumble appeals to the SJW/Feminist/Careerist crowd.

Facebook dating the women seem to be the hottest, but also a lot of scammers on there.

 

[corrector]

Good to know that OLD dating still sucks and anyone's (normie-range or lower) wasting their time even trying. Thanks for the update.
Its good when others TOFTT and waste their time so others don't have to.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Funny, I am on Bumble, Facebook dating and match.com. Sometimes, I will get a like from a woman or a message from a woman and perhaps after one message from me or a few back and forth; Poof! She is gone.

This morning, I got matched with and had a message from a pretty hot looking 41 year old (blonde, blue eyes). She sent me a meme "Wassup" and I responded with "Good Morning".

Next thing I know she unmatched me. Why? I think attractive woman have so many options they will "weed men out" for the smallest thing.

Oh, "he wrote me a boring response" or "He responded too quickly, he must be desperate or have no life". This is what I think is going though their heads.

Concering that at 41 years of age it still believes it has the value to pull a stunt like that

Mind it could just be fvcking crazy a lot of 40yr old chicks would have just missed the social media craze and are probably filled with rage

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Good to know that OLD dating still sucks and anyone's (normie-range or lower) wasting their time even trying. Thanks for the update.
Its good when others TOFTT and waste their time so others don't have to.

It doesn't, but your negativity and your bandwagon jumping is pretty funny.

 

[AttackFormation]

It doesn't, but your negativity and your bandwagon jumping is pretty funny.

You were around NYC right?

 

[bat soup]

Funny, I am on Bumble, Facebook dating and match.com. Sometimes, I will get a like from a woman or a message from a woman and perhaps after one message from me or a few back and forth; Poof! She is gone.

This morning, I got matched with and had a message from a pretty hot looking 41 year old (blonde, blue eyes). She sent me a meme "Wassup" and I responded with "Good Morning".

Next thing I know she unmatched me. Why? I think attractive woman have so many options they will "weed men out" for the smallest thing.

Oh, "he wrote me a boring response" or "He responded too quickly, he must be desperate or have no life". This is what I think is going though their heads.

Maybe she was a scammer and she got banned after being reported by other guys.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Meet women in real life.

Better quality women and you avoid half of these annoying habits that women on OLD have

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You were around NYC right?

Nope, in NY but not NYC

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Ask them what they are looking for upfront....”Hey, what brings you to bumble” or you can make it witty whatever you prefer. If she says “I’m bored”, brings up recovering from a relationship, or “I’m looking for a romantic relationship” or something Disney sounding tell her that you appreciate her honesty but this isn’t going to workout. Also, avoid nurses, teachers, flight attendants, waitresses, and women with large dogs like the plague. On OLD, you want trim the fat vs in real life you want fat lol

 

[SW15]

Better quality women and you avoid half of these annoying habits that women on OLD have

One of the biggest problems with technology assisted dating is not having the ability for real time feedback. Because feedback isn't real time, it is easy to ghost in that setting. Additionally, women behave worse towards swipe app/website prospects because they face no real life social consequences for doing so. They also do this to some extent with men who cold approach them in real life.

 

[CoandaEffect]

I had fairly good luck with match.com. After 6 weeks I was setting up dates without too much effort. Maybe I got lucky but I clicked with one lady and we’ve been together for 3 months now. My online profile is not visible at the moment because I want to give things a chance with her.

I think the key to OLD is realizing it’s a numbers game and there are a lot of AWs and game players out there. I always asked to meet them on the third message and if they made up any excuses I would firmly but politely tell them that I was not interested in a long text conversation. I would tell them to let me know when they were free and I would set something up. They all blocked me, every single one. No big issue, I just moved on. I think that approach weeds out the AWs. The ones that are interested will make time to meet you. I only had one flake, which surprised me, I expected more. Again, no problem, just move on.

A lot of guys on the forum really trash OLD. I respect there experiences. Maybe it’s age related, I’m 56 and date women close to my own age. It could also be location, maybe I just live in the right city.

 

[derby1]

Maybe it’s age related, I’m 56 and date women close to my own age.

Imagine at 50+ theyre still doing this nonsense. Christ its downright cringe

 

[corrector]

It doesn't, but your negativity and your bandwagon jumping is pretty funny.

Oh, that's right, you were claiming in another thread to be a non-chadlite, but a normie with excellent conversation skills and a gift of making a well written profile and women are wooed by how you have written your profile or emailed? Is that accurate?

So, enlighten the OP. He said "Good Morning", and got blocked by a post-wall woman. How would your apply your excellent conversation skills to save that situation and get the girl?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Oh, that's right, you were claiming in another thread to be a non-chadlite, but a normie with excellent conversation skills and a gift of making a well written profile and women are wooed by how you have written your profile or emailed? Is that accurate?

So, enlighten the OP. He said "Good Morning", and got blocked by a post-wall woman. How would your apply your excellent conversation skills to save that situation and get the girl?

You don't worry about any one woman and their reasons. That's where people's issues lie. It's all about volume. If you aren't prepared to do the proper volume then accept the poor results.

But the bigger truth is too many people have zero confidence in themself, zero ambition, zero drive, zero mentality that you are just going to go get it and nothing is going to stop you.

At the end of the day, people end up stopping themself from having the life they want to have and doing the things they want to do with the garbage they fill their minds with all day every day and their negative self limiting beliefs. Most people are their own worst enemy.

But it isn't enough to believe it. You need to do it. In all areas of your life. Because if you claim to believe it but aren't actually doing it, then you simply don't actually believe it enough and are trying to convince yourself of something you really deep down don't believe. And this isn't about OLD. Fvck that. It's about getting what YOU want out of life and if that isn't happening for you, then what the hell have you done today that is going to change that? The answer sadly that most people have is nothing.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

It more then sucks. The pictures these women put on there is shocking that they think they look good. Its fcking nuts. Its like the trailer park roulette of fatties in my area.

But they only show their face in the pic. With Snapchat filter of course

 

[lost_blackbird]

Bumble appeals to the SJW/Feminist/Careerist crowd.

Hence my recent ban from there.