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I think the best response to a flake is to be upbeat with her, make her believe that you don’t really care. Something like “ok, no problem, have a great evening”. You may or may not hit her up again in a week or so, that depends on the circumstances and what you feel like doing. I just think...

It does not matter how long you have been with her, she will still test you. In my opinion LDRs just don’t work, one or both parties move on and I would say that she has. If you have not done the business with her for one year then I would say this is over. Sorry dude just move on.

First off, is this a real post? There is nothing wrong with your gf drinking with other people, she does not need your permission to do that. What’s in the pictures that you saw? Again most women flirt, that’s their nature. She might be testing you to see if you are the strong confident man...

I love all the predictions of how the pandemic has changed our behavior and how it will have a lasting impact when it is over. In my opinion those predictions are rubbish. When the pandemic is over people will go back to their old ways very quickly. From a dating perspective a lot of women will...

Women sometimes say they have a boyfriend as a test. They don’t really have one, or even if they do they will monkey branch for the right guy. I don’t like lines but there is a really good one for this situation. You say “that’s ok I’ll still date you, I’m not the jealous type”. If she’s testing...

I have one true friend and a bunch of fake ones. The one true one has been there when I needed someone and I would be there for her; yes she’s female. The thing about fake friends is that you must set boundaries and not let them cross them. If they start using you then get rid of them, simple...

So I just had my 2nd date with a lady and it was a double date with another couple that I am friends with. Date did not really end well and I think her interest in me fell. That’s no big deal because I now know that she has quite a few issues that kill my interest in her as well. I have no...

I would not say anything to her. No good can come of it. I guess if she notices something is off and asks you what is up then you could tell her. But I don’t think it is something you should bring up.

It is always better to tell her where you are going to take her rather than ask. Asking makes you look like you are trying to please her, telling her makes you look like a confident leader. Women prefer to be told where they are going rather than being asked where they want to go. Also never...

This thread is fascinating to me. I firmly believe that you can have female friends, because I have them. For me it only works if there is no physical desire and you maintain boundaries. I used to be the kind of guy that would help out my female friends by doing favors for them but I have...

I agree, the Overton Window is going to shift in that direction eventually. I like Alexander Grace’s videos, a lot of his ideas are well thought out and presented.

In my experience it does matter. One of the things women want to see is that you fit in socially. Inviting them to do things with your friends allows her to see this. If she only ever sees you one on one when you take her out then she may think she is all you have going on. I also find that...

You should never do something because some woman you are interested in is asking you to do it. If you don’t have a great Instagram account and that is what she wants then she is not the girl for you. You also say that she has more money than you. This is also a problem because women do not date...

Yes, I agree 100%.

I should add that my platonic friend recently ran into one of my old girlfriends. When I enquired how my old GF was, my friend said “you know it was very awkward, she never really liked me” I was surprised by that answer, I always thought they got on fine.

Yes I get this all the time, especially from women. If a women has any interest in me she will always ask “so why aren’t you dating her” or “so you’ve known her all these years and you guys never dated”. I’m not sure why but they find it very hard to believe that we are just friends. I’m always...

It seems that most men are saying that they don’t date, because they are not being successful, for various reasons. A few men are being successful and so are dating. Doesn’t that confirm what we already know, that most women are only interested in a few men. Or putting it another way, most men...

If she is not used to and ok with you touching her then the upper leg is not a great place to start touching her. Start with her hands, arms and back. If she seems ok with it then by all means escalate.

"There is only one thing worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about." - Oscar Wilde. If she’s talking about you, she’s thinking about you.

I feel like I’m about a year ahead of you. Make sure you use the anger you have to work on yourself in a positive way, make yourself better, don’t become bitter. I also feel like being bitter towards women is not the answer, it really isn’t their fault, they just are the way they are. When I...