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On OLD the quicker you ask for a date the better. Don’t try and have a texting conversation, just ask for a date. I am at the point that I do not even bother searching profiles or initiating anything. My profile generates about 3 likes per week. I look at them, and usually I will like one of...

I struggled a lot making friends when I was younger. I’ve changed in two ways. 1. I have accepted that I am not, nor will I ever be the guy that everyone likes. That’s ok with me, there are lots of people I don’t like either. If people want to be my friend, that’s great I’ll be theirs...

A lot of men have checked out of the dating pool all together and those that remain are wising up and not spending much money on early dates. These two factors explain why the traditional dinner date is dying out. My first date is drinks. I buy the first round and (if I like her) ask if she...

Dated a lady just like this in 2021. At the 6 month mark it was great, couldn’t believe my luck. Went to hell very quickly at the 9 month mark. It was so bad it was like I was with someone else. Enjoy it while it lasts and who knows it might last forever. Good luck.

No. Oneitis is when a man puts a women on a pedestal and starts to think she is unique and could not be replaced. NEVER think this of ANY women, not your girlfriend or even your wife. Once you start to believe she is unique and cannot be replaced thing go to sh*t. If you need further...

Yes. Why are you still here? I told you to go away.

Do us all a favor, ban the account now (whatever that means) and go away.

Been watching her for a few months, she keeps it pretty real. She goes on and on about the same stuff though so she gets a bit repetitive. Another one I recently discovered is Jedediah Bila, she is also good.

Stopped reading when you said “just a theory”. Anyone that says that identifies themselves as someone that knows nothing. Gravity is “just a theory” as well. Do you believe in gravity, or do you think that the earth sucks?

Robert, you are a veteran of this forum but in this post you sound like a rookie. You made some really basic mistakes. 1. You did not control the frame. You let her take charge and you made yourself too available. 2. You did not set boundaries. Another guy doing handyman stuff for a woman he...

Well I don’t think participation trophies make much sense and yet I have tried lots of things so I guess I’m one of the people you’re talking about. Let me try and explain by way of example. I have always wanted to play guitar and about five years ago I bought one and started taking lessons. I...

I feel for Ritchie, he thinks he’s got a good one and he really just has a slut. I think she is pretty typical for women these days. I don’t have any advice for you, keep ****ing her I guess but understand she is a low quality slut and that’s all she is good for. Hopefully Ritchie finds out...

Met this lady on Match. She ‘liked’ me and I sent her a message. She replied giving me her phone number and saying she did not like texting and she wanted me to call her. That evening I called her for about 20 minutes and she ended by saying she wanted to meet so a date was arranged. Day of the...

I think online dating has been detrimental for both men and women, no one is really benefiting from it. The fact is though, it is not going away, it is the new reality of dating. I have been on match for about 18 months and I don’t struggle to get dates but it is not really giving me what I...

You have nothing to feel guilty about, you did nothing wrong. She broke up with you and did a very natural thing by moving on and seeking sex elsewhere. Do not beat yourself up about this. The serious side of your post is about your meds and your suicidal thoughts. Why are you off your meds? Do...

You should not arrange all the dates, you need to arrange the first two or three and then back away and see what she does. If she is really into you she will start to chase you. My first three dates are, drink, walk, my place for dinner. Assuming it gets that far I don’t ask for a fourth date...

No, I do not believe that is possible.

Are you for real? Your post sounds totally fake to me.

I had three dates arranged this week. First date flaked and l sensed it was BS. No problem, I sent my “have a nice evening” text. I doubt I will ever hear from her again. Second one flaked, but I got a sense it was legit. I will attach the conversation. I could have been nasty to her, but I was...

Sorry that happened, you must be hurting a little, but you had it coming. What do you suppose she was really doing last night? She will probably come back again and hopefully you now know what to do. Stop fixing showers and cars for these women. Believe me I’ve done it all, never again...