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Don’t get nasty with them like a lot of men do. Just say something like “No problem, have a nice evening”. Then move on and don’t contact them again. If they reach out to you then setup another date in a week or so. If they suddenly want to keep the original date, tell them you already have...

The thing about you changing the rims on her SUV almost brought tears to my eyes. You are so far into her that no one on this forum can help you. The only thing that can is a women to really burn you and she just might be the one. Good luck, do what you want, but it will not end well for you.

I had 3 dates arranged this week from OLD, so far 2 have flaked. Third one is on Sunday, it might be 3 for 3. It is unusual to experience that many, I’m just on a bad run. I honestly don’t care, I’ll keep trying. Don’t let their behavior get you down, there are some good ones out there but...

I was surprised how good looking he was as well. I was expecting a lot worse. Did you notice that most times the girls would agree with each other. It’s a bit weird girls seem to want their friends to approve of who they date.

Another delusional women. How many men has she been on dates with in 8 years and none of them met her expectations. Unfortunately there are many women just like her. As KS would have said “buy a dog and die alone”.

When I was your age that was not normal, but that is 30 years ago. Things have changed for the worse and now it is quite normal. About 1/3rd of men under the age of 30 are either virgins or have not had sex in the last year. In the grand scheme of things you are not doing so bad. I know it...

I think men, especially young men, put way too much emphasis on looks. Average looking chicks tend to be way more fun to be with than the hot ones. In my recent session of OLD I dated a bunch of women, some were very hot, some were very plain. I was very open minded and dated them all as much...

You are chasing too hard and she is not really interested. Never double text, you did it twice. She should always be texting more than you. You should not ignore her when you see her, be polite but stop chasing her.

I would also recommend dancing. Choose a partner style like ballroom or swing. In my experience there are usually more women than men so you will be in demand. All sorts of women go too, all ages, all body types. Women also dig men that can dance, even a little bit. Wish I’d learnt when I was...

Match has worked well for me but I suspect that age and location are major factors.

Amen brother.

Changed me for sure. After getting burnt bad, I discovered the manosphere and RP teaching. I no longer see women or relationships the same. It has made a huge impact in how I approach women and dating. Not one of them have taken advantage of me or hurt me since I went RP, and I get more sex now.

What you are describing is a situation in which she had interest in you but you failed to act on it. When a women has interest and flirts with you but you fail to act in a timely manner she starts to see you differently, sees you as weak, under confident. She may also take it as rejection...

I would not block her. That always comes across as butt hurt and does not look good. Stop thinking about her, do not approach her, if she speaks to you speak back. Just be cordial with her, nothing more. In the mean time pursue other girls. If you are still in school it is the best time to just...

I like Wheat Waffles, his videos are well thought out although I’m not really a believer in the black pill mentality. None of my cold approaches have worked out and I’m now at the point that I just don’t bother. For me my successes over the past 5 years have come from OLD and social circles...

Thanks everyone for the detailed responses, really appreciate it. The information you have given fits well with what I have read online. I like the fact that she was honest and upfront with me about it. I bet a lot of people with it aren’t. I imagine I’ve already slept with someone who has it...

It was my 4th date with this lady last night and I put the moves on her. She was somewhat reluctant and after a while she told me that she has herpes and that she wanted me to know. She said she has had it for many years. She thinks she caught it from her ex husband who she divorced over 20...

The article sits behind a paywall so I can’t read it. What advise did Carolyn give? I’m 57 and never married. I can tell you that some women are very put off by that fact but others don’t care. I have learnt that if she asks why I have never been married then it bothers her and I just may as...

I think it is a big mistake to live your life in a way that you think will attract women. Live the life you want, live it for you. If you want to be a teacher go for it, become a teacher. Teachers have girlfriends, they get married and have families, you can do it too.

I don’t think they are any more likely to cheat than any other girl. The problem is jealousy comes from a place of insecurity which tends to make then controlling and manipulative. Overall jealous people are not fun to date.