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Stop obsessing over this girl. The more you obsess the worst it will be for you. You have to put yourself into situations where you will meet single girls. Try these things; join meetup.com and go to events, sign up for dance lessons, look into volunteering opportunities. Do things to make you...

You might be taking peoples comments too personally, they may just be trying to give you some advice. I don’t know how old you are but younger than me, no doubt. Have you tried dating people your own age? I like women that are fit, friendly, feminine, cooperative and submissive. Being younger...

Wouldn’t it be great if every-time a women rejected you she told you why. Most men are willing to change to get women, I mean that’s why we are on this forum. The feedback from women who actually met you and rejected you would be gold. Of course women never do that and I get why they don’t, but...

It is not your job to do that, it is hers. Your job is to take her on fun dates and escalate. The escalation is important or she will see you as a friend, which you do not want. If she is attracted to you she will ask you to be exclusive and become her boyfriend. This is a very basic question...

Dancing is very important and something that we should all learn to do. Like everything else some people just have a natural talent for it and some of us don’t. If you struggle with it then just take lessons. I don’t think it matters what style of dance it is. Just google dance lessons in your...

Bottle Rocket.

It’s sad that KS has died, I would listen to his podcasts occasionally and found them entertaining. I think it was more entertainment than advise. I like the fact that he had women call in, because they basically confirmed exactly what he was saying. I had no idea he was into drugs, that...

Do you mean you change your profile or do you mean you close the account and start a new one? I assume you mean start a completely new account. If so, why do you do that? I can’t think of a genuine reason why you would do it. If that is what you are doing then my guess is that behavior is...

There is nothing to feel bad about, do you think they feel bad about rejecting you? Just be completely honest and say that you are not attracted to them. My standard rejection is “I’m flattered that you are interested in me but I’m just not attracted to you”.

Most of us have been used like that. Eventually you get fed up of it and you change the way you date. First dates are cheap, walk, coffee or drink. That way you are not taken advantage of. You will also find that the only women that will go on dates with you are the ones that actually like you...

If she asked you out then you should accept. Let us know how it goes and if she pays.

First date should be relatively cheap, you should choose the location and you should pay.

I have not had that many relationships myself so I often find myself in this situation. Sometimes I will just be very vague and sometimes I just lie about the number and length of past relationships. The thing is though that if the lady really cares about that stuff she is not really into you...

You probably just waited too long. When these opportunities present themselves you have to act immediately. In my experience women flip very quickly when you just keep flirting but don’t ask them out.

The dog girl sounds great, don’t wait any longer, next time you see her ask for her phone number. Ask confidently with the attitude that she wants to give the number to you. Take your phone out and ask her “What’s your phone number?”. Don’t say something like “Can I have your phone number?” The...

OLD is always seen as bad by many on this forum but it can actually be a good way to meet the ladies. You have to have a good strategy though and you didn’t. Understand that there are a lot of good ladies on OLD but there are far more AWs and messed up ones on there as well. Your strategy needs...

A walk is great. I take them where there is an ice cream place and a bar nearby. If it goes well I suggest one of those two places afterwards. Drink at a bar is fine. If she does not drink then suggest a coffee place. Activities can be fun. Bowling, mini golf, museum. Check locally to see if...

A women that wants to spend time with you and get to know you will take any opportunity to be with you. When she only wants to be with you because you are spending money on her she is not really that interested in you. This is why the first few dates should be cheap. Not because you are cheap...

Why are you being so nasty towards him? Compared to lots of men he looks in reasonable shape to me. I feel sorry for him. He’s just another AFC who’s been lied to by modern society. I wish I could open his eyes to what lies in his future. This forum is supposed to be a place where men help...

Yes. I think No More Mr Nice Guy is excellent. That book started me down the road to success with women. Dating Essentials For Men seems a bit blue pill to me. All that stuff about manicuring yourself, keeping your house and car clean and keeping clean sheets on the bed. You need to do all...