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    LMS are social lubricants

    What is LMS? Google provides plenty of possibilities but none of them relate to dating.
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    Debunking Stupid Dating APP(OLD) Criticism

    Very good post OP. I agree with you 100%. I’ve enjoyed a lot is success on OLD over the past 18 months. Dated a lady for 9 months last year that I met on match. Went back on match at the beginning of June this year and have been very impressed with the matches I have had. Two dates last week...
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    Are Male Friends Worth It?

    Yes, male friends are very valuable. Remember the adage that you become the average of the five people you spend time with? Well, that’s true, so make friends with people you look up to and admire. Men you would like to be more like. Having said that it is not easy to do. Men bond by doing...
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    Public Speaking: You either got it or you don't?

    It’s like everything else, it is something you get better at with practice. If you want to get better check out your local Toastmasters.
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    What do you think about the body language in this photo?

    I think she is cute. She is very uncomfortable in the photo. He is an embarrassment to the male population. If any of you look like that, then loose some weight and get in shape. What woman would want a man like that.
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    Phone Numbers Flake

    First of all well done with your cold approaches, keep doing them, you will get better and you will get results eventually. Now to answer your question about getting phone numbers. It is actually not that difficult to get a women to give you her phone number. It is easier for her to do that and...
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    article: How Student Loan Debt Is Destroying Marriages

    A friend of mine paid for his wife to go to law school. He supported her and paid the tuition fees, she never took out a loan. 6 months after she graduated she divorced him.
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    Are Wingwomen a thing of the past?

    A couple of times, quit recently I came across what I thought were wingwomen, but what I came to realize was that they were really trying to hook up their less than desirable girl friends with me. Anyone else ever encounter that?
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    Are Personal Trainers a Waste of Money

    I think they are a total waste of money. Find a couple of trainers with YouTube channels and watch them. One I like is called Athleanx, but there are others that are good. I’ve also learnt a lot by just watching other guys at the gym and doing what they do. There are some lazy people that only...
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    Do you think the USA is not meeting its military recruitment goals because so many young men see themselves as hopelessly sexless?

    It has been said that everything men do, they do to get attention from women. In our society young men are told they are toxic and 1/3rd of men under 30 got no sex in the last year. Women are just not interested in most men so a lot of them are checking out of our society. I suspect a lot of...
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    Is it OVER for this guy?

    That’s incredibly smart. I’ve been into the tiny home concept for a few years. I’m in the process of converting a Ford Transit into a camper that I would like to travel the entire US in in a few years. I’ve never seen anyone do it in a dumpster before though. I’d be afraid of a garbage truck...
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    Is sex overrated ?

    Yes, I think it is. It’s all the stuff that goes around it that is fun. The chase, the seduction, the after glow, her falling asleep pressed up against me afterwards. I’ve never really been into chasing sex, but rather the relationship that goes with it. The one thing I have discovered though...
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    Where do you find dude friends?

    This is a really great question and the forum has already given some good answers. Check out meetup.com, there could well be some mens groups on there that you could join. If not then you could start one, I guarantee you guys would join if you did guy activities. I have some great guy friends...
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    OLD - Ever come across someone you know?

    Yes, it’s quite common. If it is someone I haven’t seen for a while I send them a message and we usually chat for a while. I’ve never dating any of them though. If it is someone from my current social circle I block them without messaging them. The last thing I want is them sharing my profile...
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    Is taking a break ok or weak.

    Definitely take a break, it’s a very healthy thing to do. I wish women would do it but most seem to just move from one guy to the next. Get you head straight, your instinct will tell you when it is time to put yourself out there again.
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    What about love?

    The red pill made me understand that men and women love each other differently. I now know that no women has ever loved me the way that I have loved them and no women ever will. It does not prevent me from falling in love or change the way that it makes me feel when I am in love. The biggest...
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    Photofeeler

    Does anyone have any experience of using this website? Is it all hype or is it of some value? I intend to setup my OLD profile again and was considering using this to decide which photos to use.
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    My cue to ask her out?

    Stop thinking about this. She has indicated interest. Make your move NOW! If she is really interested in you then you only have a short window to act. If you wait too long she will think you lack the balls to ask and she will move on.
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    My cue to ask her out?

    She is clearly expressing interest. Your response should be something like “I’m going to (something definite and exciting) would you like to join me”.
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