Is it possible for women to fake body language and feign interest?

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A recent example, a young lady with tattooed sleeved arms and cleavage would stand near me and deliberately bump into me now and then, as well as hit me playfully, toss her hair back over head and say " you look good". Needless to say, she was not my type as she was heavily tattooed, had an eye brow bar, and seemed to have "daddy" issues (scars on her arm from self harm) and we went separate ways.

A contrary example, another woman (not tattoos/piercings) would bump into you unexpectedly (although has seen you around before) and when made eye contact her eyes would light up, sort of react in an excited/nervous way. A second time we met, I noticed her and she then looked at me. Again, as our eyes met they seemed to become stimulated/light up, but this time she instantly looked way as her eyes lit up.

Can physiological signs be faked?

Are there any signs of interest as close as being certain? if so, which?

Can you spot a fake woman with fake interest?
 

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As a general rule of thumb: If a woman is moving into your space and touching you, she's into you to a certain extent.

Some women will fake interest, and that's generally because they want something from you, i.e drinks.

This is from my experience anyway.
 

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As a general rule of thumb: If a woman is moving into your space and touching you, she's into you to a certain extent.

Some women will fake interest, and that's generally because they want something from you, i.e drinks.

This is from my experience anyway.
Can physiological reactions be faked?
 

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This is totally possible and I have an experience that I will share with you that is a very good example of this.

This is many years ago, I was in college and taking a biology course and my lab partner was this 18 year old from Mexico, she was pretty cute to be honest. Anyway, she flirted a ton, touched my arm and shoulder a lot, would bite her lip, etc. However, the problem was she had a boyfriend, I noticed a picture she had on her computer backscreen with the two of them together. This went on for a decent period of time and I decided to just make a move and see what would happen. She immediately rejected it and then all of that flirtatious behavior came to a complete halt, it was like a total flip lol. I forget exactly how I found out but the boyfriend was long distance and not in the area. Looking back on it I think it was just a situation where she was in need of some male attention and I was a potential source for this simply by chance of us sitting next to each other and being lab partners.
 
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The way you know if the interest is real is by the level of effort or investment on her part.

There's a tiny chance a woman may sleep with you primarily for some sort of benefit, but if she's willing to go that far who cares if it's real or not.

Generally fake interest is if she's calling you handsome and touches your arm until you buy her a drink (or refuse to) then she disappears. If she's going out with you for the free dinner you won't get much physical escalation.
 

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A recent example, a young lady with tattooed sleeved arms and cleavage would stand near me and deliberately bump into me now and then, as well as hit me playfully, toss her hair back over head and say " you look good". Needless to say, she was not my type as she was heavily tattooed, had an eye brow bar, and seemed to have "daddy" issues (scars on her arm from self harm) and we went separate ways.

A contrary example, another woman (not tattoos/piercings) would bump into you unexpectedly (although has seen you around before) and when made eye contact her eyes would light up, sort of react in an excited/nervous way. A second time we met, I noticed her and she then looked at me. Again, as our eyes met they seemed to become stimulated/light up, but this time she instantly looked way as her eyes lit up.

Can physiological signs be faked?

Are there any signs of interest as close as being certain? if so, which?

Can you spot a fake woman with fake interest?
might depend on the situation.
 

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How about if a woman looks at you and her eyes react to show they look excited / happy as your eyes meer and she instantly looks away as soon as the become excited. Can that physiological indicator be faked?
 

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Is the vag wet? That can't be faked - although pros will insert K-Y Jelly. :rolleyes:
Can physiological eye reactions be faked? For example, if you look at them and they look at you, but as your eyes meet her eyes light up in an excited/nervous/panic way, before she instantly looks away
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Yes, women can and do fake interest... they are great actresses and since most men have massive egos, we seldom pick up on this.

Women flirt for many reasons other than interest in the man. For many, it's like breathing. They learn to flirt to get what they want at an early age.

What women find VERY hard to do is pretend to NOT be interested in a man. If a woman is attracted to a man, it is almost impossible to hid this if the man knows what to look for.
 

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Yes, women can and do fake interest... they are great actresses and since most men have massive egos, we seldom pick up on this.

Women flirt for many reasons other than interest in the man. For many, it's like breathing. They learn to flirt to get what they want at an early age.

What women find VERY hard to do is pretend to NOT be interested in a man. If a woman is attracted to a man, it is almost impossible to hid this if the man knows what to look for.
What do you look for?
 

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What do you look for?
Well.... if you are trying to figure out if she is faking reel interest... you really can't. BUT if you set your ego aside and try to figure out if she MIGHT have other reasons for disguising interest, then you can approach this with eyes open. Then... well you have to take action, try to make something happen, then if she backs up, starts flaking, is hard to reach... then you know.

If you are trying to figure out if she is hiding interest... well... this is easy with experience, I can't tell you exactly what it is, it's just a gut instinct. It's a lot of sub-conscious clues she is sending out. How she is standing, what she is doing with her hands... trying to avoid eye contact... is she fidgeting? How she is talking to you. Someone asked me about this once and I had a hard time describing this, and the best I can come up with is imagine you are talking to another dude and if this was a dude would you think the behavior was a little weird then you know something is up. Trying to make something happen isn't going to help you because she is likely taken or otherwise won't respond positively to your advances. Being attracted is one thing, she has to also be available. If she is attracted and available she will make things obvious and not spurn advances.
 

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Well.... if you are trying to figure out if she is faking reel interest... you really can't. BUT if you set your ego aside and try to figure out if she MIGHT have other reasons for disguising interest, then you can approach this with eyes open. Then... well you have to take action, try to make something happen, then if she backs up, starts flaking, is hard to reach... then you know.

If you are trying to figure out if she is hiding interest... well... this is easy with experience, I can't tell you exactly what it is, it's just a gut instinct. It's a lot of sub-conscious clues she is sending out. How she is standing, what she is doing with her hands... trying to avoid eye contact... is she fidgeting? How she is talking to you. Someone asked me about this once and I had a hard time describing this, and the best I can come up with is imagine you are talking to another dude and if this was a dude would you think the behavior was a little weird then you know something is up. Trying to make something happen isn't going to help you because she is likely taken or otherwise won't respond positively to your advances. Being attracted is one thing, she has to also be available. If she is attracted and available she will make things obvious and not spurn advances.
Well when we have unexpectedly bumped into each other and make eye contact, her eyes light and she seems excited in the eyes ot nervous. She would then stop and initiate a conversation holding strong and intense eye contact. This was followed by a compliment. Later, I would see her and she would then look and notice me, and, again, her eyes reacted in a excited/nervous/panic followed by instantly look away (possibly because I have brushed her off before). She would look down at my nuts. Her friends have also asked if I sleep with alot of women and whether I see it her women in a relationship and have affairs.

However, she lately cannot look at me, even upon walking past each other. She stares straight ahead. One recent event, we were standing near each other and she wouldn't turned towards me, but would click her tongue and just look straight ahead. I thought her clicking the tongue was nervousness.

What do you think?

Hence I asked whatever physiologically can be faked, in the sense of pupil dilation/excited look
 
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Can physiological reactions be faked?
Yes, women fake interest to make themselves feel better and to stroke their egos. Some women flirt with other men even though they are already in a relationship. Heard many women say this, “I wanted to see if I still had it…”. Zero shame what so ever.

@sangheilios story is a great example. She had a boyfriend but could not resist being desired and getting attention from another man. When the guy tries to make a move, she is appalled. These are your basic attention wh@res. They’ll do whatever they feel like and are not accountable for their actions.
 

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Well when we have unexpectedly bumped into each other and make eye contact, her eyes light and she seems excited in the eyes ot nervous. She would then stop and initiate a conversation holding strong and intense eye contact. This was followed by a compliment. Later, I would see her and she would then look and notice me, and, again, her eyes reacted in a excited/nervous/panic followed by instantly look away (possibly because I have brushed her off before). She would look down at my nuts. Her friends have also asked if I sleep with alot of women and whether I see it her women in a relationship and have affairs.

However, she lately cannot look at me, even upon walking past each other. She stares straight ahead. One recent event, we were standing near each other and she wouldn't turned towards me, but would click her tongue and just look straight ahead. I thought her clicking the tongue was nervousness.

What do you think?

Hence I asked whatever physiologically can be faked, in the sense of pupil dilation/excited look
What you are describing is a situation in which she had interest in you but you failed to act on it.

When a women has interest and flirts with you but you fail to act in a timely manner she starts to see you differently, sees you as weak, under confident. She may also take it as rejection. When this happens she will start to treat you differently, ignore you etc.

A women’s interest in you has a short shelf life.
 

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Can physiological eye reactions be faked? For example, if you look at them and they look at you, but as your eyes meet her eyes light up in an excited/nervous/panic way, before she instantly looks away
No, true physiological reactions (pupil dialation, flushing of the lips/cheeks) cannot be faked. But flirting behaviour such as touching and hair flipping certainly can be, although most body language is unconscious.

Nervous and excited are the same physiological reaction, the only difference is their mental evaluation of the reaction: good vs bad. It's up to you which way they take it.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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