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Law 36: Disdain Things You Cannot Have: Ignoring Them is the Best Revenge By acknowledging a petty problem you give it existence and credibility. The more attention you pay an enemy, the stronger you make him; and a small mistake is often made worse and more visible when you try to fix it. It...

In Behavioral Psychology (see "Real Psychology") this is called intermittent reinforcement of desired behavior. It is the primary component of Operant Conditioning. In other words, Leanne and her proxy have so little respect for you as a human being that they'll resort to "training" you like an...

This would've been like trying to teach a chimp how to use an ATM machine. You could do it, but do you really want to? After this episode, she definitely uses Leanne as her proxy authority now. She practically defaults to her 'wisdom' before she thinks to speak on her own behalf. It's like...

Whether or not she swallows. Heheh,..

NEXT. Sorry son, but if you're at a point where no contact will just make her exit quicker, then more contact wont do much else. And even if it did, is it really worth the effort? You're frustrated by all this because you lack other (better) options. This is the primary function of spinning...

MAMBO, put an age on your profile. Read the forum rules.

I think "counseling" ought to be qualified a bit here. There are 'counselors' who help veterans returning from war with PTSD, there are 'counselors' who talk people out of suicide, and there are 'counselors' who listen to your marriage problems for $75 an hour. Big difference. That said, and...

His wife's not too bad as it is, but, if you've got a Masserati that wont drive faster than 20 mph, you might start looking for a car with better performance.

Put an age on your profile 8YEAR.

Women will sh!t test men as autonomously and subconsciously as a men will stare at a woman's big boobs. They cannot help it, and often enough, just like men staring at a nice rack or a great ass, even when they're aware of doing it they'll still do it. Men want to verify sexual availability to...

I happen to agree with this, however, by this definition then, does not commitment make you a 'slave' by default? If by the circumstances of a commitment you cannot, figuratively, say "no" to the that (or due to that) commitment, are you not then a slave? Take marriage out of the equation; if...

Since this thread has already spun completely off topic I'll just make a few observations about Message Boy's current predicament and how it relates to Beta Game. I'll try to be gentle. First off, I don't believe Message Boy is a woman. His default responses are feminine, his mentality and...

How would you know, you've only been a member here for 3 months? I have a PM mailbox full of messages from guys of every walk of life, from more countries and cultures than I can remember all thanking either me or the community in general for bettering their lives. So why am I posting here? What...

I will agree with this, however, I'd say the distribution is about equal considering the overall spread of AFCs. The main difference is that the AFCs on the discussion forum ACKNOWLEDGE that they're AFCs and are at least attempting to make positive (albeit juvenile at times) steps to unplug...

Seeing as you've only been a member here since August, I'm not so sure you have the depth of experience to understand, much less make a judgement call like this.

Once again, binary thinking. You're making the mistake that Alpha = successful and Beta = failure. You're also mistaking that marriage = success and divorce = failure (which I should also point out is a feminine social convention). Nice Guys finish last, no one said they didn't finish at all...

Beta Game in Japan: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=120696816

And that's the danger, where do you end and she begin? The reason I wrote Identity Crisis almost 5 years ago was exactly this. Men tend to adopt a position of constantly qualifying for a woman's intimacy, and understandably women reinforce this because to puts them in control of the frame and...

You've committed so many cardinal AFC sins in this thread I hardly know where to begin, but,.. Yes. This girl firmly owns the frame now. You haven't been decisive, confident and with every progressive sh!t test you fail she owns you that much more. You are the feminine submissive and she's...

Have you ever read Sperm Wars? Our biochemistry has actually evolved contingencies for female infidelity. There are actually 3 types of sperm, runners, blockers and attackers. It's like genetic football. The blocking sperm form a line of defense around the ovum to deflect competing sperm...