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To answer your question, it’s been 2 years and I’d say I’m trying to calibrate because swinging too far to one extreme is not good, as @BackInTheGame78 said.

Good thread. Like some, I did alright with the ladies even before starting the journey and there’s a bit of depression or whatever you wanna call it during the process. Like ignorance is bliss if you do ok while still blue pill, but it’s the ones that really sting that bring you here and then...

You’re both right. Nothing can be determined without a second date. I’ll play it a bit aggressive and get her to show her hand.

Fellas, Met this 24 yr old girl at a networking event last week. I was there solo as Was she. She came up to me and introduced herself while I was at the open bar. Young,cute, and good conversation so I decided to go for the same night date. After some rapport, I said “let’s get outta here and...

It takes a lot of game. Especially if she’s toxic. OP has to be ruthless. Definitely don’t reach out. If she does, or you see her out, you gotta play hard ball and reel her in. She’s already doing it with antics she pulled at the bar. Push/pull. Confidence/Indifference. If it works and you...

She’s trying to see if she still has the power over you - and if she does you still have to act as if she doesn’t then play the game. You could get her to go as far as banging again by agreeing to play and make that the only way to get the validation she’s seeking. You get a little win because...

Generally it’s better to be the alpha fuk instead of the alternative - in this case the new bf. Except when you get oneitis. I’ve been the other guy (with oneitis) and started to get jealous of the BF when she would go home to him. Which is crazy because who would want to be that guy! You can...

I read somewhere women cut their hair short in middle age or LTRs because they have lost the feminine/masculine polarity and are feeling less in their feminine. Example, BF/husband has gotten lazy. Was it Rollo that wrote that?

If she’s shut down and not giving anybody else attention, why did she discover FB dating? She may be trying to get your head spinning. Good response, stay silent until/unless she starts begging.

This is pretty much what I did last weekend when it happened. Gf showed me the text he sent her that was what I deemed unacceptable. I texted him and told him to have the balls to say it to me and to keep my name out of his mouth and butt out of our relationship. Then later that night, we...

Last weekend I finally got fed up with a male orbiter in my gf’s friend group for his lack of boundaries. He is known for making rude and sexual comments both in front and behind my back. Not just to my gf but all the girls in the group. They just play it off a he’s the dirty old man (he is a...

The only problem i see here is not asking her with a specific meet up. After exchanging a day of texts… “I heard of another cool hiking spot. You should come with me on such and such a day” Asking her in general if she wants to hang out and leaving it at that is timid and will increase the...

I think your reply is fine. Even the others that were suggested. When you overthink a text in the hopes of getting a specific reaction, be careful not to manipulate back. A man is straight up, or doesn’t respond at all. In this case, she tipped her hand that she was trying to manipulate you and...

Regardless of how needy and insecure she is, if you start chasing - by just double texting once - she will pick up on it. The amount of thought and attention you’re giving it by posting on here means you’re anxious, but good on you for not showing your cards to her - just us. The thing is, if...

She sounds a little unstable, plus she’s 26 - still fairly young. It could be any number of reasons that other posters have mentioned, or all of them. Regardless, yes the answer is to mirror her and not reach out until she does. If she isn’t gone, you’ve reached the point where you have to...

Good call, I was just speaking from experience over the last few years. I just tried to look and there is a lot of mixed data worldwide specific to “the pill” increasing or decreasing in popularity.

Girls on birth control don’t want to f*ck beta males, they are just more likely to seek a relationship and benefits of a provider. So you might see “betas” with a LTR girlfriend but more likely than not he’s being, or already was, domesticated/played/etc. Take her off the birth control and he’d...

She could still be playing you. Believe it or not, some chicks know what you wanna hear. Trust your intuition, not the fact that she fvcked you and said some things that make you feel good.

Somewhere in between ignoring her and chatting until you go back to classes. Once you’re back, arrange to meet up and hopefully you’ve done just the right amount of peaking her interest and not being too available to chat, that you can escalate in person and see where it goes.

“player” or in other words “successful with other women” is good and will increase her attraction. You don’t want too much of the reputation of screwing girls over version of player though. She won’t really know, but if her and her friend are talking about you it’s good. comfort game is when...