Female Birth Control & Attraction Mystery

[SW15]

There is something I don't understand about female birth control and attraction.

When women are on birth control, they are supposed to be more attracted to docile beta males. Most women today are on birth control. The majority of the women I've had sex with over time are birth control users. Most men are beta males, though the beta male of today is weaker than the beta male of 1980. Even with most women on birth control and supposedly being more attracted to beta males, the typical beta male of the last 10-15 years is having a more difficult time attracting women and getting laid.

Can someone explain what's going on to me?

Birth control pills may affect who you are attracted to

A top psychologist says that the contraceptive pill can significantly affect a woman's brain and change their personality — and previous studies have supported this.

nypost.com

Do Contraceptive Pills Affect Attraction?

Stopping oral contraceptives may enhance the appeal of alternative partners, a recent study concludes.

www.psychologytoday.com

 

[RickPound]

Girls on birth control don’t want to f*ck beta males, they are just more likely to seek a relationship and benefits of a provider. So you might see “betas” with a LTR girlfriend but more likely than not he’s being, or already was, domesticated/played/etc.

Take her off the birth control and he’d be dropped and she’s chasing alpha d/ck.

Also, more and more girls are not on birth control because more and more of the negative effects are coming out and they are learning that it’s not good for them. So you could say the trend is going back to women preferring alphas.

 

[Velasco]

The simple answer to your question is: birth control does not change women's sexual preferences to one where they will suddenly be unattracted to masculine men. And attracted to weak unmasculine men. This is a laughable lie that I've seen perpetuated for as long as I been in this community.

Remember to always trust your own experience Vs whatever scientific studies try to tell you.

 

[Bigpapa]

The simple answer to your question is: birth control does not change women's sexual preferences to one where they will suddenly be unattracted to masculine men. And attracted to weak unmasculine men. This is a laughable lie that I've seen perpetuated for as long as I been in this community.

Remember to always trust your own experience Vs whatever scientific studies try to tell you.

birth control was intended for the poor to not make many children . That was the whole point of it

but if what the OP was true or close to be true , yoj would not have an increased number of incels

 

[SW15]

Also, more and more girls are not on birth control because more and more of the negative effects are coming out and they are learning that it’s not good for them. So you could say the trend is going back to women preferring alphas.

Any data on this?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Must be a Dallas thing because most of the women I run in to aren't on the pill. I just had a marathon session of sex with this girl and I asked her if she was on the pill and she said Hell no and I was like ummmm.

 

[thermodynamic]

Must be a Dallas thing because most of the women I run in to aren't on the pill. I just had a marathon session of sex with this girl and I asked her if she was on the pill and she said Hell no and I was like ummmm.

My man had a good night out, he be posting on two different threads about this crazy night he having.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

My man had a good night out, he be posting on two different threads about this crazy night he having.

Gorgeous Latina chick with bigger lips than I'm used to. I see the difference now!!!

 

[RickPound]

Any data on this?

Good call, I was just speaking from experience over the last few years. I just tried to look and there is a lot of mixed data worldwide specific to “the pill” increasing or decreasing in popularity.

 

[SW15]

Most women today are on birth control. The majority of the women I've had sex with over time are birth control users.

Must be a Dallas thing because most of the women I run in to aren't on the pill. I just had a marathon session of sex with this girl and I asked her if she was on the pill and she said Hell no and I was like ummmm.

It's not a Dallas thing in the USA. I'm considering all of the last 23 years, including cities where I lived prior to Dallas. If there were differences within major US metros on use of female birth control, the metro areas that I would think would have the most birth control use would be: San Francisco, Los Angeles, Seattle, Portland (OR), Boston, New York City, Philadelphia, and Washington DC.

I have some state level data points below. Every state has the majority of women of reproductive age using birth control.

From the study, which I Googled after writing the sentence ending in Washington DC....

"Use of contraceptive methods was somewhat higher among women living in the West and Northeast regions of the United States, as compared with use among women living in the South and Midwest."

https://www.guttmacher.org/sites/default/files/report_downloads/table_1_state_level_estimates_of_contra_use.pdf

State-Level Estimates of Contraceptive Use in the United States, 2017

Background This report presents new state-level estimates of contraceptive prevalence among women of reproductive age in the United States. While surveillance efforts such as the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG) and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES) collect...

www.guttmacher.org

Gorgeous Latina chick with bigger lips than I'm used to. I see the difference now!!!

According to data collected in 2008-09 and a study published in 2012, young Hispanic women are only half as likely to use contraception compared to non-Hispanic white women of the same age.

The Use of Effective Contraception among Young Hispanic Women: The Role of Acculturation - PMC

Culture may play an important role in contraceptive preference among young Hispanic women. We examined whether acculturation predicted the use of different contraceptives, grouped by level of efficacy in preventing pregnancy. One-thousand seventeen ...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

It's not a Dallas thing in the USA. I'm considering all of the last 23 years, including cities where I lived prior to Dallas. If there were differences within major US metros on use of female birth control, the metro areas that I would think would have the most birth control use would be: San Francisco, Los Angeles, Seattle, Portland (OR), Boston, New York City, Philadelphia, and Washington DC.

I have some state level data points below. Every state has the majority of women of reproductive age using birth control.

From the study, which I Googled after writing the sentence ending in Washington DC....

"Use of contraceptive methods was somewhat higher among women living in the West and Northeast regions of the United States, as compared with use among women living in the South and Midwest."

Are you an ISTJ lol? I guess it makes sense because I can see Nashville and the more liberal areas having higher BC use. I asked the women why they aren’t on it and they told me negative health affects.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Gorgeous Latina chick with bigger lips than I'm used to. I see the difference now!!!

What about dat ass though?

A lot of latin women don’t use BC. It’s a thrill in itself banging women without birth control IMO. LET THE GODS DECIDE.

 

[Velasco]

A lot of latin women don’t use BC.

This is true. Birth control is more a white girl thing from my experience

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

There is something I don't understand about female birth control and attraction.

When women are on birth control, they are supposed to be more attracted to docile beta males. Most women today are on birth control. The majority of the women I've had sex with over time are birth control users. Most men are beta males, though the beta male of today is weaker than the beta male of 1980. Even with most women on birth control and supposedly being more attracted to beta males, the typical beta male of the last 10-15 years is having a more difficult time attracting women and getting laid.

Can someone explain what's going on to me?

Birth control pills may affect who you are attracted to

A top psychologist says that the contraceptive pill can significantly affect a woman's brain and change their personality — and previous studies have supported this.

nypost.com

Do Contraceptive Pills Affect Attraction?

Stopping oral contraceptives may enhance the appeal of alternative partners, a recent study concludes.

www.psychologytoday.com

I think the phenomenon is mate switching.

I think women will just **** different alphas. Or more alpha off the pill.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

What about dat ass though?

A lot of latin women don’t use BC. It’s a thrill in itself banging women without birth control IMO. LET THE GODS DECIDE.

her booty average but I liked her long straight hair lol.

This is true. Birth control is more a white girl thing from my experience

the only white girl I know they didn’t use BC was the polish girl I dated lol

 

[SW15]

more liberal areas having higher BC use.

I don't have data points to support what I am about to say. I think it would be difficult to find a statistical relationship between birth control use and political ideology.

First off, the median woman is more liberal than the median man in terms of ideology.

There are a wide variety of women using birth control. Plenty of women who use birth control are women who are married with their 2 kids. These are the women who likely popped out 2 kids somewhere between 28-35 and are using something like an IUD or Depo to hold them over until menopause. Birth control users are not just a bunch of professional, childless White women with a BA/BS degree or higher. Also, the African-American and Latina women on birth control are also more liberal than average.

This is true. Birth control is more a white girl thing from my experience

I did show data points above about Latinas and birth control. Data points also exist about other groups (Asians and African-Americans) and their use of birth control.

What about dat ass though?

A lot of latin women don’t use BC. It’s a thrill in itself banging women without birth control IMO. LET THE GODS DECIDE.

Dat ass is awesome! Latinas often have great asses. I've had fewer Latina lovers than White women. I have had a few fit White women with round, sculpted butts from a lot of squats.

 

[BadBoy89]

When women are on birth control, they are supposed to be more attracted to docile beta males. Most women today are on birth control. The majority of the women I've had sex with over time are birth control users. Most men are beta males, though the beta male of today is weaker than the beta male of 1980. Even with most women on birth control and supposedly being more attracted to beta males, the typical beta male of the last 10-15 years is having a more difficult time attracting women and getting laid.

Can someone explain what's going on to me?

Come on bro, even if those studies and what you said above is true, a woman being on birth control does not mean a beta male can have sex with her easier. One has nothing to do with the other.

Just because women are on birth control doesn't mean they are not picky
Just because women are on birth control doesn't mean they don't want to see how desperate the guy is
Just because women are on birth control doesn't mean there is tons and tons and tons of competition for their services

Imagine a beta guy going up to a hot girl at a bar:

"Hey HB 9, are you on birth control?"
"None of your business but yeah"
"Well then you should have sex with me because I can't get you pregnant."

Rock on!

 

[devilkingx2]

There is something I don't understand about female birth control and attraction.

When women are on birth control, they are supposed to be more attracted to docile beta males. Most women today are on birth control. The majority of the women I've had sex with over time are birth control users. Most men are beta males, though the beta male of today is weaker than the beta male of 1980. Even with most women on birth control and supposedly being more attracted to beta males, the typical beta male of the last 10-15 years is having a more difficult time attracting women and getting laid.

Can someone explain what's going on to me?

Birth control pills may affect who you are attracted to

A top psychologist says that the contraceptive pill can significantly affect a woman's brain and change their personality — and previous studies have supported this.

nypost.com

Do Contraceptive Pills Affect Attraction?

Stopping oral contraceptives may enhance the appeal of alternative partners, a recent study concludes.

www.psychologytoday.com

It's possible for something to be true on paper but difficult to notice in reality.

It's also possible that other factors like the way Tinder works counterbalance the effects of birth control.

 

[SW15]

It's also possible that other factors like the way Tinder works counterbalance the effects of birth control.

This is a very good explanataion. Swipe apps and social media DMs may nullify any effect.

Imagine a beta guy going up to a hot girl at a bar:

"Hey HB 9, are you on birth control?"
"None of your business but yeah"
"Well then you should have sex with me because I can't get you pregnant."

Rock on!

That would be an awesome approach!