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Oh, and they both had dogs they were unhealthily attached to. Like if they ever say to their dog “you saved me” or “you’re my everything”…

Search this site. There are a lot of threads on this. In general though, it’s caused by trauma - so anything in her past like a broken family, abusive relationships, r*pe, etc are a good indicator. The common denominator between the two women I was involved with is that their mothers both had...

Maybe that’s why the babes hangout with him

Sorry bros, I realize my own part in this. It’s not that I’m looking for someone to tell me what I’m doing is ok, but almost like I need more people to tell me she’s messed up and it’s not my fault. It’s the same thing though because it is my fault for being a part of it. I have the ability to...

She sent me a barrage of texts today once she realized I blocked her social media, asking why. Saying “if you’re gonna be sketchy, maybe we shouldn’t talk” I’m like “Are you insane!?”

Yes, they are super hot chicks haha. It’s not easy but that doesn’t justify it. I have a lot to work on to figure out why I couldn’t block, delete, and ignore. Or, maybe why I can’t get them to act right

I didn’t apologize for liking puzzy and having an on again off again ex. I apologized that a crazy girl sent them a text from my phone

Yes, some of you know my history and it’s terrible. The reason I post on here is to hear the “tough love” because I am struggling with doing what I know is right. I’m definitely not looking for anyone to make me feel better - I certainly have a problem - at least in the last two years - getting...

What would be the next move with the girls who got that text? I sent a quick but sincere apology and told them my phone obviously got “stolen”. Just wait until they reach out again? Or give it a few days to blow over and proceed as usual?

A few days ago…

Yep, this was what she did. It’s a recent breakup and it’s been pretty messy. Was doing good keeping her away for a few weeks but she got me to give in during a “crisis” where she had nowhere to go. Definitely my fault.

My crazy ex went through my phone when I didn’t know it and texted her from my number, among other girls, some **** about STDs and trying to figure out who I’ve been sleeping with. Pretty sure she sabotaged anything I had going with this one (the one I like the most). I was just about to reach...

My ex-gf who I’m going through a messy breakup with looked through my phone the other night and texted three girls “hey, I’m just figuring out if I need an STD check so texting all the girls Rick’s been with. This is (her name) his on and off girlfriend”. I didn’t find out until the next day...

If you’re alluding to daddy issues being a sign of the girl being damaged in some way, don’t discount mommy issues either. Last two chicks that I got involved with that, I would say, had some sort of unhealthy relational habits (to say the least) actually had their mom cheat on their dad and...

I kept this spinning for another couple weeks but she blew herself out this week. She started getting pretty demanding, aggressive with “we need to talk” stuff, and even got more feminist and masculine lately. After a date this week I took her home because I had an early work commitment in the...

This girl seems to have a very healthy relationship with her phone and social media. She’s really hot, but her posts are modest - seldom even of herself. And most other people in them are her brothers and family doing activities. Her parents are still together and she’s away because she’s...

There’s truth in all your messages above. I squeezed girl 2 into my weekend because I wanted a chance with her, but it made for suboptimal logistics and opportunity to see it through. I’m definitely not discounting low interest, or that she’s not interested “in that way”, but she did reach out...

@BeExcellent The interaction was good quality for a first meet. Took her on an outdoor activity, food after, then a drink in the hot tub back a my place before I had to ask her to leave. It would surprise me if she was expecting escalation that quick. I actually have to go to her city in 2...

The distance was the main reason I didn’t cancel on the original girl to continue the date with the 2nd. It surely woulda blown up if I cancelled while she was already a few hours into her drive to see me. I’m more wondering why the girl I sent home hasn’t replied. Did she lose interest because...

Fair enough. They’re both from extended social circle that I have status in and get recognized from. Not from OLD