Ex gf looks through my phone and texted other girls

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To you perhaps and the small percentages of chads, chadlites, tyrones and chadrones but appearantly the OP does not believe he is in those tiers.
You don't need to be in those tiers. You just have to actually go out and talk with women and go on dates and learn from your mistakes.
 

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You fcked up by apologizing. You tell them you like puzzy if tested. End of story.
I swear i read some of this advice in this thread and very few of you truly understand womens nature and how that hind brain works.

Long story short Rick NEVER apologize for your dik.
I didn’t apologize for liking puzzy and having an on again off again ex. I apologized that a crazy girl sent them a text from my phone
 

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Next thread on sosuave:

"My ex and I are living together as roommates. She doesnt want me to bring any girls back home to seal the deal. What do I do guys?"
 

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The man has created many thread about 2 or 3 women and they are all the same. Toxic women who see OP as a target for them to use and then dump when he has served his purpose. OP acts needy and all he cares about is sex and no matter what they do or how badly they treat him, his self respect and dignity have no importance to him as long as he can figure out a way to continue getting sex from them. Honestly starting to think OP is some kind of sex addict and he uses it like a junkie uses drugs for a fix

OP hasn't learned anything and continue to make the same mistakes over and over again and does the opposite of what many have advised him to do. Why? Because he doesn't want help he wants people to make him feel better about what he is doing and tell them he is OK to do it. But, no, you aren't getting that here.
Maybe he is sadistic and gets a kick out of being treated like this.
 

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Yes, some of you know my history and it’s terrible. The reason I post on here is to hear the “tough love” because I am struggling with doing what I know is right. I’m definitely not looking for anyone to make me feel better - I certainly have a problem - at least in the last two years - getting wrapped up with toxic, dangerous woman and the pain is self inflicted by not having the ability to permanently exit when I should.
Are these super hot chicks you are involved with? I mean if they are solid 8s and in there twenties, yeh I kinda get it's not easy letting them 304s go.

But if they just average overweight whales? Then I have to ask why are you doing this to yourself.
 

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Are these super hot chicks you are involved with? I mean if they are solid 8s and in there twenties, yeh I kinda get it's not easy letting them 304s go.

But if they just average overweight whales? Then I have to ask why are you doing this to yourself.
Yes, they are super hot chicks haha. It’s not easy but that doesn’t justify it. I have a lot to work on to figure out why I couldn’t block, delete, and ignore. Or, maybe why I can’t get them to act right
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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She sent me a barrage of texts today once she realized I blocked her social media, asking why. Saying “if you’re gonna be sketchy, maybe we shouldn’t talk” I’m like “Are you insane!?”
 

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She sent me a barrage of texts today once she realized I blocked her social media, asking why. Saying “if you’re gonna be sketchy, maybe we shouldn’t talk” I’m like “Are you insane!?”
How does she still have access to you? You are trolling, please stop.
 

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She sent me a barrage of texts today once she realized I blocked her social media, asking why. Saying “if you’re gonna be sketchy, maybe we shouldn’t talk” I’m like “Are you insane!?”
And the saga continues.

Let's all embrace the moment of you trolling us on this forum.

Correct response:

Her: "if you’re gonna be sketchy, maybe we shouldn’t talk” I’m like
You: Banana Emoji, Apple Emoji, Gold Tiger Emoji, Cucumber Emoji

Problem solved.
 

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Sorry bros, I realize my own part in this. It’s not that I’m looking for someone to tell me what I’m doing is ok, but almost like I need more people to tell me she’s messed up and it’s not my fault. It’s the same thing though because it is my fault for being a part of it.

I have the ability to attract these super hot girls but then I’m not able to eject before the fun’s over. Instead I let them infect me with their craziness and all my insecurities and ego just keeps me in the chaos.
 
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Sorry bros, I realize my own part in this. It’s not that I’m looking for someone to tell me what I’m doing is ok, but almost like I need more people to tell me she’s messed up and it’s not my fault. It’s the same thing though because it is my fault for being a part of it.

I have the ability to attract these super hot girls but then I’m not able to eject before the fun’s over. Instead I let them infect me with their craziness and all my insecurities and ego just keeps me in the chaos.
at least you admit it. don't apologize, just be better. the irony here is that nothing drives a woman crazier than when you enforce boundaries.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Sorry bros, I realize my own part in this. It’s not that I’m looking for someone to tell me what I’m doing is ok, but almost like I need more people to tell me she’s messed up and it’s not my fault. It’s the same thing though because it is my fault for being a part of it.

I have the ability to attract these super hot girls but then I’m not able to eject before the fun’s over. Instead I let them infect me with their craziness and all my insecurities and ego just keeps me in the chaos.
Nobody is going to tell you this. It IS your fault because you keep allowing the same sh!t to happen over and over again.

It's like the lyrics from the song Legendary by Welshly Arms:

"You know the truth can be a weapon
To fight this world of ill intentions
A new answer to the same question
How many times will you learn the same lesson?"

There is nothing wrong with making a mistake, that's how you learn.

But Goddamn man, how many fvcking times do you have to make the same one and learn the same lesson?

Smart people don't keep making the same mistakes over and over again.
 

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Nobody is going to tell you this. It IS your fault because you keep allowing the same sh!t to happen over and over again.

It's like the lyrics from the song Legendary by Welshly Arms:

"You know the truth can be a weapon
To fight this world of ill intentions
A new answer to the same question
How many times will you learn the same lesson?"

There is nothing wrong with making a mistake, that's how you learn.

But Goddamn man, how many fvcking times do you have to make the same one and learn the same lesson?

Smart people don't keep making the same mistakes over and over again.

He's just trolling man.
 
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