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    Once the respect is gone is there any way to get it back?

    Hey man, you need to focus on your self respect, not ruminate over more details of her sh**y behavior and try to make sense of why she’s doing it. I know it’s hard, trust me, but you deserve better. You can’t fix it. I’ve been there and tried and wish I bailed out way sooner. Then at least you...
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    When did you last get a BJ?

    Road head on the way home from a night out Saturday, then she woke me up with one Sunday morning. There are girls that get turned on by doing it, they’re the best. If you have to negotiate for them, and she’s not into it, I’ll pass.
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    Girl pulls out vibrator when having sex

    Depends on what her prospects are to you. ONS, FWB, or more, if it should bother you. I had this recently. She pulled out her vibrator, and a weed vape, and used them at the same time. I just said “damn girl you need a lot of stimulation eh” and kept going. I didn’t think to much of it other...
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    Busting your load in a girl on the first date

    If she offers you one out of her purse. She doesn’t give you a chance to undress her first. She takes her own pants and panties off at the same time the second her back touches the bed…
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    Busting your load in a girl on the first date

    I think you reach a point when your intuition informs you whether you need to wear a condom and/or if it’s ok to bust in a chick when you first meet her. I’ve had girls that requested I get an STD test before we start hooking up (she wanted something serious, and it did) - and then there are...
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    Busting your load in a girl on the first date

    Good test of a man’s willpower. Thank god I didn’t get her pregnant - she’s a loon, to put it mildly
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    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    Seems like you just gotta learn to calibrate a bit OP. What you wanted to express to her was that you have other options hoping it’d get the outcome you wanted, but the way you did it was way too strong. The best way to do it is to actually get other options. Then when you sense hesitation or a...
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    OLD - Agreed Upon Meetup, After Some Drag Time

    DO NOT TEXT HER ANYTHING! Maybe, and I mean just maybe, somewhere down the road she might think you weren’t so bad and she’ll reach out again if you made any kind of good impression before blowing it up. But if you text her that, you’ll blow that 1/1,000,000 chance for sure.
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    Busting your load in a girl on the first date

    A girl I was banging for awhile who had a boyfriend would beg me to nut in her. She wasn’t on BC, but tracked her cycle (as did I). When it was presumably safe, I would and she loved it. Sometimes in the heat of the moment when we both knew it wasn’t a “safe” part of her cycle, she would still...
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    FR: Pushed through excuses and got s*x on third date

    Yea they are examples of resistance I sensed and her excuses. We don’t really text a lot anyway. I’m leaving town today for a work trip so she came over last night and cooked me dinner. Then we built rapport, and again this morning - if you know what I mean
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    FR: Pushed through excuses and got s*x on third date

    Haha thanks, kinda why I put it up. Just for a data point. Text game could be terrible but some kind of communication got her in my bed. btw I’m in blue
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    FR: Pushed through excuses and got s*x on third date

    @firstbornunicorn There are a few things that CW harps on that I think hold up, fundamental basics… @Zimbabwe It wasn’t really much effort. Much less and I woulda just been being lazy and leaving some p*ssy on the table. I guess I should clarify, she’s hot - like paid Instagram baddie - so I’d...
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    FR: Pushed through excuses and got s*x on third date

    2nd half of conversation…
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    FR: Pushed through excuses and got s*x on third date

    This chick reached out to me on social media and showed interest in meeting up. I entertained her lightly for a couple weeks before setting the first date which led to only a little making out. 2nd date was a hike and drinks in the hot tub after. Some heavy petting and more making out. Did the...
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    Ex contacted me today about missed period.

    It was definitely fake. Either she wasn’t late at all or she was a few days late and that’s where she got the idea as a way to mess with you. This happened to me and I think it’s a tactic used by Cluster B after they dump you when you don’t beg and it looks like you’re moving on. They need...
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    What is your favorite part about SEX?

    The “afterglow” is a good one. There’s nothing like leaving the house in the morning with that clear mind after getting laid and truly being able to focus on your mission for the day with such clarity. “Getting the poison out” as some would say. Overall though, it’s the passionate moments that...
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    Girl with boyfriend gave me her number

    Oh I know. That’s a good story. I’m getting to the point where nothing surprises me with women these days. She knows how to get ahold of me.
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    Favorite Weekend Getaways

    A ski resort town in winter like Park City UT or Aspen. Nice hotel, champagne in the hot tub, nice dinner, a little shopping, late night ****tails. Pro tip: if the girl doesn’t get weirded out by it, tell the hotel it’s your anniversary or engagement and they usually upgrade you to a nice...
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    Girl with boyfriend gave me her number

    I’m not holding on. I asked her schedule last week to try and get her out (or to my place) but she didn’t respond so it’s done. I might be able to get away with one more attempt but I don’t like doing that ****. If she does come around I’m certainly escalating
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