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The game is over unless she reaches out or I bump into her somewhere. As a buddy of mine put it, some girls just have boyfriends for fun and how are they gonna meet a better guy to upgrade to unless they are open to it. Especially since she’s only 22. We all know how they work.

I’m not reaching out again. If I bump into her in person somewhere I’ll lay on some charm but keep it light and quick. Just thought this was a good little experiment and practice, but I’m not gonna pursue her. If she reaches out I know it’s go time.

I texted her when I was done having dinner with my friends and we were headed to a nearby bar for a few more drinks. She said it was late and she had to get up early but she’d “be around during the week”. Texted her a few days later asking her schedule and no response. Left it at that…

Tonight. First time texting her since the DM with her number and boyfriend comment…. Me: “Hey it’s Rick, I’m headed out tonight for a friends birthday. What are you up to later? Her: “I’m still at the office finishing some things. Not sure about later. Me: “Come out and meet me somewhere”...

We’re in similar professions but not the same company or anything. I’m more established in the line of work so I could almost be a mentor to her since she’s new and young in the industry. I’ll take the “yellow light” as her telling me I better know what I’m doing and not blow up the spot - but...

She was an instructor for a training course I was in earlier this week so we’re in a similar line of work. Mid 20’s and carried herself well. I have some status in this context and built some rapport with her throughout. Anyway, sent her a DM the next day. Me: “Hey good job instructing...

Do what you want with masculine intention. “Hey ex, I’m cleaning up my place on Saturday and will drop your things off at such and such a time” because you’re doing what you want when it works for you. You want them out of your way. Or “Hey ex, I’m cleaning up my place and then I’ll be gone...

Good post. I can attest to this from experience as well. The best success with woman has come when I wasn't worried about it but was busy with my life and "in my stride" so to speak. You don't need to make time or space for women, they will find out where their opportunities are and put...

November of 2020. Was googling a girl’s behavior and tried to dig deeper because I know the stuff I found years before that during a breakup didn’t seem to get at the real truths (mainstream articles with advice that I knew didn’t click). Found The Rational Male and then this forum. I had a...

This sums it up… When you have the option to have sex before going out to potentially find more girls, you probably don’t need to look up the right thing to do on here.

When we first met she kept trying to get me to come to her yoga studio for a class. She just reached back out with a picture of my profile in the booking system and said “This you?” I was in there from years ago when I went a few times with an ex. I said “Yea why?”and she said “Well I just...

But yea, it’s true. It’s that unspoken swagger, confidence, lack of thirst, and maybe some pheromones that women can smell when you’re out after having just gotten sex. Like a short term abundance mindset.

If I can have sex before I go out to cold approach I’ll just stay home and have sex

This got me thinking… I was hooking up and calling girls before everybody had a cell phone. I had to call their house and ask for them when their parents answered and same when they called my house. This would be like 5th grade into early high school. I remember talking to girls all night until...

Yea, I’m not saying I’m at the top of my game right now.

You guys are probably right. I agreed too quick and set myself up for the flake. But, I’m not butthurt by her dropping off the first time. Same with this one. My mindset truly was I can take it or leave it. When she reached back out I felt just as nonchalant about seeing her again as I was about...

I was just genuinely surprised. When she faded away a few months back I assumed she appreciated that I got the hint she lost interest/was seeing somebody else and I did the right thing by stopping contact. I saw it as adult dating and no games. I did see her on OLD a few days after this which...

Silly (of her if that’s true), there was no need to talk more than the quick convo when they stopped by our table on their way in. Going out of my way to say goodbye would’ve been odd. I was expecting everyone to say “validation” - that she was just seeing if I’d still bite for her ego. So the...

Me (36) her (28). Started seeing this chick back in early summer. Met her at an event through mutual friends and then slid into her DMs and got a date. Things ramped up over the next few weeks into mid summer. Got sexual by the 2nd or 3rd date. We hung out maybe once a week to where her IL was...

Matters if she’s on birth control or not. No Bc means full hormone effect.