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No, you did good. But you still gotta keep your game tight to maintain the vibe that you actually might be.

Agree and amplify, amused mastery, vague/playful answer. Whatever you wanna go with here - and milk it for as long as you can until they need a little comfort game to balance it out. Even if you don’t do anything to come off as a player, the girl brain assumes you are because she’s attracted or...

She sounds like a terrible lay though…

Is it BPD girl summer? My favorite season

BPD girls are a hell of a drug

This is why she wants him and not you

Yep, that’s all you can do. There’s nothing you can text or say that will raise her interest level back up. You can only walk away and let her reach back out if it didn’t drop too much already.

There are different categories of women when it comes to their condom preferences but as someone said they are also very controlled by the moment. A girl could insist because she’s responsible and protecting herself, or she could insist because she know’s she a sl*t. It’s then up to the man to...

What @Foe said OP.. once you realize her chaos has nothing to do with you, you can find your center again by doing nothing and not reacting. Your pain and your pleasure that you associate with her is mostly chemical, like @LARaiders85 said, you don’t believe it can get any better or any worse...

This is a tricky situation. I’ve been in something very similar. Like others have said, she’s having her cake and eating it too. And most likely won’t leave her “provider” at home. She does have the better deal and will most likely gaslight and manipulate you to keep it that way. She’s...

Yes that’s kinda my point. Emotions vs logic. “Genuine burning desire” vs stability. But in my case, and the OPs, we were dealing with mentally damaged women so the rules could go out the window.

Slow your roll and try to keep your perspective. A lot of men will tell you that things getting this intense this quick is a red flag that could lead to bad things down the road. Understand you’re under the influence of drugs, literally, chemicals in your brain. Try to maintain a level head...

Kidding, that’s only kinda true. My buddy’s and I usually don’t have to come up with tricks or games to keep each other interested. We’re usually talking about life, things we’re up to, goals, cool things we’ve seen out in the world, funny stories, making jokes about things in our surroundings...

Everybody usually just scrolls on their phones until the drinks or food comes

She was young. Early 20’s. No kids. So I just don’t think it was driving her yet. But as far as she knew, just an upgrade in lifestyle. She has no idea of my assets or net worth.

Hmm, my experience with what I think was a BPD chick is that she could care less about money and resources. It was all about the emotions and yearning for love. She couldn’t peel herself away from a guy who lived in a ****ty basement apartment while I’m the one who has his sh*t together.

She’s 24 and I’m 36. Hot, young, and pretty cool besides her character flaws. She would hint towards a branch swing but never do it. I rationally knew her behavior was trash but my ego wanted to win her. That’s why I was a little relieved that she moved away, and a little rattled to see her...

Good stuff from a man that came from a generation of masculinity. Funny how this turned to the gym and spinning plates quickly. It’s almost become the cliche of SS, but the intent behind it is still valuable.

A chick I've posted on here about before is back in my head. It was about a 2 year deal, her cheating on her long time live in BF with me, lying, gaslighting, push/pull, all the good stuff - with both of us. He didn't know but then found out. Everything blew up in her face but she went back and...

@Gamisch articulated it well. Don’t make a problem where there isn’t one and don’t fall in love. If you start expecting more than what it is, it’ll be over sooner than it was going to be anyway. If you can stay at arms length and maintain your cool, you might be able to squeeze more out of her.