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    What do you guys do for a living?

    I'm a computer programmer, been doing it for 10+ years, now I have a good job where I work from home building data analysis and statistics systems for the gov't.
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    Sighs...here we go again. "Where are all the good black men"

    I couldn't agree more, fact of the matter is when you look different people treat you differently. It's a human characteristic to identify patterns and differences. Frankly I have much more in common with the average white suburbanite than I do a black guy from the "inner-city"; problem is (for...
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    Getting old sucks, even for TLM.

    The answer: Yoga FULL of trim women, and you get into shape.
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    Sighs...here we go again. "Where are all the good black men"

    Not quite, not trying to hate or stir **** up, but if you're walking down the street and see another well put together man quite similar to yourself do you make eye contact and acknowledge each other? Every white person I've told this doesn't seem to understand that there is an unspoken...
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    On Masturbation...(Good article)

    I think we should make a distinction here between masturbating and porn. Are you jerking off because you want to, need to blow of steam, prepping for a big date or are you jerking off because you're looking at porn and you're looking at porn because, hey, its porn. I'm taking this as a challenge...
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    I'm engaged, help me

    Its been 2 weeks since he posted this, I'm hoping its done and he's busy swimming in an ocean of rebound pvssy
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    Sighs...here we go again. "Where are all the good black men"

    Another token black guy checkin in... Backbreaker, we clones, though I ain't married. Props to you Solo, long time fan. Cola keep your head up. Thing is both sexes in the black community are pretty ****ed up in their own ways. I'm guessing a lot of black guys on this forum are in that top...
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    Roommate Driving Me Nuts!

    Reading the OP, I think you could copy and paste it to some Mom-blog about her sons and sloppy husband. If you own a place why have a roommate? Isn't the point of ownership having the ability to do what you want on your terms? If he's bothering you that much get rid of him.
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    TIPS for going to the CLUB ALONE (aka "Going Dolo")

    Ran into this last night, out at a trendy bar saw some girls went and talked with them, they asked who I was with, said I was solo, she says "Wow, you're brave", I played that up like a motherf*cker. Right now I have no choice but to roll solo, however, it is improving my game I think when I...
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    A Call to Action!

    This is action is non female related but covers some of the other aspects of male life. I'm starting a new job next month, pays more money than I've ever made (what recession?) I've got a sh*t lot of money in the bank Looking to buy a house soon Almost completely out of debt apart from my car...
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    Got first number, now problem

    If she was that drunk she probably doesn't remember you exactly. She remembers she spoke to someone but probably couldn't pick you out of a line up, and it sounds like you couldn't either. If she doesn't respond no big deal, next time ease up on the booze, it should make you relaxed not sloppy.
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    Want to contact a girl from my past. Good or bad idea

    Go for it, just say hi. This is different from a No Contact situation, you lost contact and found her again. Good luck.
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    Success With Online Dating

    Picture is key, you need a good one, not some self portrait mirror camera phone piece of sh*t, I've been experimenting with a few online dating sites and I've found that most of Joe's advice is right, when I first started I was getting no action, but now the numbers are picking up. Its a black...
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    Flaked. Now what?

    Next.... Well before you do that, have you called her and she's not calling back, than next. Prod her a bit if you get no response, she's not into it.
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    Heartbreak

    Fixed that for you. You're better off, now's your chance to improve. Get fit, get smart, improve your career, wardrobe, finances, sense of humor, personality. Then if you randomly bump into her down the road and she's an unhappy suburban housewife and you're king of the world, the only...
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    How to ask out a totally random chick???

    This is what you do: Make sure you're dressed well, not dressed up, just clean and put together, walk in there, walk straight up to her desk and say "hi you want to get a drink sometime". She may remember you she might not, but if you had good conversation the last time her subconscious will...
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    Return of the "X"

    Solomon, I respect you and I know you got this squared away, but to the young bucks out there take note; this is a good example of why every DJ needs a lineup of women. When one starts getting out of line or throwing up the drama or wanting to get serious, she's benched or cut from the team.
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    Askmen.com

    AM is alright, I feel like most of the articles are kind of fluff pieces, it tries to posture itself as this high end online mag, but most of the guys going there can't afford $800 suits and $1500 watches. Some of the workplace advice is practical about being assertive and what not, alot of it...
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    Jon and Kate plus 8

    Jon's a dumbass for letting his wife push him around like that, whatever. What would be a GREAT show would be Kate trying to get back into the dating scene. I would love to see the chumps they get to date this controlling b*tch with 8 kids. I've seen about 30 seconds of the show, I hate the...
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    Let's get real, marriage is a business.

    They're talking about overall net worth which in this case includes the value of the house. As a single guy making a very good salary trying to buy a house in a major city, I can tell you its a pain in the ass. If I was married and my wife made half what I make, home buying would be so much...
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