Sighs...here we go again. "Where are all the good black men"

[women haze]

Same old story

What do the brothers of So Suave have to say about this?

3 good black men for every 100 black women....

http://newsone.com/nation/thegrio3/where-are-all-the-good-single-black-men/

 

[SoSuaveDude]

I think it is utter foolishness, and really pointless.

Whenever i hear a "black women" complain about "black men" as if they're a different species, it just irks me. Race shouldn't be a concern, because every race has productive individuals, and extremely lazy "worthless" ones.

I also hate how the media continually portrays men as the obvious "villian" and as women can do no wrong. These women are often getting knocked up by the wrong guy, and left being the single mom. Instead of learning from thew previous relationship, they often continue to mess with men who resemble their baby's father. Imo, i believe they're are much more "good" men than women, and not a person in this forum would disagree.

Women's expectations are very hypocritical too nowadays. They want a perfect man, and yet they bring absolutely nothing too the table! Entitlement issues ftw.

If they are going to do a study to disprove men, why not be realistic about women too. Ridiculous lol!

 

[The Experience]

I think it is utter foolishness, and really pointless.

If they are going to do a study to disprove men, why not be realistic about women too. Ridiculous lol!

Agreed.

I believe somebody said that most statistics are made up on the spot.
Besides, how do you even classify somebody as 'a good black man'???
I bet a woman made this.

 

[macagent]

...
I bet a woman made this.

this.

 

[Solomon]

In before they shut this **** down

http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2011/08/30/the-frustated-black-man/

kill that noise, I see more black men in shape then black women (sure I see a lot of sisters in the gym, but most of them are out of shape while most black men I see in the gym are in decent to good shape)

I see good brothers like myself getting passed over for "deadbeat thugs" on the corner

If your a black man and wanna date black women date African women or black women who are in college these women tend to have a bit more common sense.

I like White girls but fucc it if I have to go to Africa to marry a black women so be it

 

[Solomon]

Women's expectations are very hypocritical too nowadays. They want a perfect man, and yet they bring absolutely nothing too the table! Entitlement issues ftw.!

:yes:

+1 4 da rep

http://youtu.be/1HVcFyF-mco
^^This is a clip from "Diary of a Mad Black Man" By Tim Alexander its a rebuttal movie for all that beta Tyler Perry shyt its a docu/movie I recommend it heavily (even for white guys) It not only address whats wrong with black men and women relationship but also whats wrong with women period

 

[Strelok]

The average black man is probably the most discriminated subject of all, you wont find any other sex or race that found in past and still find in present the same obstacles of the average black man.

Even black women join the pissing off group, if the white male has no real role model in modern media or society the opposite happens to the black male who wheter he likes it or not is either a thug or a nothing if he chose any other way of live.

I'm sure part of the problem comes from single mothers that keep repeating their daughters that black men are good for nothing, so black women learn this crap since they're young and no matter what a black man does he is simply not enough for her.
No different than the crap told to white girls about them being princess and that man are all pigs whos only purpose is to serve her.

And yeah you're totally right, this crap has been done from a woman you can see the target of that not only in the content but also in the form.

In some point it say that 66% of black children dont live with their biological father as if it was a fathers only fault, of course women are taken out of the "fault equation".

 

[Kupid Diggs]

Same BS, different day.

I'm not even going to waste my time addressing this BS issue...

 

[bigneil]

In the big picture, it's really about the ultra-wealthy versus 99.99% of the population.

The elite want us all to fight each other - men versus women, black versus white, white versus spanish, as they quietly take all of the wealth through fiat currency and a police state.

Though black men are victimized far more by the sham war on drugs, white men are discriminated as much as anyone in the media nowadays. We went from Sean Connery to Al Bundy to King of Queens. Feminism is against all men.

 

[backbreaker]

In before they shut this **** down

http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2011/08/30/the-frustated-black-man/

kill that noise, I see more black men in shape then black women (sure I see a lot of sisters in the gym, but most of them are out of shape while most black men I see in the gym are in decent to good shape)

I see good brothers like myself getting passed over for "deadbeat thugs" on the corner

If your a black man and wanna date black women date African women or black women who are in college these women tend to have a bit more common sense.

I like White girls but fucc it if I have to go to Africa to marry a black women so be it

Preach it brotha!

I am as many of you know African American as well.

It's a quite complex issue seriously. Take myself. I'm lucky enough to have been raised in a upper middle class neighrbood. I went to a pretty much all white school, there were 4 black people including myself that graudated with my class. One of the best schools in the country however. I wouldn't go so far to call myself an oreo or antyhing but, truth be told, i just don't have alot in common with the black girl who went grew up in east end little rock (the black part of town). Not because i am smarter or better than she is, but we have different interests. We don't run in the same circles. I have to petty much go out of my way in my normal routine of things to find black women. So, it's likely unless i'm at the mall or getting something to eat, I'm not going to just be running into boatloads of cute black women.


Second, most black people are naturally thicker than other races. Sorry but it's true. I don't know if it's beucase of genetics or dietary issues, but i dont' like thick women. I take care of myself, i don't care how big your ass is. I don't care how "good your pvssy" is. I like nice legs. I like firmness,something most black women aren'[t sadly enough. Hit the freaking gym and stop *****ing.

I can count on 2 hands how many black women i've seen in the gym sinc i've been going, which is about 7 years now. Black women in gyms, for more than a month are just not seen. Ironically my mom goes to the gym every day for 1 hour, and has no problem finding black men. She's dating retired air force mechanic now with no kids.

Also I am an atheist, or at the very best a deist, I'm not a christian. That's just not going to fly over in most black households. Hell it doesn't fly over in my own.

But let's say you do meet a black girl that you are attracted to and i'm not saying it NEVER happens, of course it does. Let's first get something straight, black women in this regard, are no worse than white women. Replace "thug" with " jerk" and you have the exact same actions. black women, like white women, have a habit of saying one thing then doing another. saying they don't want something yet keep going back to it.


What does get to me however, and this IS the difference between the two, is that black women, seem to think I am the one with the problem because I'm "not black enough" because i don';t care for rap and i wear clothes that fit, and have a career and i can put a sentence together. White women don't' say you aren't white enough if a guy has his priorities in order, she keeps him around and either strings him along for the future or just makes him do **** for her, but she doesn't abuse the guy.

One girl who i dated for a while, and i like dher too, she was a virgin, and i was a senior in high school. we had some opportunities but i told her id dint' want to tak eher viriginity in the back seat of a car, i wanted to be half ass special. What does she do? She goes to a party one night and gets basically gangbanged by what you would classify as thugs. Then once she told me basically cursed me out and called me a punk and i wasn't "hood enough". "I can't date a guy who acts white".

I ran into her about 6 years later while picking up some taco bell for my sister while in town. Now she has 3 kids, and is still working at the same taco bell she was working at when I met her in high school. She was flirting with my white ass like it was no tomorrow lol.

I'm married to a white woman, now those same girls who told me i was too white for them or not black enough, now I'm a sellout lol. you can't have it both ways. I am /was very attracted to black women. Very much so. But hell while most thought i was cute or handsome, most weren't really feeling me, basically because of the way I carry myself. Now of course they are. Now that I am a successful guy, which I because of the same traits you chastised, hard working, priorities in order, ambitious, you want what you threw in the trash.

 

[cola]

I'm going to go against the grain. I'm a black inner city kid raised in the ghetto and It aint alot of good black men. Most of the dudes I grew up with I wouldn't want to date my sister. They all smoke weed, sell drugs or hit women. For a long time I was just like them.

But their are some good black dudes but because they dont have that careless attitude the black girls dont want them because they are "lame". Black women usually outgrow that bad boy phase by like 25, then its too late because they are some thug dudes babymama lol. Then no good dude wants them .


To that backbreaker dude call me common but I love me some ass and titties.
Whats good solo long time no rap ..

P.s I wanted to touch on this a black woman can go to the gym and have a flat stomach and a soft phat ass. I work out at a ymca in the hood I see black women there all the time they just probably dont go to y oi r gym

To my black sisters thoe I love y'all. You get a black womans heart and she will ride for you to the end. Most white chicks are too whiney for me I need a black chick or a spanish rice cooking chick

 

[backbreaker]

I'm going to go against the grain. I'm a black inner city kid raised in the ghetto and It aint alot of good black men. Most of the dudes I grew up with I wouldn't want to date my sister. They all smoke weed, sell drugs or hit women. For a long time I was just like them.

But their are some good black dudes but because they dont have that careless attitude the black girls dont want them because they are "lame". Black women usually outgrow that bad boy phase by like 25, then its too late because they are some thug dudes babymama lol. Then no good dude wants them .


To that backbreaker dude call me common but I love me some ass and titties.
Whats good solo long time no rap ..

P.s I wanted to touch on this a black woman can go to the gym and have a flat stomach and a soft phat ass. I work out at a ymca in the hood I see black women there all the time they just probably dont go to y oi r gym

To my black sisters the I love y'all. You get a black womans heart and she will ride for you to the end. Most white chicks are too whiney for me I need a black chick or a Spanish rice cooking chick

I don't have anything against rap at all, i still listen to jay z and a very selective few others, i'm just a jazz head. I love jazz and that's pretty much all i listen to. apparently if you like jazz you are white

just never was an ass or tit guy. I like petite leggy women. Even the black girls i did date were usually /always petite and leggy

To my black sisters the I love y'all. You get a black womans heart and she will ride for you to the end. Most white chicks are too whiney for me I need a black chick or a Spanish rice cooking chick

that is just as wrong as me being white because of the things i do.i started a business when i was 19 years old, and when the thing did not take off as soon as i started it and times got a little tough, the (black) girl i was dating at the time could not wait to find someone else'**** to jump on and call me every name in the book because i "did not want to get a real job"

after i sold the company 4 years later, and had a pretty substantial amount of money, the (black) girl i was dating at that time, once she realized i wasn't going to go into baller status and start spuging money, found a guy at a club flashing money and "he drove a range rover", and again, couldn't wait to hop on his ****.

I am not anti black women at all, just saying they are no better or worse than any other race. they are in fact women.

Ironically, there was only one person, that had the prudence enough to keep in contact with me when i was going through my tough times, even though i could not do anything for her at the time, and that was my (half white half columbian) oneitis. She saw i might actually make something of myself one day and kept me around in retrospect.

 

[cola]

Actually many of the jazz greats are black.

But you wouldnt want a black leggy with a phat ass? Rihanna is leggy with a phat ass. Melyssa ford has a great toned body with a phat ass too. It aint nothing like hitting it from the back and a big juicy booty is jiggling with every stroke .. And you just want to hit it harder so that ass jiggle more .. Then you finish and she can't move from exhaustion .. Its like slaying a dragon and standing over it victoriously .. Ahhh memories

 

[JPlaya]

I'm the whitest black guy in the world and I'm like a black chick magnet. It gets kind of annoying since I'm never interested.

 

[Solomon]

What does get to me however, and this IS the difference between the two, is that black women, seem to think I am the one with the problem because I'm "not black enough" because i don';t care for rap and i wear clothes that fit, and have a career and i can put a sentence together. White women don't' say you aren't white enough if a guy has his priorities in order, she keeps him around and either strings him along for the future or just makes him do **** for her, but she doesn't abuse the guy.

Yup, I can relate if you don't wear FUBU and have your pants sagging damn near the floor, They think you a "lame". I've never been a thug nor fronted like one. I was raised in decent neighborhoods my parents busted they ass so we didn't have to be in the "hood" no more. Even going to a mostly white high school I was dealing with racism everyday, and then you had to deal with the black girls at the school thinking you ain't hard enough

I'm going to go against the grain. I'm a black inner city kid raised in the ghetto and It aint alot of good black men. Most of the dudes I grew up with I wouldn't want to date my sister. They all smoke weed, sell drugs or hit women. For a long time I was just like them.

But their are some good black dudes but because they dont have that careless attitude the black girls dont want them because they are "lame". Black women usually outgrow that bad boy phase by like 25, then its too late because they are some thug dudes babymama lol. Then no good dude wants them .

What up Cola how you been? ain't talk to you in a minute tried calling you bruh but your phone was disconnected. Anyway I don't know about you Cola but I know where I live there lot of good brothers and their dating white girls cause sisters here ain't got they mind or body right. I love black women but the ones I see in my area that got they mind right are either from the motherland (Africa) or the chicks who go to colleges or are working. I see sisters all the time at the clubs, and I don't holla at them cause 1. Their be maaaad thirsty dudes hollaring and 2. They attitude is stanker then my breath in the morning and since a brother ain't looking like Weezy or Trey Songz they ain't trying to F with me, real talk. The ones that are cool either got kids or other issues, the pool is real limited when it comes to quality in my area (remember I live in the Midwest in a mostly white state)

I'm the whitest black guy in the world and I'm like a black chick magnet. It gets kind of annoying since I'm never interested.

Your a gay troll, stop trying to act like your black or even a real poster for that matter stay in your lane

 

[backbreaker]

What up Cola how you been? ain't talk to you in a minute tried calling you bruh but your phone was disconnected.

rotfl now we know he's black

lol just playing just playing but couldn't resist

 

[vatoloco]

Flawed "study" is flawed. It assumes mutually exclusive sets, i.e. it assumes that black men can't have more than one of the characteristics described.

Also: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZBhz1cK_f9A

 

[NewAndImproved]

1. Sociological & psychological "studies" have always been used to exploit, harm or otherwise deceive people of color. Sorry, I don't buy it and shame on anyone who does. How do you, for example, reconcile this study with the Psychology Today "study" saying black women were the "most unattractive race in the world." Same ol same ol.

2. Don't know about you guys, but I've never felt "special" as an educated, well-spoken black man. In fact, that's the only reality I know. Most of my friends are the same way. I grew up with that model--my father. Every school I went to...same thing. And there were sisters in these schools just the same as me.

3. Move to NY or LA. Between professional mixers, classy nightclubs and just existing in most racially-integrated neighborhoods you should be fine.

 

[Von_S]

Another token black guy checkin in...

Backbreaker, we clones, though I ain't married.

Props to you Solo, long time fan.

Cola keep your head up.

Thing is both sexes in the black community are pretty ****ed up in their own ways. I'm guessing a lot of black guys on this forum are in that top 3%, problem is there's a matching 3% of black women that we'd be down to seriously get with.

It's a numbers game men, it always has been, and if your skins darker, the numbers are going to be tougher, like it always has been.

 

[nismo-4]

I'm black, and this case is dismissed before the moderators dismiss this thread!

This news story is, beyond a reasonable doubt, made by a woman who has trouble with black men, even though she gave a lot of them access to the pink.

I'm glad I'm not Wesley Snipes. (Color wise that is.) Every race has their flawed people and bad apples. Fact of life. Reality is that dating is a numbers game.

The average guy sees that most women are taken, gold diggers, dikteases, and attention hors. He'll tell you to call it what you want, they're overall unavailable, and will snuff you if you aren't rich.

The Successful guy sees that most women are actually available and receptive.

Women want a guy who lives in a big house and drives a Maserati, yet these same women drive a damn rusted ass Ford Contour!

All Women are crazy. All men (Straight) want and desire female love & companionship. Play the game or be miserable. That's my ruling.

Case closed. I can't believe I came out of chambers for this bullsh*t.