So my GF broke it off after 3 years with me 28 days ago.
28 Days of NC... 32 to go.
I was in total control for most of the realtionship. I broke up with her a couple of times for getting sloppy wasted and saying **** like she was better off with a new BF, but the last couple of weeks I could tell she was hanging out with another guy, so I kind of smothered her.
I reacted to being dumped by saying "It's not a bad thing. I thought about it too, but was going to give it another shot, but I guess not" then she asked for a hug, and then a "real hug" and that was that. I was thinking about breaking it off cause she had been shady about hanging out with her "Friends"
Did I handle it right or should I have just shut up and said nothing?
This is tearing me up, a month before all this **** happened, she was telling me she wanted to take care of me, and her friends were asking when I was gonna ask her to marry me.
I can't sleep, can't eat, hard to work, the only thing that keeps me going is knowing I didn't beg, cry, or act needy.
One other thing to note, she knows I won't call her because I've told her before I will never call a person who dumps me.
Thoughts?
28 Days of NC... 32 to go.
I was in total control for most of the realtionship. I broke up with her a couple of times for getting sloppy wasted and saying **** like she was better off with a new BF, but the last couple of weeks I could tell she was hanging out with another guy, so I kind of smothered her.
I reacted to being dumped by saying "It's not a bad thing. I thought about it too, but was going to give it another shot, but I guess not" then she asked for a hug, and then a "real hug" and that was that. I was thinking about breaking it off cause she had been shady about hanging out with her "Friends"
Did I handle it right or should I have just shut up and said nothing?
This is tearing me up, a month before all this **** happened, she was telling me she wanted to take care of me, and her friends were asking when I was gonna ask her to marry me.
I can't sleep, can't eat, hard to work, the only thing that keeps me going is knowing I didn't beg, cry, or act needy.
One other thing to note, she knows I won't call her because I've told her before I will never call a person who dumps me.
Thoughts?