greatgatsby said:
wow! where are you all living?! i can say that "in my experience" in the DMV (DC/Maryland/VA), black women are looking for, attracted to, and thirst for brothas with mulitple degrees, investments and careers.
that whole, "i'm a thug, driving around in my old crown vic, braids under my too large fitted hat w/ a different pair of sneakers to match every outfit" stuff is played! seriously. especially with the women 25 and up. - you won't be very successful pulling sistas here with that construct!
don't get me wrong, the mentality of that behavior and the women that are attracted to that does exist here. however, the good thing about this area is that the socio-economic levels for the black community in the dmv is probably the most widely-diverse in the entire country. i've never been anywhere in this country where you have the poorest of the poor within 25 miles of a concentration of the most wealthy african americans.
that being said, if you all are looking for black women who workout, are about business, attractive and seriously looking for forward thinking black men, then this may be your mecca!
AND... f*k that! NEVER feel bad or let someone get to you who says you're not acting, talking or living like a stereotype! we weren't born to live in boxes!
yeah Washington metro is possibly the best place in the country to find single well educated in shape African american women
funny, the last black girl i dated seriously, just like i like em. leggy, petite, size C cup, though she didn't work out, she was just genetically "gifted". her sister however, has a college degree and works as a trainer in the gym, she's more ripped than I am lol, in a good way though not bodybuilder ripped but she's very tone.
not, 2 months after we broke up her and her sister moved to the DC metro area.
Again, as i stated, black women, really aren't all that different from white women. Replace the word thug with jerk and there you go, and with "white women" (or women in general) it's not so much the thug image that they love, we know better than that, it's the adventure/since of alphaness that the women are drawn to, not necessarily the lifestyle or the image.
As i stated, my only deal is not with that, it's like if you are black, you aren't allowed to do things that other people find interesting or you are a sellout. Like you really aren't allowed to be unique or different without being called something derogatory. That kinda gets under my skin a tad but not too much. and that's not just by girls for instance last time I was in little rock, my mom wanted me to go see that movie jumping the broom. Looking at the previews, i saw too much i didn't like in the movie, i don't go watch movies that has all those stereotypes in it, the mammy fat black mother, the one educated black guy who gets rediclued, the "thug", there is more to black people than that **** and that pisses me off. Don't get me started on tyler perry, his movies are so damn racist it's crazy and most people that go to the movies and watch them have no idea of the racial stereotypical significance and they eat it up anyway. 100 years ago white people use to pay money to watch white people dress up as black people and make fools out of themselves using those same stereotypes (Minstrel shows), now tyler perrry is making millions off those same stereotypes and people think he's funny. That and usually the movies aren't good lol. Anyway my mom says "oh i gguess that's not white enough for you". From my mom no less. I pick my aunt up to take her to pick up her car and I'm listening to Oscar Peterson in the car, and she says "i don't see why you like that white music". Oscar Peterson is about the fattest black person you will ever find lol (and a prodigy on the piano).
That more than anything gets under my skin.