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Whoah your attitude is very revealing. You've built this up into a massive accusative thing, piled on the pressure, and now she's just defensive about it and feeling guilty. If that's not a mental block I don't know what is! I can understand how you feel like you've failed somehow, but...

Okay, my original question 'do you have the ultimate goal of finding "the one"?' seems a little obsolete. But it seems relevant to ask instead: do you have the ultimate goal of finding perfection? I guess it comes down to thinking I can always do better. I think there must be a point where it...

Hey thanks guys. Yea Kontroller you're totally right, societal brainwashing doesn't help at all. Where there's "one" there's more. But thats part of the problem, I'm pretty much terrified of resetting the cycle and going through all of this again. But it seems almost inevitable. Either stay...

I looking for some feedback, see if anyone else can remotely associate with my problem, or have some insight. First a question: do you have the ultimate goal of finding "the one"? Do you think that you would lose interest in other women if you find her, or will you still have a desire and an...

I respect women, and also enjoy a reasonable amount of success with women. It's true, both sexes have their fair share of wonderful and disgusting people. Ice Cold, you said you can't respect a creature whos "sole purpose in life is to look pretty and get a male of a higher rank than she is"...

Hmm lot of excellent posts here. Most people agree that "the attitude" requires a shift in mindset, but it's easier said than done. You don't have a switch in your brain. A change of attitude is like trying to change a deeply rooted habit. Like, say giving up smoking. Any smokers here...

The club is my favourite pick up place since I came to Sosuave and it's a godsend. Blitz and Synthesis made a lot of good points there, but not all Synth. Since when was talking a bad thing? I don't think its as harsh as all that! But it is very important not to be seen (A) Alone or (B)...

She cares. A lot. As a friend.

Um... Dunno what ur definition of a ONS is, but to me it's a one-off sexual encounter. Not necessarily restricted to the night time. NOTE - The ages is brackets is MY age at the time, not theirs. 1) (Age 15 - HB7) When I was much younger hanging about on the streets :rolleyes: Tried to...

It's a scary time for me too, I'm currently giving up much of what I've learned on this site to embrace the closeness of a relationship. And yes I've found myself doing things that I wouldv'e cringed at a few months ago. The main thing I've gained from this site is that I'm my own man. She...

Hey I've lost a few special chicks by trying to go down that path. Listen to Newman and evaluate the risk. The grass is always greener on the other side, but the original grass is the greenest once you cant have it anymore.

Why did you allow the change in subject? Once you told her you were thinking of asking her out, you SHOULDA ASKED HER OUT. Now you're back in clueless limbo. :rolleyes: It looks like she could be interested - but only you can find out for sure. When you see her, ASK HER OUT. On a DATE...

I don't know about you, but I don't want a gutter wh0re. If you want a classy girl with self respect (which I think all sensible DJs do), then you're going to have to be a classy guy. And classy guys have manners. You can be alpha without being rude. You can be a gentleman without...

You're dead in the water. Find someone else. Now.

If you ask for her number in a romantic/sexual sense, and she somehow thinks you're asking as a friend, then you're doing something majorly wrong! Work that attraction. Anyways I'd say generally: A) You ask for her number, she knows you're interested. B) She gives you her number doesn't...

Level 3.5, "The Instinctive Tryer" The Instinctive Tryer has some rejection issues, and can't pretend that he doesn't care about rejection. He has often overthought his approach beforehand, sometimes messed up the approach, and and had been temporarily stunned by rejection. Often this has...

First steps as a DJ Aaaah before I go. Jango_Xavier asked me in PM response to this thread what my "first couple of steps to the road of DJing" were. Posting it here for ya Jango cuz your mailbox is full! Um, first steps.... reading the bible, and all the articles. Got into the mindset...

Just popped into the library to check my thread. Thanks for the replies! How the hell are you guys?? Slick! The swedish chick chose another viewer to share with so I'm still living where I was with Emma on my couch (in my room grr) unless I kick her out to get a chick over. Threesome...

Just wanted to add, I'm gonna miss you guys! You know who you are. I'd name you all but I can't see through the tears... sniff! Gettin all sentimental now :( :p Royal_Tiger and Knicknack, of course you are right, but I downloaded the DJ bible, the entire quick tips section and many of the...