Player Supreme, Senor Fingers, everyone else...back me up here.

jbbrain

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CONTINUATION:

The reason why incoroprating these techniques without reaching your inner DJ is because you may come across as fake, trying too hard, and MAY JEOPARDIZE THE FUN IN THE RELATIONSHIP

I think the fun part is number 1 in any blossoming relationship.

Still dont know what Im talking about?

Ask yourself if you think this is possible:

You're so busy over analyzing your situation with your lady, constantly ensuring that you display those techniques of confidence, challenge, and control so as to have the "upper hand" in the relationship..

And you get dumped ANYWAY.

The QUALITIES of control, challenege, and confidence were never yours to begin with and using them just came across as fake, and, more importantly, just took the fun out of the relationship. Your GF never really understood why you seemed to put so much attention into YOURSELF and not the relationship, but never hesistated to leave because all you had become was an over analyzing, game playing AFC who thought he was a MAN using techniques from Sosuave, but really only came across as a chump.
 

bugsquish

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I don't know about you, but I don't want a gutter wh0re.
If you want a classy girl with self respect (which I think all sensible DJs do), then you're going to have to be a classy guy. And classy guys have manners.

You can be alpha without being rude.
You can be a gentleman without being AFC.

You're doing it not because you wanna cater to your girl's every whim, but because you are a man of caliber. If thats your mindset it will show and you will earn respect. Holding doors open wont classify you as an AFC!

It's all about the tests! She will subject you to little tests like asking you to do things that are slightly unreasonable.
An AFC would do it thus exposing himself as an AFC. Life expectancy 1/10.
A Jerk wouldn't even be asked because he already made it clear he's only interested in himself. Life expectancy 5/10.
A Man would instinctively laugh it off and tell her to do it herself. Not because he's determined to do nothing for her, but because his alpha mindset detects that unreasonableness. Life expectancy 10/10.
 

ROCK DRUMMER

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AFCs dont get puzzy and let women walk all over them because of their desperation. They are always very polite to women especially because of this deseration .
Jerks are by nature azsholes. They get puszy because just so happens to be a byproduct of their vices.
It is very possible to be a DJ and a gentleman. Just because AFCs are often times polite, doesn't mean you can't keep your dignity and be a gentleman.
 
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