CONTINUATION:
The reason why incoroprating these techniques without reaching your inner DJ is because you may come across as fake, trying too hard, and MAY JEOPARDIZE THE FUN IN THE RELATIONSHIP
I think the fun part is number 1 in any blossoming relationship.
Still dont know what Im talking about?
Ask yourself if you think this is possible:
You're so busy over analyzing your situation with your lady, constantly ensuring that you display those techniques of confidence, challenge, and control so as to have the "upper hand" in the relationship..
And you get dumped ANYWAY.
The QUALITIES of control, challenege, and confidence were never yours to begin with and using them just came across as fake, and, more importantly, just took the fun out of the relationship. Your GF never really understood why you seemed to put so much attention into YOURSELF and not the relationship, but never hesistated to leave because all you had become was an over analyzing, game playing AFC who thought he was a MAN using techniques from Sosuave, but really only came across as a chump.