Hi, this is my first post on the forums.
Anyways, here goes, I have been talking to this Korean girl in one of my classes. I'm Indian. Anyways, I've been talking to her, and at first I thought things were going okay, but then most recent events caused me to change my opinion and basically write her off.
In accordance with that plan, I stopped IMing her and stopped calling her, I figure if I talk to her less it'll be easier to move on. Then yesterday she IM's me, and we start talking about random stuff.
At this point, I should mention that I was very sick. One of my ears was popped, and the other wasn't. So I was sitting at my computer dizzy and doped on cold medication.
Anyways, back to the conversation at hand. We're talking, and then she starts telling me about some boy she likes.
Her: i can go to the moon and still live
Me: if you grow really tall
Me: but i think your growth is stunted =\
Me: ^_^
Her: :-(
Me: aww
Her: it's ok. my future boyfriend likes my size. :-(
Her: *sniffle*
Her: *sobbing*
Me: it's okay i was gonna say
Me: your future bf?
Her: *crying eyeballs out*
Me: i was gonna say that's okay
Me: girls are better short
Her: whatever
Her: yeah this guy reallllllllllllly likes me.
Her: and he's 5'10"
Her: HA!
Me: giant
Her: > screw u hahaha he's good size for me i think
Her: but i dont know i have so much pride and he has so much pride.
Me: haha
Her: so we clash
Me: i really don't know what to say
Me: cause you know what
Me: those times i asked you to lunch
Me: and then to dinner
Me: i was trying to ask you OUT
Her: ? ask me out ? as in like ask out ask out???
Me: yea
Me: i thought you got it
Her: why would u ask me out. u always make fun of me and think i'm the most horrendous thing ever on earth!
Me: and were dodging me
Me: it's okay
Me: WHAT
Her: oh noooooooooo
Me: i'm just teasing
Me: i think you are a really sweet girl
Her: if i knew i'd no no no. i wasnt dodging u
Her: i really had the ice skating thing with elaine
Her: and that was like... two weeks ago that we signed up for it?
Me: yea, it's okay
Her: it's weird hearing this online and from you cuz i didn't really expect this at all cuz u were like telling me about like cynthia and stuff
Her: pfffffts. psssssssssssssssssh. u're gay. u thought i was dodging you.
Her: u thought i was that shady
Me: i was telling you about cynthia cause i was mad at her
Me: and i thought we are cool like that
Her: oh no no. u made it sound like u still had feelings for her n stuff. well my point being. i had no idea.
Me: that's okay
Her: and we ARE cool like that. gees.
Me: i'm a big boy
Her: i know. that's what i like about u.
Me: i don't have feelings for her. not for a while
Her: i run into her sometimes.
Her: but i still cant tell if it's her or not.
Me: haha
Her: cuz all asians look the same n stuff.
Me: she's kinda generic looking
Her: i'm serious too
Her: yeahhhhh
Me: me too
Her: and black people confuse me often
Me: hahaha why
I know it's kinda long. But I hope someone will take the time to read it. Aside from my mistake about mentioning that other girl, there is a question I must ask.
When I told her (albeit stupidly) what I think about her, that was when I was expecting her to shut me down. I was actually kinda looking forward to it, just so I can move on. Instead, she she didn't say anything at all. I'm wondering what I should do.
A friend of mine recommends that I ask her out one more time, and see what she says. If only so that she DOES shut me down. Or whatever. I am wondering what forum readers opinions are on this. The sooner the reply, the better, I will be seeing her tomorrow in class!
Anyways, here goes, I have been talking to this Korean girl in one of my classes. I'm Indian. Anyways, I've been talking to her, and at first I thought things were going okay, but then most recent events caused me to change my opinion and basically write her off.
In accordance with that plan, I stopped IMing her and stopped calling her, I figure if I talk to her less it'll be easier to move on. Then yesterday she IM's me, and we start talking about random stuff.
At this point, I should mention that I was very sick. One of my ears was popped, and the other wasn't. So I was sitting at my computer dizzy and doped on cold medication.
Anyways, back to the conversation at hand. We're talking, and then she starts telling me about some boy she likes.
Her: i can go to the moon and still live
Me: if you grow really tall
Me: but i think your growth is stunted =\
Me: ^_^
Her: :-(
Me: aww
Her: it's ok. my future boyfriend likes my size. :-(
Her: *sniffle*
Her: *sobbing*
Me: it's okay i was gonna say
Me: your future bf?
Her: *crying eyeballs out*
Me: i was gonna say that's okay
Me: girls are better short
Her: whatever
Her: yeah this guy reallllllllllllly likes me.
Her: and he's 5'10"
Her: HA!
Me: giant
Her: >
screw u hahaha he's good size for me i thinkHer: but i dont know i have so much pride and he has so much pride.
Me: haha
Her: so we clash
Me: i really don't know what to say
Me: cause you know what
Me: those times i asked you to lunch
Me: and then to dinner
Me: i was trying to ask you OUT
Her: ? ask me out ? as in like ask out ask out???
Me: yea
Me: i thought you got it
Her: why would u ask me out. u always make fun of me and think i'm the most horrendous thing ever on earth!
Me: and were dodging me
Me: it's okay
Me: WHAT
Her: oh noooooooooo
Me: i'm just teasing
Me: i think you are a really sweet girl
Her: if i knew i'd no no no. i wasnt dodging u
Her: i really had the ice skating thing with elaine
Her: and that was like... two weeks ago that we signed up for it?
Me: yea, it's okay
Her: it's weird hearing this online and from you cuz i didn't really expect this at all cuz u were like telling me about like cynthia and stuff
Her: pfffffts. psssssssssssssssssh. u're gay. u thought i was dodging you.
Her: u thought i was that shady
Me: i was telling you about cynthia cause i was mad at her
Me: and i thought we are cool like that
Her: oh no no. u made it sound like u still had feelings for her n stuff. well my point being. i had no idea.
Me: that's okay
Her: and we ARE cool like that. gees.
Me: i'm a big boy
Her: i know.
that's what i like about u.Me: i don't have feelings for her. not for a while
Her: i run into her sometimes.
Her: but i still cant tell if it's her or not.
Me: haha
Her: cuz all asians look the same n stuff.
Me: she's kinda generic looking
Her: i'm serious too
Her: yeahhhhh
Me: me too
Her: and black people confuse me often
Me: hahaha why
I know it's kinda long. But I hope someone will take the time to read it. Aside from my mistake about mentioning that other girl, there is a question I must ask.
When I told her (albeit stupidly) what I think about her, that was when I was expecting her to shut me down. I was actually kinda looking forward to it, just so I can move on. Instead, she she didn't say anything at all. I'm wondering what I should do.
A friend of mine recommends that I ask her out one more time, and see what she says. If only so that she DOES shut me down. Or whatever. I am wondering what forum readers opinions are on this. The sooner the reply, the better, I will be seeing her tomorrow in class!
