Search results

Her and her ex work together ffs :rolleyes: She never cheated on the OP as far as I can see. And she was honest about the situation, and look where that got her. I'm still friends with some of my exes. And in some ways I may even miss them or reminisce but that wouldn't mean I have any...

Ah geez, I've just read all the way through this thread. This is just tragic. I've been in several LTRs between 2-4 years since I was 18. I'm now happier spinning plates but I have a good grasp of the relationship dynamics in an LTR as contrasted with pickup and plate spinning. As far as I...

Any reason why you didn't stay in touch for another go?

Better than your sister.

I guess that's where we are different. I actually will kiss/fvck anyone, if I find them physically attractive :) If it's possible to take a girl home and bang her on a first date then why would you want to drag things out? Your method might be better if you are pursuing a LTR but even then I'd...

It does happen. Your appearance is a start, but the key is to be noticed. If girls notice you, and like what they see, they will approach you. They are more subtle than guys though, thats why I suggest forcing yourself to pay attention. Girls don't necessarily approach by opening a...

From a male perspective this is true. But it does represent double standards at the same time. I wouldn't really expect my harem to stay exclusive to me in a modern setting if I'm not offering exclusivity to them. Without being duplicitous, in my experience women who are in my life on an...

Honestly, this is a really self destructive line of thinking. I understand how easily a string of rejections can turn up a misogynistic streak like this. But it will show through your behavior and make it even more difficult to get anywhere, especially with the ones who aren't poisonous. Trust...

@ Scaramouche, scrouds, georgie et. al... I think I hit a few nerves with the word 'ethics', and possibly some confusion about what it means. Ethics is about the philosophy behind people's decisions, not an absolute set of rules about what is right or wrong. Your ethics will be different from...

Actually, getting a girl pregnant is tame compared to some of the possible outcomes of not wearing a condom :| Always practise safe sex :)

Agreed. But if you have enough control over the conversation you can steer it away from those questions even being asked in the first place. Grayclif mentioned being a master storyteller and that's a great point and something for everyone to aspire to. If you have an endless supply of...

The simple fact is that women's real power over men lies in their sexuality. Those who just aint sexy enough to use their T&A to get what they want will whinge, moan and write stupid facebook posts :rolleyes:

In the UK (especially Scotland) there's a very regimented weekend drinking culture. If you're not drinking alcohol, or are drinking water which I do a lot, people assume you're on drugs :s What you can do is drink coke and ice, just say it's Jack and Coke!

@ Slickster - hey buddy, long time no see! I agree with everything you are saying up until point 6. Don't make any moves?? Um, wtf. You can have her in your bed that same day if you play it well. I wouldn't wait 2-3 dates for a kiss unless I was dating a virgin church girl :)

@Samsade I opened this up with the comment about masking other issues because I read this in another thread which started me thinking about all of this in the first place. 1) Polygyny and a need for multiple females. ... and more importantly ... 2) Ways to maintain this lifestyle, with 'plate...

Thanks for the link, but "Noobs will be noobs"? If that's aimed at me, I don't think that kind of elitist comment is really neccessary. I'm trying to provoke a philosophical discussion, not look for advice.

It has been suggested that spinning plates is a bad idea as it simply masks deeper issues. In my own case I don't really doubt this too much. Others have theorised that plate spinning is more of an ideology than a reality for most people. I'm just how many people actually follow this...

5 dates in a row with the same girl? Different girls? Die Hard is totally right in what he says, and IMO the most effective way to keep that kind of cool is to know you have other options. Never put your eggs all in one basket. Nevertheless, you can't underestimate factors outside of your control!

Depends how well I know the girl and how much I like her. If I'm just getting to know someone and I really like her, we can spend hours getting to know each other's bodies (with many orgasms). But once I know better exactly what they like, we can satisfy each other much quicker (20-30 mins...

Excellently written and matches my experience pretty accurately. I'm not sure about #2, this one just seems like a limbo between #3 and any of the others. But aside from that, spot on. This can be used to explain flakes to a lot of newbies. For those doubting the #5, there are plenty of girls...