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    Thoughts on this LJBF?

    There's a good chance she bounced back in with her ex...
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    Old school DJ on instant sex.

    Of course you're right on this. My behaviour is completely OCD and sometimes I think I'm out of control. I literally have no idea how many girls I have slept with. But its so much fun!
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    A mild rant

    Just because she's worried about finance doesn't make her a gold digger. A relationship, especially involving shared living arrangements, should be an equal partnership. She won't want to support the man any more than he should have to support her. Both need to contribute if it's to work. If...
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    HUGE job offer across country....NEED YOUR EXPERIENCES!!!

    About 6 months ago I lost my job in Glasgow, where I had a girlfriend. I ended up being headhunted for a new job, the opportunity of a lifetime, but it involved moving to London 400 miles away. Of course I accepted it and I now live in London. For some time we attempted a long distance...
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    MUST READ: Woman's straight up view of the AFC

    I doubt there are many guys who fit the author's description in entirety. It's an extreme, exaggerated case to get the point across. The problem is not being nice, it's the phrase "nice guy". It has become a caricature of a real malady: guys who are so insecure in their own lives that they need...
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    Old school DJ on instant sex.

    I have done this, and it works, but I do find it easier to go out with friends, preferably a group mix of male and female. This gets you into a good mindset and also gives you that "base camp" to be seen with as a fun, popular guy. If you go out alone, it's really important that you make new...
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    Old school DJ on instant sex.

    I like to make things as easy as possible to get the lay, and if I like a girl enough to do it once, I'll want to do it again. I'm usually a decent judge of character and I'll bail if I see any signs of emotional instability. It definitely helps to be clear and honest at the outset that it's...
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    Old school DJ on instant sex.

    Happy to see some old faces are still here! How are things working out for you these days?
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    Old school DJ on instant sex.

    Just meaning it's almost 10 years since I joined this forum :)
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    Old school DJ on instant sex.

    Hey guys! I've been a member of this board for a long time, but I don't use it much now, except to come back and share some experiences. I started off as an AFC. These days it's a different story. I'm currently trying to beat my personal records (2 girls in one day, 3 in a weekend or 5 in a...
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    Signs that she's definitely interested?

    I'd say just keep doing what you're doing. Sounds like you're pacing it well. The clue is in the church part, it makes sense to escalate a bit slower than some here might recommend. So long as you do escalate. You can still escalate physical contact without it being noticably sexually...
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    Thinning hair is a deal breaker?

    This question is pretty close to me since I've been gradually watching my hairline disappear over the last 5 years. I've grown it long with a fringe, and I still have enough to disguise it in the field. This isn't going to work forever so I'm bracing myself for the shave at some point. Having...
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    Women stuck on "dinner and a movie"

    Don't care about the money, but I only take girls on this kind of date if it's a LTR and some kind of event like a birthday or anniversary. But "dinner and a movie" is still a great idea: only, I cook the dinner, and the movie (DVD) never arrives because we're too busy in the bedroom. This is...
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    Are you Dating someone Else ? ? ?

    This is the problem with seeing multiple women. If they like you this question will inevitably come up. The only options are to lie about it (not something I condone and looks like you're with me on this), give a ****y answer (this is only effective for a short time), be straight up about it...
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    Ever pulled off a 3-some (FFM)?

    Good work Solomon. I'm not bothered about providing evidence, I just want to do it. I've got one girl on board for sure, and tonight I asked a girl who had been previously up for it. She says she's been seeing somebody but things are a bit rocky, and I've to ask her again in a couple of weeks...
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    So Guys..I finally made the plunge!!

    Congrats! Let the good times roll :rockon:
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    How to treat women: a theory

    Good post. I think this is something a lot of people struggle with. The words 'dominance' and 'agression' are really misunderstood at lower levels. Especially with all of the borderline misogyny that floats around these forums. Being 'dominant' is about taking charge, making decisions...
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    MUST READ: Woman's straight up view of the AFC

    A female friend of mine posted this on her FB page. This mirrors a lot of what has been said on here but it's interesting to see it from a woman's perspective. She tells it like it is, and explains why Nice Guys finish last. I can't post this as a link because the URL gets censored :| so...
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    Ever pulled off a 3-some (FFM)?

    Haha! Sounds like a fun night. My 'bucket list' is like a game I play with myself. New races and nationalities always get my attention. I also like to try and fit multiple girls into short time periods. The next big challange is banging 3 girls in one day. The logistical difficulty is...
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    Ever pulled off a 3-some (FFM)?

    Good advice. That situation sounds like a dream come true! I think it's become an obsession because the situations described in my original post span over the last 8 years. It's starting to feel like a bad sitcom. Anyways, UPDATE! During pillow talk with a girl I recently started seeing...
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