Does she think I am a baby

[itstough]

Help me with this woman stuff. I know this hb9 who is or was into me. She does some things like I am a 3 pack a day smoker and I will say go get me some cigarettes she says NO thats one thing I will not go get you. I then ask her why she says "" I don't want you to die because I will not have anybody to eat with No I am just kidding it's because I love you.. Then one time she said I was smoking to much and she took my cigarettes from me and she would give me one whenever she decided I was allowed to have one. Then we will either go to a resturant to eat or order food to be delivered and I will tell her what I want and she says no you don't need all that food and she will tell me what I am allowed to get. Now my question is what the heck is this? This makes me feel like a baby and heck I am 6 years older than her. . . . ....

 

[CaptainObvious#1]

****ING AY!!!

 

[itstough]

Originally posted by random_loser
Man don't put up with that bs. She sounds like a bloody 12 year old. If she does any of that $hit again follow these guidelines:

If she tells you that you can't have a certain amount of food hit her across the face with the back of your hand.

If she takes your cigarettes away then kick her in the stomic.

And lastly if she says you can't do something at any time then just get a big piece of 2 x 4 PVC pipe and belt her across her back.

This will show to her that you are not going to take any $hit from her and that you are the real man.

I think I will pass on this one. I don't want to go to jail. Why else could she be doing this??

 

[usdaprime]

Dang Dude I think this babe either really cares for you or is trying to control you.

 

[mystik]

itstough comes pre-whipped?

what the hell is wrong with you? this girl dictates your life. are you her biatch?

go get me some coffee.

 

[Jimbo2k]

I think how I'd react would differ depending on how long the relationship has gone on for. If it is a LTR, then I wouldnt take the smoking thing AS seriously, but her controlling what you eat is out of line.

I guess it depends on the type of relationship, but I wouldnt let her dictate what I eat no matter what...unless you have some condition that you might aggrivate by eating these certain foods/this much food.

 

[itstough]

Originally posted by Jimbo2k
I think how I'd react would differ depending on how long the relationship has gone on for. If it is a LTR, then I wouldnt take the smoking thing AS seriously, but her controlling what you eat is out of line.

I guess it depends on the type of relationship, but I wouldnt let her dictate what I eat no matter what...unless you have some condition that you might aggrivate by eating these certain foods/this much food.

Well we are not in a relationship at all. We are co-workers but we basicly are into each other. Now as for the smoking Is bad for everybody and I do smoke way way toooooo much although she also smokes. and for the food I do also eat too much plus I am fat.

 

[Jimbo2k]

Originally posted by itstough
Well we are not in a relationship at all. We are co-workers but we basicly are into each other. Now as for the smoking Is bad for everybody and I do smoke way way toooooo much although she also smokes. and for the food I do also eat too much plus I am fat.

Well then this is tricky.
As someone said above, she either cares about you, or is trying to control you. I cant say which

 

[itstough]

Does anybody else have anymore idea on this ?

 

[Escalade]

I think she just cares about you, 3 packs a day is crazy.

You should seriously quit smoking.

 

[italostud]

How the f u c k do you smoke 3 packs a day?? That's like 75 cigs a day! Lets allow for an average of 16 hours per day you spend awake, that's 75/16 = a little over 4 1/2 smokes /hour. Now lets say you spend 7 mins average for each smoke, that's 7*4.5 = 31.5 minutes/ hour smoking. Holy ****, do you work? You spend half of your waking hours smoking!

 

[MVPlaya]

Tell her you will quit smoking cigarettes if she starts smoking you. And tell her smoking means a pack a day! 20 times!

 

[itstough]

Originally posted by italostud
How the f u c k do you smoke 3 packs a day?? That's like 75 cigs a day! Lets allow for an average of 16 hours per day you spend awake, that's 75/16 = a little over 4 1/2 smokes /hour. Now lets say you spend 7 mins average for each smoke, that's 7*4.5 = 31.5 minutes/ hour smoking. Holy ****, do you work? You spend half of your waking hours smoking!

LOL Yes I do work I have an easy job where I can go outside and smoke all the time. I also lay in bed with my laptop all day I have no life. You should see me I am 6' 3" 330lbs Yeah I am the picture of Health. I lived 28 years everyone of them has been hell so I don't care if I die.

 

[Boricua_33015]

Just kill yourself. I mean... itll end the dieing process alot faster.

SERIOUSLY THOUGH..... 3 packs a ****ing day? That is way too much man. You need to get your life together man. Start working out. Stop smoking, do whatever it takes.... your just being a waste of space, and I am being serious.

Don't do this to yourself man. I used to smoke, but I found it pretty easy to quit though, but it took WILLPOWER! And that is something that you can acheive and you just need to stop being a pvssy and do something for yourself.

Think about this.

 

[Ice Cold]

HAHAHAHA

I think she cares.

She controls what you eat because of your wieght

And the smokes for obvious reasons.


But come on, 3 packs for this guy is like a pack a day for a 120 pound girl. I know lots of girls who smoke more than that.

 

[Starman]

I cant believe I almost let this thread pass me by

let me get this straight..you are 330 lbs, who lays around naked by his laptop all day, surfing porn and charring your lungs with cancer..and you are wondering why a HB9 suddenly lost interest in you??

You should seriously be the next Marlboro man if you are 330 lbs and reeling in HB9's or working along side ron jeremy bangin a chick with an ashtray on her ass

you are pretty much killing yourself with obesity, depresssion and cancer..and your only question on this issue is whether she thinks you are a "baby"?

if by baby you mean a human being who has no regard for his own health, doesnt know any better and needs a "mother" around to take care of him and remind him he is fvcking up his own life, then YES, she thinks you are a Baby.

personally, I think you are a Baboon and need to shape up before you kill yourself

 

[Ice Cold]

Take control:

www.bodybuilding.com

Don't post on the forums too much. Read the theory, then do the exercises.

FORCE YOURSELF until you make first improvements. Then you'll like it and you just get addicted.

 

[NatureGuy]

Starman has it. Frankly, you're worse
than a "baby" and I'm amazed
anyone would go with you with all
your problems. She's being too nice.
She should 'next' you.

 

[Master of the Universe]

Normally I would say that what she is doing is disrespectful, and that a relationship like this will not be rewarding for either one of you long term.

But in this case I'm making an exception. Dude, why in the hell should she treat you with respect when you're not treating yourself with respect?

At worst I think you're fortunate that you've found someone that cares about you more than you care about yourself. My guess here is that she is attracted to you in a large part because she has a strong maternal drive and she feels rewarded being with someone that she can take care of.

Now if you want her to respect you and not treat you like a baby, then first YOU have to respect yourself.

Just don't fight her. Let her think that the reason you changed is because of her influence, and not because you decided to change. This will bond her to you even further, thinking that she was the person who changed you into a better person. She will have invested heavily into you, she will feel good about herself, you will be in better health, AND you'll be in a relationship with an HB9.

Looks like a solid deal to me.

MotU

 

[bugsquish]

She cares. A lot. As a friend.