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I'm one of the exceptions. My ex was amazing, never cheated, deceived or even branch swung. I resented her after the break up because she hurt me, but now I've got perspective, we both hurt each other and did things in retaliation. Typical break up sh1t. Enough time has passed now that I can...

Ouch!! This is exactly what happened to me. I found my ex on a dating site 2 days after we broke up and I cannot explain how much it hurt me. She had also used a very special photo I'd taken of her. I did the wrong thing and confronted her about it and she was angry because technically it...

I'll just tell you about an ex girlfriend I made contact with 6 months after we broke up. That was about 7 years ago and we still chat, she invites me out and she's made several attempts to get me back or to have sex with me. It was a horrible break up and I did the AFC thing of chasing her...

You just keep your distance and let her think things over. Sometimes the space, the emptiness in her life will make her realise she's made a rash mistake. Other times she will stand by her decision and move on. Unfortunately, what most guys here are looking for is a method of mind control. It...

You're missing the point of spinning plates. When one cancels, you move to the next one. If the "main" one comes around, you go out with her, and alternate between them until something clicks. It looks to me like you're expecting too much from this girl too soon. She's playing it cool and...

This is exactly where all of us fail. When you think in terms of fixing your relationship, what you are talking about is tactics, manipulation, neediness, desperation...the very things that push these women further away. My mistake was trying to fix things with a letter. Other guys think they...

Last time my ex and I had contact (2 months after the break up) I suggested we get together for one last night of sex and she was up for it. She even hinted at us becoming fvck buddies. I was telling my mate about this and he called me on it and told me exactly what I was hoping, how one night...

Well, I'm not talking about any specific girl here, but the types I mean are the ones who are obviously very interested, who call me up at night when drunk or text me at 3 in the morning, or who tell their friends about me or will text me even after I've stopped messaging them. Or sometimes they...

The problem here is that you're still attached to thoughts of getting on up on her and revenge. Telling her you don't care directly translates to "I care enough to contact you" or "I still think about you and I haven't moved on". I was clinging to the hope of banging my ex one last time too...

That's always been my attitude too, but I'm often finding that despite the awkward date or texts, these girls are some of the most interested and I might be missing out on some great sex. These bimbos are usually the hottest too - dolled up, fake t1ts, great shape. I just wonder how most...

I think it's fair to say that I'm a very charismatic guy and when I engage women in conversation, I can really make the chemistry happen. But a lot of the time I come across girls who are hard work and don't know how to hold a conversation. Usually, if a girl is hard to talk to and has no...

Definitely not mate! The temptation for me is that my relationship was actually really amazing at one time and I'd love to get that back. But it sounds like your relationship just aused you misery and there is absolutely no reason for you to go back to that. It just sounds to me like she...

This is a clip of a news network twisting and editing John Cena's words... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8FXMxmNIhL8 Speaks for itself.

I heard someone describe the news as a hypnotic and highly persuasive cult, and I couldn't agree more. Some years ago I started to notice the news was playing on my mind for most of my days. I was constantly angry and bitter towards everyone and everything, I viewed so many guys as potential...

No problem mate. I say this from my previous experience. The first part of our relationship was absolutely amazing. She couldn't get enough of me, would text me all the time saying how much she missed me, how much she loves me and was craving me. She hated letting me go when it was time to...

That's a good question and I'm going to answer you with total honestly. My initial instinct was yes. If I could know that she was sincere, then I would instinctively want to take a chance and be willing to work on getting back together. I'm not saying I'd just jump to her command and welcome her...

Remember this... If you are capable of getting girls and spinning plates it doesn't matter if you drop them from time to time, because you already have the skills and mindset to go out and get more. We all get into a slump some times. I've had my ups and downs a lot lately, but it's all about...

Here's a funny little exercise for you guys that I found quite effective... Write down how you're feeling or just go back to some of the posts you've written here. Now read them back in a pathetic whiny voice. This is a great way of seeing your behaviour from your ex girlfriend's perspective...

Absolutely spot on! You see, the one thing that makes a break up harder to handle than a bereavement in many cases is that hope! When a person dies, it is tragic and painful, but you have no choice other than to accept it. You can't bring them back, you can't change anything and you're...

There's something quite twisted how girls can dump us and then somehow managed to make us feel guilty. I've been there myself, many times and I got caught in the same trap with my ex. It got to the point where I was blaming myself for everything and ended up writing a long and apologetic...