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  1. Jariel

    The bad walk home

    There is no easy solution to this. You just have to keep pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, step by step. Set yourself a series of challenges. One night you must make and hold eye contact with women and exchange smiles. When this becomes comfortable and a habit, try a passing "hi" or...
  2. Jariel

    would this be a Turnoff to a Woman?

    If you're serious about working out, go to a gym. I'm not attacking your character, I'm just saying in answer to your question yes, this is probably a big turn off for a woman. But if you're banging her and you don't need approval, what are you worried about?
  3. Jariel

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks man. That was my intention when I joined this thread as I wanted other people to know there's nothing abnormal about what they're going through and show that many of us can relate. I also believe people can learn just as much from another person's failures and falls as they can from...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    How much of your day does thinking of your ex take up? This is something I'm very curious about. I'm not talking about those thoughts that jump into your head out of nowhere as we could never really time those, but what I want to know is how much it affects your day to day life and what sort of...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Delete HER off Facebook, then go no contact. This will send her absolutely crazy! It seems to me like she's desperate to get some kind of power over you and the less you play into it the more she comes chasing. If you delete her now, it takes that decision right out of her hands and shows her...
  6. Jariel

    would this be a Turnoff to a Woman?

    I agree with Nostalgic, this stinks of approval seeking.
  7. Jariel

    Ex nice guys

    A little tip for the OP. Work on your charisma. Work damn hard!
  8. Jariel

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    01. There are LOADS of attractive women out there. Most of which don't need the disclaimer "...for her age" added to the end. At 36, you can be getting with much hotter girls in their 20s! 02. Great sex really isn't hard to find once you get back in the field. 03. This is always a...
  9. Jariel

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    All great advice. I did this very early into the break up. Unfortunately, there wasn't much I hated about her or the relationship, but it did help to list some of the annoyances and how I was starting to hate who I was becoming in the relationship, how weak, needy and pathetic I had become. This...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I suppose "chemistry" is not the right word to use. It was more to do with how similar we were and how much we enjoyed being together. We could sit in a hospital waiting room and create a special and memorable moment out of it or could just sit looking into each other's eyes for ages without...
  11. Jariel

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I don't know what has come over me lately, but I'll be honest. I'm finding myself missing my ex like crazy! It's been 4 and half months since we broke up. The last contact we had was 2 months ago and after that I just started moving on. I've had a number of good dates, high interest, I'm...
  12. Jariel

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Perspective of a Female Dumper Hey guys, I had a date tonight. All went great and had a passionate make out session in the rain (no sex yet), but during the night we briefly touched upon the topic of our last relationships. This is usually a topic you want to avoid talking about for any length...
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