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Well, the past week I have felt amazing! I've made some changes to my diet, trying different supplements and I'm finally getting some proper sleep. I'm trying to work out what is making me feel this way or if it's a combination, but my sex drive has been sky high, my confidence is solid, I'm...

We all have sh1t in our past that we wouldn't want our future girlfriends/wives or even our friends to see. I have photos of past one night stands, they took photos of me and there are some wild and crazy things I did on the spur of the moment and that's the benefit of being single. Most of us...

Again, I agree with you. But I did write a long apologetic letter to her and I believe this just came across as grovelling and pathetic. It's very hard to draw a line between apologising for a genuine mistake and kissing azz.

Mikey: Youre absolutely right. I feel awful about it & I still wonder what would've been if I hadn't done that. But I tried to apologise & asked her to try again & it was her who rejected me that time. I realise she's not the b1tch that other guys exes are & I brought it on myself & think her...

Typing on phone so excuse typos, but just want to thank you guys for the input & advice. Its reassuring to know you guys still miss your exes despite getting with other chicks & can relate to what im saying. I admit I have considered reconnecting with her like Mikey suggested but dragging up...

Thanks mate. I've made out with more women than I can remember since my break up and some times it feels amazing, especially if the girl is exceptionally hot. It's just taking that next step that gets difficult as it stirs so many memories of my ex and how it used to feel with her. I guess I...

I've been trying to do this, thinking it will help me put my ex behind me, but every time I get close I just feel this depression come over me and I have to stop. Just last week I was lying on top of a hot 23 year old, her t1ts were out, we were grinding against each other and I was rock hard...

Well, I turned down yet another offer of sex last night. It was my second date with someone. We clicked really well, there was a lot of intense sexual chemistry and she was all over me all night, but every time she clung to me and wrapped herself around me I felt repulsed. It's so hard to...

This is something that I do think about. She has already broken NC once and there was potential to re-establish contact and build from there, but I blew it by losing my cool. There were a lot of difficult circumstances that led to our break up and a lot of anger and resentment on both of our...

I think we do at least need to be honest with ourselves. I can't say my dates have been lame, but I've not felt any of them, except maybe one woman I saw for about 3 dates before I backed off again. Of course, No Contact is always the best solution after a break up and I would never advise...

This is the first I've heard of this! I love Stephen Merchant so will definitely be checking this out soon. Have any of you listened to him talking about his experiences with women on his podcasts? He was the ultimate AFC, his stories made me cringe with embarrassment, especially because I...

A couple of months ago I wouldn't even entertain this idea, but at this point it makes a lot of sense. You see, I've got past the bitterness now and despite missing her, I've got past the neediness and insecurity. I would like to think she too has let go of her bitterness towards me and maybe if...

This is the point where her interest is at it's highest. My ex said the same to me, she was crazy about me at this point and would do anything for me...because she knew she couldn't take me for granted. This is the best place to be in a relationship. You keep her on her toes, she keeps...

Typical attentione wh0re behaviour. Personally, I see this as a red flag and it quite literally puts me off them so I don't get angry, I just give them less attention and go focus on someone else. The problem with women like this is that they are such hard work and they flirt a lot and have the...

Not the most charismatic speaker, but this is very good advice that explains some good reasons for No Contact and how it has the potential to bring the ex back... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y1a_nNE8QrY

I'll be honest, I have thought about this around the 6 month mark. She did want to keep in contact with me and hang out together last time we spoke, but I was so scared of falling into the friendzone I shot her down and we ended up arguing and leaving things on a bitter note. I've considered...

What some of you guys have said about making a big life change makes a lot of sense. I'm finding a lot of places around where I live and on the way to work remind me of her and I'm finding there just aren't enough big distractions for me right now. The gym helps and I've also recently got a...

There's a lot of truth to this. Even though I didn't take direct advice from this board before the break up, there was a lot of past advice and brainwashing that caused me to end things. The whole "if she's unresponsive, she's banging someone else" attitude instilled paranoia in me and made me...

6 months and I'm still not over her... Time to come clean. It's been 6 months since I last saw my ex and I'm still thinking about her every day and missing her like crazy. Last night I opened up my archived emails on Facebook and saw some of the mails we had sent to each other last year. It...

Honestly, the only way through this is to try and let go of that hope. Easier said than done, I know, especially so early on. It's the one thing that keeps you going through the no contact. My ex got in touch with me 50 days into no contact and said everything I had been wishing for. But...