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In short, this usually means she's been losing attraction for you and needs time to figure out how she feels. Have you been weak, over accommodating or supplicating? Have you been complacent or stopped leading like a man? Have you been behaving emotionally or letting an insecure side of you...

I am mate. I dropped a couple last week as I just wasn't into them very much, but I've got 3 other plates spinning.

Gotta love Tyler's videos! Very insightful dude. Here's a clip from Elliot Hulse I find motivating... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0xjULgwweVU This is absolutely true. My break up crushed me and it still hurts, but I've learned so much from it and have emerged better for it. I'm currently...

No, she's a 1 because I'm so amazing with women I bang hotter chicks all the time and have higher standards than anyone on this forum! :rolleyes: Yes, she's a 9 in my opinion. She's fvcking gorgeous! Obviously beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but she's totally my type. I'm a sucker...

I've been on a number of dates lately and with some girls, the conversation flows naturally. I tend to ask about their work, their passions and interests, then pick up on points and get them to elaborate and contribute my own related conversation. I have a few regular anecdotes I tell, some...

Thanks guys. She text me late last night to thank me for the date and say how much she enjoyed it, and that she hoped to hear from me soon. I contacted her today and asked her out next week, and she very keenly accepted. I'm feeling totally different about my ex today and last night made me...

Like others have said, it sounds like a nervous reaction. I had a girl do this after our first kiss, and she held me after and kept giggling. We ended up together for 4 months. My last ex used to get the giggles sometimes too during intense moments. Unless she's mocking you, I would take...

Well I went on my first Tinder date tonight and it went amazing! She is absolutely gorgeous, great company and her interest appears really high. It was one of those dates where everything just clicks into place. At the end of the night we kissed and she expressed she wanted to see me again, then...

Texting has always worked well for me and is a great way of building rapport and familiarity, as well as escalating towards sex. But it should always be a mutual exchange. Like any kind of interraction, you just have to use common sense and keep it in moderation.

Glad you guys are doing well on Tinder. I'm really liking it so far and this one particular girl seems very keen...the fact that she volunteered her number nad asked me out suggests high interest. I'll see how I get on. I've had a lot of dates, but not many of them have really blown me away...

...and almost overnight I've sunk again. I've been a bit unwell the last week and have been struggling with motivation, and sinking back into the depression. I've been dreaming of her a lot and I've just woke from another dream that's left me so low I'm nearly in tears. For fvcks sake, it's...

I'd say we've all been there mate. It can be really difficult finding that line between self belief and self delusion, as as important as it is to be confident, we need a certain level of humility to keep us motivated towards improving ourselves. I found this hit me after a break up a few years...

It took me some time to figure this out too, but it seems to be so common. Abused girls will try to date cool, healthy minded, decent guys, but they tend to lose interest quickly or will cheat/leave for an abusive bad boy. I believe they're like emotional junkies who get addicted to the...

If you want an indication what a girl wants in a man, listen to the type of guy her ex was. Women with abusive boyfriends tend to repeat the cycle or are at least drawn to bad boys who treat them mean. They will always say they want a nice guy and to learn from their mistakes, but what they say...

Yes, this has happened to me too...a lot. I've been on dates and even when I'm on top of them and they're grinding against me, my mind is wandering towards my ex and I just start to feel down. Yes, my carbs were quite low. I have tried low/zero carbing before and it makes me feel weak and...

Absolutely! I'm spinning plates, but a lot of them are just there for someone to chat to and line up a date with so I have something to look forward to and to keep the empty feeling at bay. I suppose there's also the whole ego stimulation side to it too as a way of building and maintaining my...

I was seeing someone who did the same before Christmas. We had such a great laugh when we were together, connected really well and there was a spark, but it just phased out - probably my doing. But it does show there are cool girls out there whose company you can really enjoy other than your ex.

Thanks for putting me back on track guys. It's difficult letting go of my ex because of the way we broke up and because I was the one who caused it, but I know I must aim for that state of acceptance now. It's over and the sooner that truly registers with me, the sooner I can feel content...

It all depends why you're in it. If you're out to impress your male buddies and build your reputation on forums, then you're right, but if you're out to get laid, date and meet new women, it doesn't really matter how you meet them as long as it works.

Thank you Lotus. I'd forgotten what awesome advice I give. haha. But seriously, you're right and it helps to read back what I wrote because everything there still applies. I am still focusing on getting back to my old self and becoming better than I've ever been, and I've come a long way since...