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But the point with these exes is that we were together for 1 to 5 years, so the initial setting up dates and early texting did nothing to jeopardise the relationship. As for getting dumped, this happened for various reasons that I fully understand, including one who wanted to marry me and have...

Harry: A lot of the advice you give here is very similar to what I've read in textbooks, but in my own experience you just can't make a date with a woman and expect her to show up a few days to a week later. In this day and age, or at least from my experience, if you don't contact her to...

Sounds very much like me there Espi. Before my ex and since my ex, I've been dating 2-3 girls a week and have about 10 plates spinning at the moment. I'm having quite a lot of luck meeting women on Tinder, getting numbers and setting up dates, and not many flakes. I'd say most of the dates...

I know what you're saying Espi and I think I need to start looking at it not like I'm doing something wrong or there's something wrong with me, but that these girls just aren't available for one reason or another. Like you say, nothing works 100% of the time. Sometimes I've played aloof and...

Well, I've tried the minimal texting response after the date and unfortunately it seems to have backfired. I contacted one girl 2 days after the date and just asked directly if she wanted to meet this week. She accepted and said she'd let me know what days she's free. I haven't heard from her...

I'm really appreciating all the responses and insight in this thread. Very helpful and giving me some ideas. I am a good looking guy and get a lot of attention based on how I look. I'm also 6'3 and in good shape, so I've never had much problem getting my foot in the door and the initial...

This is a really fascinating insight. So many of us guys think of women in general as ultra confident, with multiple guys in waiting and lots of tricks they play, and we forget that many women actually get very nervous, build up their hopes, fear getting played or hurt or falling for someone. I...

A lot of that does sound true in many of the instances I can think of, but hard to tell which one applies. I dated 2 girls last week, both with extremely high interest before and during the date. I left one day between texting one and 2 days before texting the other. They both accepted a...

For as long as I've been dating, I've been having the same experiences over and over again, and for a long time it really confused me. I've never believed in the whole "no texting before a date" rules or "you must call her only to make a date" because that's never worked for me. In my...

I'm generally not a fan of PUAs and their advice as it all seems aimed at trickery, deception and short term success. However, RSD seems a lot more focused on self improvement, self acceptance and becoming high quality, confident men who enjoy life and enjoy seducing women and I have so much...

I totally agree. When I was reading all the threads on this forum I was so disappointed to see people stop posting and to be left wondering if things ever worked out for them and how they finally managed to move on. When I started posting here I wanted to document pretty much everything I...

As far as I'm concerned, she deserved to be hit and she's lucky you aren't the kind of guy who would punch her back in the nose and kick her around the house to be frank. What did she expect? To punch you and for there to be no retaliation? The problem here is that if she ever tells this...

I totally agree and I've had the best experiences doing the same thing. I even started this way with my ex girlfriends. And I think that's a great move, ending on a high and being unpredictable how long you leave them waiting. Just enough to keep them chasing, not too much that it gets...

It sounds to me like you spiked her interest on your date and now she just can't get enough of you. Good work! It's at this point, I would recommend holding back on the texts. You don't need to escalate any more because her interest is already high and the more you text, the more you risk...

Hey guys, I hope you're all coping ok. I thought I'd check in with a little update. I was hoping I could return with news that I'd fallen in love with someone new and we were living out the perfect relationship, but I'm afraid that's not happened yet. I did start seeing a girl who I was crazy...

I think this sums up the key to keeping women interested. I've always had such good results from texing, emailing and even long calls in the initial stages, despite all the warnings not to do this. It allows me to build strong rapport, to the point where these girls have confessed feelings for...

I'm currently experimenting with this. I have 6 plates I'm working with and I'm contacting them in varying degrees. 1st, I'm texting regularly throughout the day. 2nd about 3-4 times per day. 3rd texting about 4 times per day and a few short replies here and there and a couple of calls just...

It's not a little thing. It's the type of brainwashing that has led nearly everyone here to fail with women, get walked over all their lives, get used and abused, allows women to cheat on a man and then take half (or more) of his hard earned money in divorce court. Getting laid is not a problem...

I'm not sure if this has been posted already, but I've just seen it and I'm feeling so p!ssed off right now! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hc45-ptHMxo THIS kind of thinking and this kind or propaganda is exactly why so many of us ended up coming to this forum in the first place. We got...

No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover I didn't read this book until quite recently, but it made me realise so many things about myself and really helped me to understand the whole Nice Guy vs. Bad Boy debate so much better. I also liked Doc Love's "The System", BUT some of his ideas are quite...